I`m baffled. I`m male, 50`s, reply to single female ads. politely,sometimes explicitly if ad. suggests this is ok,check to see if their read,most are-but not one has the common courtesy to reply -even if its "not interested"- let alone a "yes please"- what the hell am I doing wrong,I just don`t get it -or are All the female ads a wind up!!! Someone let me in on the joke please! Derek,( Northants) :doh:
No female ads are not a wind up, cant speak for everyone but do you have any idea now many pm's a single female gets, never mind a single bi female, its not an excuse but just to check, delete or reply to my inbox one day took me 3 hrs, and no thats not a boast as i am sure i am not one of the most popular on the site, it is merely a statement of fact. Earthy x
its frustrating for sure, however, i spoke to a single female who put an add in and got over 80 replies withing an hour! so hardly surprising she doesn't respond to all of them. keep searching though
Quote by earthchild No female ads are not a wind up, cant speak for everyone but do you have any idea now many pm's a single female gets, never mind a single bi female, its not an excuse but just to check, delete or reply to my inbox one day took me 3 hrs, and no thats not a boast as i am sure i am not one of the most popular on the site, it is merely a statement of fact. Earthy x
What Earthy said!! :thumbup: At the end of the day I would try to say a polite "thanks but no thanks" to anyone who had taken the time to write me a message if I they weren't what I was looking for, but it's not always possible due to the volume of messages. It's not just a male thing either - I've written to fems and couples and had no response at all either. It can be irritating but it's always going to be that way so try not to dwell on it too much.
Have to agree with gazundawun......sent out many replies.....try to chat online.....but to no avail! Still, it is a challenge and I still persist. Maybe one day that elusive couple or femail will respond to my charm and sexual advances!
Quote by fitfromavon Have to agree with gazundawun......sent out many replies.....try to chat online.....but to no avail! Still, it is a challenge and I still persist. Maybe one day that elusive couple or femail will respond to my charm and sexual advances!
oh i have no idea why you dont get replies, there is just tonnes of information about what you are looking for and what you like on your profile Earthy xx
I've advertised on so many sites over the past two years I've almost lost count of them. And no success for me either. I admit that I've only just become brave enough to put my picture up. Perhaps that's part of the problem. But I really don't understand why us lonely men outnumber the women so. Have they all turned into lesbians? Has the feminist movement given us a bad reputation? I don't know. All I know is that I could give someone a lot of pleasure but non-one seems to want it. I must admit I'm very close to giving up with Internet dating. Perhaps I'll have to stick to the DIY!
not sure what you wrote in your mails but can i suggest you do bit more work on your profile, every mail we get (like lady said earlier can get hundreds in a week), we always cross reference to there profile as well just to see if age, sexuality etc is same as what they've wrote in for example they may of wondered into say a bi chatroom, read our profile / ads and just to get a meet there suddenly bi in there mail and after cross referencing there profile says straight.
i agree with all the good advice here. but - for me its not all about your profile.....your reply is so important. "hi im 25 im willin 2 be there for u wen ever u need a cock in u im not massive but i have a gr8 tongue and a heavy n repeat cummer if u could handle it plz reply" to me, and i imagine a large percentage of the wider community on this site, the above just isnt acceptable (unless youre asking for that in your ad/profile of course)..... regardless of how amazing or non existant your profile is.....and as far as im concened, the wording on my profile makes that clear. why should i reply?
Quote by cockslut not sure what you wrote in your mails but can i suggest you do bit more work on your profile, every mail we get (like lady said earlier can get hundreds in a week), we always cross reference to there profile as well just to see if age, sexuality etc is same as what they've wrote in for example they may of wondered into say a bi chatroom, read our profile / ads and just to get a meet there suddenly bi in there mail and after cross referencing there profile says straight.
ooh i like you just to add to sexkittens post, why send a wink saying i like your profile have a look at mine if there is nothing there, and if you cant be bothered to actually string sentences together to pm someone and only send a wink why should they make the effort to reply. not saying this is what you do, i mean in general Earthy xx
Basically your ads are crap and your profiles non existent. Try this: http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/81218.html but don't whinge - be big boys about it, eh? Mal
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