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We are looking to get together with other likeminded reasonably attractive/slim couples late 30's early 40's.
We do have one problem - we wont post a pic - nothing to hide other than discretion.
We'll talk on the phone f-f, we'll be 100% honest, we'll do most of the travelling for a social meet and we wont ask to see a picture.
That said we know most couples will shy away. Single males however, in our experience, will take a chance and as a result that is where we have most of our experience. We have never had a single guy turn us down after a meeting. You might think that they never do - but we believe most have standards! (Might be wrong)
We are friendly, considered attractive and reasonably intelligent.
What should we do, are there other couples sharing our predicament?
I used to quite happily meet without seeing or sending pics, but I usually ask for them now. In my experience the majority of couples seeking couples do ask for pics at some point. Maybe you could send pics once you have knowledge that the other couple is genuine - after a phone call for instance? After all, if you're that close to meeting they're going to know what you look like soon enough anyway! You can always opt for sending pics with faces blurred or obscured.... surely that's not a problem for you?
If faces are obscured - then whats the point?
I do realise that it may seem unreasonable but it is a stipulation by (f) - no way would she want a picture of herself available on the net.
We have received pictures that look nothing like the sender when we meet or have had diiferent replies from different people using the same pics.
I respect that people have their own requirements - just wish someone would take a chance on us!!
But why should they? This trust has to go both ways. If your wife is so against her face in any pics, then I suggest you both get into the forums or the chat room and get to know people that way. Why not get an invite to a party or a Munch? Pics aren't required for them and you get to meet people face to face without any pressure.
Mal
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Well, some people (including myself and Satin) ask to see body pics. We don't expect people to send face pics with their first email, though we do like to see a body pic early on. I do see your point and I wouldn't send a clear face pic of myself to anyone who I had not chatted to first, either on the forum or by phone. It really is a personal thing and people have different criteria.... but you are limiting yourselves and possibly misisng out on some good genuine meets if you refuse to send any pics at all
Just my 2p! lol
Why should they?
That made me think - I guess there is no reason why they should!
Perhaps a munchie (never heard of one before today) would be a good way to get known.
Who do we get an invite?
Sorry - how do we get an invite?
Munches are social gatherings for people to get to know each other. Have a look on the stickies at the top of this forum for the ones being planned at the mo. You will get an invite as long as the organiser of the munch is sure you're genuine.
Quote by Happy Cats
We are looking to get together with other likeminded reasonably attractive/slim couples late 30's early 40's.
We do have one problem - we wont post a pic
And after meeting you i know why, you ugly MCB. rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: wink :wink:
Quote by Dino.
We are looking to get together with other likeminded reasonably attractive/slim couples late 30's early 40's.
We do have one problem - we wont post a pic
And after meeting you i know why, you ugly MCB. rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: wink :wink:
I wonder what ever happened to this character? Did he ever get to a "munchie".... and did he ever find that edit button?
guess we'll never know for sure.... :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
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We are looking to get together with other likeminded reasonably attractive/slim couples late 30's early 40's.
We do have one problem - we wont post a pic
And after meeting you i know why, you ugly MCB. rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: wink :wink:
I wonder what ever happened to this character? Did he ever get to a "munchie".... and did he ever find that edit button?
guess we'll never know for sure.... :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:mmmh, one of swinging heavens great unsolved mysteries. :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: maybe he discovered dogging in campervans and does that exclusively now dunno
rotflmao :rotflmao:
The joys of having people dredge up your old posts. lol
Quote by Dino.
We are looking to get together with other likeminded reasonably attractive/slim couples late 30's early 40's.
We do have one problem - we wont post a pic
And after meeting you i know why, you ugly MCB. rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: wink :wink:
I wonder what ever happened to this character? Did he ever get to a "munchie".... and did he ever find that edit button?
guess we'll never know for sure.... :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:mmmh, one of swinging heavens great unsolved mysteries. :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: maybe he discovered dogging in campervans and does that exclusively now dunno
A cat that goes dogging? Nah!! Maybe he just sleeps in it....
I did notice though, that as a newbie he came onto the site and his first post was a bit of a whinge.... maybe it's best he has disappeared, we don't want miserable bastards on here.... lol
lol :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Oh I love it!!!!! I was really confused at first cause I didn't look at the Date and I wondered why Happy Cats was complaining about never meeting people when I myself sat next to him at the Leicester Munch.... wink
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lol :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Oh I love it!!!!! I was really confused at first cause I didn't look at the Date and I wondered why Happy Cats was complaining about never meeting people when I myself sat next to him at the Leicester Munch.... wink

Helen
I'm glad you said that, as I have been puzzling over this as I'm sure I have met him and Mrs HC at least twice............ :lol:
Then I noted the date.................. rolleyes
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
This is just priceless
:thumbup: :cheers: innocent
Nice one mate
Dino, you are a very naughty and cruel man. smackbottom :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom:
Quote by Edin BBW
Dino, you are a very naughty and cruel man. smackbottom :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom:

But very funny as well lol
You lot of nasty nasty nasty pasties...................................................
Runs off to read all of your earlier posts and gets ready to bump them :twisted:
Dave_Notts
Quote by Happy Cats
We are looking to get together with other likeminded reasonably attractive/slim couples late 30's early 40's.
We do have one problem - we wont post a pic - nothing to hide other than discretion.
We'll talk on the phone f-f, we'll be 100% honest, we'll do most of the travelling for a social meet and we wont ask to see a picture.
That said we know most couples will shy away. Single males however, in our experience, will take a chance and as a result that is where we have most of our experience. We have never had a single guy turn us down after a meeting. You might think that they never do - but we believe most have standards! (Might be wrong)
We are friendly, considered attractive and reasonably intelligent.
What should we do, are there other couples sharing our predicament?

not suprised, not the most attractive pic i've seen

at least your jolly nature should win em over
:laughabove: Oh good greif! lol I must have had a right skinful when I saw him then!
Damn those beer goggles are so good I could sell them on ebay for a fortune! :lol:
The thing I noticed was MCB being all timid and........ shock horror..... nice :shock: :scared:
kiss
Gem. x -runs off to edit all her past posts ;)
Quote by meat2pleaseu
We are looking to get together with other likeminded reasonably attractive/slim couples late 30's early 40's.
We do have one problem - we wont post a pic - nothing to hide other than discretion.
We'll talk on the phone f-f, we'll be 100% honest, we'll do most of the travelling for a social meet and we wont ask to see a picture.
That said we know most couples will shy away. Single males however, in our experience, will take a chance and as a result that is where we have most of our experience. We have never had a single guy turn us down after a meeting. You might think that they never do - but we believe most have standards! (Might be wrong)
We are friendly, considered attractive and reasonably intelligent.
What should we do, are there other couples sharing our predicament?

not suprised, not the most attractive pic i've seen

at least your jolly nature should win em over
ROTFLMAO ..........
Cos he wasn`t here yesterday,,,, BUMP !!!!
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Cos he wasn`t here yesterday,,,, BUMP !!!!

Still no sign of MCB..... bump again.....
:P :P :P :P :P :P :P he he wink
My arm is long and my vengence is total!
Quote by Happy Cats
My arm is long and my vengence is total!

What like this :shock: :shock: :shock:
Quote by Dino.
My arm is long and my vengence is total!

What like this :shock: :shock: :shock:
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Yes just like that!
You lilly livered tree hugging commie you!
Quote by Happy Cats
My arm is long and my vengence is total!

What like this :shock: :shock: :shock:
]]
Yes just like that!
You lilly livered tree hugging commie you!
Bring it on pussy boy :sparring: :sparring: