After the successful singles social which I organised last year, I was 'thinking' of doing another, possibly around valentines or late Feb. The last one was for the 'totally single' only, so that everyone there knew beyond doubt, that everyone attending was available for play, or something more, should they click with someone... This time I was thinking of also including only those couples that 'both' play, or the one half of the couple that does. The idea of this is so that anyone who would like to approach someone, doesn't worry of offending by being 'over familiar' to someone who doesn't 'get active' and just likes to chat. Saying that, this would be totally a social & not a sexual meeting but would give an opportunity to meet the likeminded. Does this sound like a possibility?? Or would you prefere totally singles only?? Or not bother at all It would again be here in Loughborough. Thanx Minxie :rascal: xx
Quote by Buxom-Minx This time I was thinking of also including only those couples that 'both' play, or the one half of the couple that does.
Doesn't this mean everybody on the site? If you want singles or couples thats everyone else. Who else is left Minxie? Or have I missed another set of people in SH Dave_Notts
Quote by Dave__Notts This time I was thinking of also including only those couples that 'both' play, or the one half of the couple that does.
Doesn't this mean everybody on the site? If you want singles or couples thats everyone else. Who else is left Minxie? Or have I missed another set of people in SH Dave_Notts Yes Dave.. you have missed some others... The section in a partnership that Don't play. They are the half partnership that let their other half whilst they're happy only to watch or to let them go off and play. And after reading the many topics here over the last 2 yrs, I see that there are people here who prefere just the social side(chatrooms/forums) without meets etc, and thats their business, the rest of us can get on with ours :rascal: Anyway, to avoid last years endless grief in the forums, I thought I'd put the option forward for playing couples, esp those that would like to meet a single fem or a single guy without the pressure of a commitment. This post at the moment has not yet been made a definate event & very few have expressed wether they'd prefere it to be a total singlies thing?? or like the idea of the playing couples coming too?? So until I have much more informative feedback I will not be making definate plans. Thankyou to those that have posted so far x but can you please also let me have your preferences. Thankyou Minxie :rascal: xx
Hello Well yet again Minxie that 'does' have decided to take the 'bull by the horn'. May I put my name down please for what promises to be a great night..I missed the last one due to work commitment! I am not swayed either way for exclusively singles or with couples.. I think we should be inclusive. We should not behave like couples that treat singles like pariahs. The only speculation surely is that anyone that attends is by default available to play!!!! Regards amd kisses South
Yeah - what South Darky said! I generally don't meet up with couples normally - but that's only because of problems I've had with the male half of the couple not letting the female half of the couple know they were a) talking to me or b) meeting me. If it were a situation where both half of couple there and happy for play, then would be more relaxed to know I could approach the male half without causing problems within a couple, which is always something I avoid at all costs. Just my little opinion Scarlett xxxxx
Minxi - what a great idea - I'm happy either way but I see the point made by others preferring singles - please put my name on the list - a definite single (who loves to play), Jack
only me again..Minxi i'm happy to play with singles or couples ..as long as theres a click think either is fine..hope loads put there names down and the party takes place so you did organise a great bash last time..xx.
Quote by ScarletTheHarlot Yeah - what South Darky said! I generally don't meet up with couples normally - but that's only because of problems I've had with the male half of the couple not letting the female half of the couple know they were a) talking to me or b) meeting me. If it were a situation where both half of couple there and happy for play, then would be more relaxed to know I could approach the male half without causing problems within a couple, which is always something I avoid at all costs. Just my little opinion Scarlett xxxxx
Totally agree Scarlet that was my point entirely. Knowing everyone there was available 4 play without upsetting a partner, yaaay lol Anyway, all those who have replied are more than welcome should this go ahead for definate. Please keep your opinions coming in so I know which way to sway x Minxie :rascal: xx
I'd be interested either way nice to get socials round our way! But can i clarify... by couples do u mean couples that are happy to play or couples that are happy to play with singles? Ta Jus xx
Quote by Juicy_BBW I'd be interested either way nice to get socials round our way! But can i clarify... by couples do u mean couples that are happy to play or couples that are happy to play with singles? Ta Jus xx
Hi Jus Yes I see I hadn't made that very clear.. Thankyou for pointing it out x The couples must both be happy to play with singles. If they are only into other couples they cant attend anywhere. This is purely directed towards singles being able to approach any other guest there without fear of 'ooooo your a threat' type of attitude. Just all mutual friendliness Minxie :rascal: xx