Just to let you know im no longer arranging or attending the munch have asked tallnhairy to take over the reigns have filled him in with all the details required to go ahead with it.
I was left fealing a prize looser last night (see coment in dogging forum) whilst i new it would not be easy being a single verticallly chalenged male i did not expect to feal totally humiliated and fealing like shreks ugly step brother, slight exageration,but now feal unconfitdent and dont want to end up being a spare prick at an orgie so not going to put myself through it.
I hope everything does still goes on as planned and some valuble contacts are made.
A gr8 beleiver of the swinging lifestyle even if i dont fit in Pete
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re portsmouth munch
Hi Pete,
I'm sorry to read this.
A munch isn't an orgy, it's about making new friends and yes, perhaps contacts, in a no-strings, no-pressure environment. Please re-consider... a munch is the perfect way to get started on the scene, in my humble opinion. Give people a chance to get to know you as a person and things are far more likely to work out well.. and it won't do your confidence any harm just chatting to many of the pople on the scene.. they really are a great bunch. Don't let one bad experience put you off.. from what I read here, single guys need to be a bit resilient.. but then don't we all?
*hug*
Mandy
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Just to let you know im no longer arranging or attending the munch have asked tallnhairy to take over the reigns have filled him in with all the details required to go ahead with it.
I'm sorry to read this.
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dont want to end up being a spare prick at an orgie
A munch isn't an orgy, it's about making new friends and yes, perhaps contacts, in a no-strings, no-pressure environment. Please re-consider... a munch is the perfect way to get started on the scene, in my humble opinion. Give people a chance to get to know you as a person and things are far more likely to work out well.. and it won't do your confidence any harm just chatting to many of the pople on the scene.. they really are a great bunch. Don't let one bad experience put you off.. from what I read here, single guys need to be a bit resilient.. but then don't we all?
*hug*
Mandy
Well said Mandy. 
I didn't like to reply to Pete's post cos we're still newbies ourselves.
We're going to our first munch in August Pete, and if I thought it was going to be anything else other than a drink with all the wonderful forum posters, I would run a mile! :shock:
So, even if you're dropping out of the organising, try and pop along to the munch, even if it's only to show your face!
I didn't like to reply to Pete's post cos we're still newbies ourselves.
We're going to our first munch in August Pete, and if I thought it was going to be anything else other than a drink with all the wonderful forum posters, I would run a mile! :shock:
So, even if you're dropping out of the organising, try and pop along to the munch, even if it's only to show your face!
Sage advice mate, hope to see you when this pulls together, like the Croyden munch I went to, this will be a pure simple social evening, you will I am sure be welcomed and first drink would be on me...
If you don't feel like coming along obviously fully understand, however don't feel you should stay away as you said you would, if the urge takes you on the night just drop by and collect that drink.
If you don't feel like coming along obviously fully understand, however don't feel you should stay away as you said you would, if the urge takes you on the night just drop by and collect that drink.
The thing is Pete, PJ2 (?), is that it's the guys like you who make the whole thing worthwhile.
Yes, you get dozens of idiots doing the "I want a shag today", "I require a woman for me to shag" in their posts, and ones who PM you, email you, etc, who aren't into swinging, and just want to come here to shag some "easy" girl.
But if a girl wants or likes MMF - and most of us do - or a gangbang, /grandslam, or spunk bath - we need single guys and genuine ones are like gld dust.
Love Commando is another example (hi M if you're reading this) - he's really sweet and I talk to him on PM when we're in here or the chatroom, and he's a genuine guy. We haven't met yet, but hope to at a future munch.
I hope the Southern munch goes ahead and hope to get to meet some of the great people from this forum face to face (can't let the northerners have all the fun as we have said!)
People who just want to arrange sex can do so by replying to the ads, and many do and that's great.
Place an ad, answer them if you want - I do.
Go to a swinging party, pay your entry fee, and shag a stranger. I have.
But if you want a social side, we have these great forums, and we can take it further by meeting in person with a social meet - hence the munch.
I hope you make the Southern munch, PJ/Pete, coz it will be our collective loss if you don't
Rachel
Yes, you get dozens of idiots doing the "I want a shag today", "I require a woman for me to shag" in their posts, and ones who PM you, email you, etc, who aren't into swinging, and just want to come here to shag some "easy" girl.
But if a girl wants or likes MMF - and most of us do - or a gangbang, /grandslam, or spunk bath - we need single guys and genuine ones are like gld dust.
Love Commando is another example (hi M if you're reading this) - he's really sweet and I talk to him on PM when we're in here or the chatroom, and he's a genuine guy. We haven't met yet, but hope to at a future munch.
I hope the Southern munch goes ahead and hope to get to meet some of the great people from this forum face to face (can't let the northerners have all the fun as we have said!)
People who just want to arrange sex can do so by replying to the ads, and many do and that's great.
Place an ad, answer them if you want - I do.
Go to a swinging party, pay your entry fee, and shag a stranger. I have.
But if you want a social side, we have these great forums, and we can take it further by meeting in person with a social meet - hence the munch.
I hope you make the Southern munch, PJ/Pete, coz it will be our collective loss if you don't
Rachel
must admit didnt expect any reponse to my posts just goes to show you lot are human after all (mind you hope theres not to many liberal minded products of the sixties umongst you might well be locked up by tony blair b4 the munch :shock: )
I wouldnt be a bloke if i didnt hope to get a bit of fun out of the site but for me it is just as much about making friend s and chatting to people with a similar view on life so with that in mind i might re -consider on the def not going statement and might even have recovered enough by september to go through with the party
would not want to disappoint 
ty again :cheers: to the guys and
to the gals
Pete
I wouldnt be a bloke if i didnt hope to get a bit of fun out of the site but for me it is just as much about making friend s and chatting to people with a similar view on life so with that in mind i might re -consider on the def not going statement and might even have recovered enough by september to go through with the party
would not want to disappoint ty again :cheers: to the guys and
to the galsPete
