Hi - I've been to most of the clubs in the Manchester area, so can give you an opinion based on how I see them - however, it really does depend on whether you're looking to just watch, cop off with other couples, or whether you intend to play with single guys? If you are looking only for couples you could try Liaisons in Rochdale, they have couples only night on Saturdays and is fairly small - could be less intimidating for your first time? If you're looking to watch or you're open minded about what you intend to do, go to Partners in Bury - it does tend to get busy on a Saturday and it has great facilities. Those are the two I prefer but there are three or four others also - check out the clubs and parties page for reviews. I normally go to Partners on Saturdays but tomorrow I'm going to try Adam and Eves as I've never been there. Adam and Eves does have a bit of a reputation and as I've never been I can't say whether it's good or bad. If you really can't decide go to Partners, it's the best place I've been to on a Saturday night.