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Rochester. Frustrated.Where is it all going on?

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Hi. Just wondered if anything ever goes on in Rochester?
There are several bars/pubs where couples seem to be sitting,waiting,looking around bored stiff and i often wonder - Are they swingers? Is she? Would they?
Every Saturday after work we go to this one bar where bored couples just sit looking at each other. Guys come in,look at my lady then sit with their pint. I really wish just one time they would chat her up. If i spend any longer loitering around the stairs to the loo in the vain hope i will see her laughing with some guy i will get talked about.
Like a lot of couples i have a partner who has an extremely low sex drive. I would love to see her with another guy (dream come true) but whilst it has played its part as a fantasy in the past for us both she only discusses it when drunk and will never go through with it. I have considered trying to get her to a club but i know she wouldnt hear of it. Sundays we go to a pub in Luddesdown that used to have a reputation as a place where couples meet but after a year of this i can honestly report NOTHING.
I also have a lady friend who lives local and from time to time we meet people for fun but its so damn difficult for her arranging things around work/home etc.
Okay,whinge over.
Back to the main question.
Does ANYTHING ever happen in Rochester?
Anything?
Save me from my only highlight of the week - Shopping at Bluewater!