Might just give up! :cry:
Shall I change the add? Any ideas? Suggestions? Women?!
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Orgasminator
Quote by Manchester Lad 25.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/photo-adverts/swingers-70380.html
Might just give up! :cry:
Shall I change the add? Any ideas? Suggestions? Women?!
Getting a reply is difficult, your in comptition with several thousands of men on this site alone. Even if you get a reply, you still have a long way to go. At presant I think the average is one meeting for every ten replies received, and even then your not on a winner. :cry:
Most female swingers are at least ten years older than you, and very few indeed are looking for toy boys. I waited for nearly nine months after I placed my first advert, and I was lucky, because we hit it off. She was in her late teens and wanted a 'father figure' to go out with. It was a good job I wasn't her father or I would be doing time for . But it was nice while it lasted.
I know of one man on this site who has a very good 'rep' with the ladies, his advert had had over 1,800 views and no replies. As I have said in many posts on this site. Nothing is instant in Swinging, especially for a young single man. There are one or two who do suceed, but thousands fall by the wayside. Sorry Mancslad, but thats one of the facts of life your father probably didn't tell you about.
Harry0
Ladies, please check out add. no. 55283.
You may get a laugh, or I may be what your looking for.
At least it's nice to know you have a sense of humour Manc after how much our Gunners have been tearing up the league. But seriously just try to be yourself and don't expect to meet people immediately. Don't sound desperate like so many single guys do. Try and go to a few swinging clubs. It might cost you a few bob but at least you will meet people there and if you are nice you might get a few regular contacts. And remember just because you have paid the entrance fee doesn't entitle you to anything. Always ask first. Being nice, respectful and clean doesn't cost anything extra but will reap you lot's of dividends in the long run.
And finally...................what the woman says always goes.
Hard
And finally...................what the woman says always goes.
Hard
Sex God
Quote by Manchester Lad 25.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/photo-adverts/swingers-70380.html
Shall I change the add? Any ideas? Suggestions? Women?!
May I give you a female perspective of your ad?
Most women, certainly myself and any that I know, would not reply to an ad where the offer is to 'shag like a rabbit'.
I agree with HarryO that by far the largest group of female swingers are probably in their mid 30's and older.
Sadly for you and anyone of your age group, we also do not necessarily want good looking youger guys. We want polite manners, someone who can hold a conversation and most of all we want a guy who knows how to please us.
Your offer of 'now's your chance of getting hands on a young good looking guy' makes it sound like you're doing us favour :!:
Believe me, experience comes with age and we want experience, not young bodies :twisted: :twisted:
Tracy-Jayne
Quote by harry0
I know of one man on this site who has a very good 'rep' with the ladies, his advert had had over 1,800 views and no replies.
:doh:
No need to rub it in...............I thought we'd all forgotten about that!
Quote by RedHot
We want polite manners, someone who can hold a conversation and most of all we want a guy who knows how to please us..............Believe me, experience comes with age and we want experience...........
Did somebody call my name? :twisted:
Steve
well i do agree to some extent with red hot,but i am one woman who's not looking for the caring,romantic type i want a young guy to use me as his latest "boy toy" :twisted: :twisted:
It's just the way of the world different women like different things,and us women are spread over the whole of the there's a location issue there as well me thinks,wish i was further north now
It's just the way of the world different women like different things,and us women are spread over the whole of the there's a location issue there as well me thinks,wish i was further north now
Quote by steveg_nw
We want polite manners, someone who can hold a conversation and most of all we want a guy who knows how to please us..............Believe me, experience comes with age and we want experience...........
Did somebody call my name? :twisted:
Steve
Sorry Steve, I thought Red was calling my name there!
Mars and I are just really cautious. It makes no difference to us how subtle a persons intro is, or how descriptive their profile is. Until we have interacted with them somewhat, in a conversational likeminded manner, we are unlikely to take an interest. This is because for us, it`s the interaction which gives us a real idea of a persons character, not one or two posts, no matter how well those posts might be written.
So, you can either keep plugging away, let people get to know you, or wait out for ladies like Daffodil
, either way you will get there eventually.
Venusxxx
So, you can either keep plugging away, let people get to know you, or wait out for ladies like Daffodil
, either way you will get there eventually. Venusxxx
