Morning, Hope there are some people out there who can help me or give me some advice. I am a genuine, happy, fun loving guy, reasonably ok looking, keep myself pretty fit, but having trouble arranging any meets. Is it me??? am i doing something wrong??? have emailed quite a few ladies and couples, im always polite, never any pressure, but get very few replies. HELP anyone. Thanks Marty x
I've only ever met folks through the chatroom. Try to go on cam and let people see who you are, they don't always want to see your "bits"; if you don't have a face shot on your profile then girls are less likely to want to meet. Best way of all to meet is to go to a social near you.
also..remember..that a great number of ads are on here..are from non paying members..and they can not reply to your mail. Unfortunatly at the moment there is no way, to tell if they are fully paid up members or just registerd members !!!
Quote by skinny Best way of all to meet is to go to a social near you.
:thumbup: Get yourself to a few socials or munches or parties and get yourself known... There are a hell of a lot of single guys here and to be fair its not always possible for females or cpls to reply to every mail they get as quite often they get more than they can cope with...
Could it purely be so many men so few cpls wanting singles and again so few single fems....it doesnt have to be that theres anything wrong. Jojo xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
I've been swinging for around 6yrs now and I started out by going to the clubs and then site chat rooms from there the socials. It is definitely hard for us single blokes but not impossible, you only get out of it what you put into it, if you make and effort then it'll cum good for you. But remember for every genuine one of us single blokes there's at least 4 timewasters that piss of the couples that would entertain us. Good luck mate
Although you are out of our area I will tell you why we would not respond if we got an email from you (and this is by no means the same for everyone - just us) 1) No visible picture at all. We would want to get an idea of at least your body shape. 2) A bit more detail and humour in both your profile and advert. We like people with a bit of imagination. 3) You are advertising only to meet single women - you may want to create an ad for couples if you want to meet couples. Hope our observations are taken in the spirit that they were intended.
Although you are out of our area I will tell you why we would not respond if we got an email from you (and this is by no means the same for everyone - just us) 1) No visible picture at all. We would want to get an idea of at least your body shape. 2) A bit more detail and humour in both your profile and advert. We like people with a bit of imagination. 3) You are advertising only to meet single women - you may want to create an ad for couples if you want to meet couples. Hope our observations are taken in the spirit that they were intended.
Quote by Too Hot Although you are out of our area I will tell you why we would not respond if we got an email from you (and this is by no means the same for everyone - just us) 1) No visible picture at all. We would want to get an idea of at least your body shape. 2) A bit more detail and humour in both your profile and advert. We like people with a bit of imagination. 3) You are advertising only to meet single women - you may want to create an ad for couples if you want to meet couples. Hope our observations are taken in the spirit that they were intended.
Hi Marty, as a couple who do meet single males (very occassionally) I would have to add to what Too Hot have said. Try and get some pics on your profile which people can have a look at without having an invite to your private gallery (perhaps a body pic, or bum if you dont fancy showing all your body) and perhaps say a little bit more about YOU in your profile. As others have said, it is a numbers game and you have to show the couples/single females that YOU are the person they really want to meet rather than the other 150,000,000,000,000 single males who are looking Also, this thread may be an old one, but the advise in it is still good and hopefully that will give you some pointers - http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/20451.html Good luck and hope you have fun
Couldn't disagree with anything said above. I do wonder if this site is much use at all in terms of meeting people as a single guy? I've found the number of responses to polite, genuine emails to be incredibly low. The vast majority do not reply after reading, even to say no thanks. Perhaps the numbers of time wasters are so great that people have given up. You might have more luck at good club, especially if you are picky. Dave
Quote by ninetimesanight Couldn't disagree with anything said above. I do wonder if this site is much use at all in terms of meeting people as a single guy? I've found the number of responses to polite, genuine emails to be incredibly low. The vast majority do not reply after reading, even to say no thanks. Perhaps the numbers of time wasters are so great that people have given up. You might have more luck at good club, especially if you are picky. Dave
as somes who was been here for the best part of 5 years I can tell you that yes it does would.... but as some of other people has pointed out and stressed you do get out what you put in..... what makes someone for example stand out from the crowd.... do you use the local chatrooms, do you make the effort to make yourself known for example? do you go to the local socials and munches? they are a great way of networking with people you may not normally come across in a non-play atmosphere... the site does give you all the tools to make it work... from all the above, so working on a good profile, a good advert, and pics.....it is just a case of getting it all to work for you... hope that helps....
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