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would love to come babes
Sorry Kinder, this is a singles social, you have a girlfriend, that makes you 'NOT' single.
The Minx :rascal: xx
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SINGLES ONLY Social TONIGHT!!!! (25th) - Poss After do too x
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would it be possible to split the list into single fems and males so we can see the ratio and how it is building......... cheersYes of course Sara
list so far of each is =
Gents
Andjben2003
Big_Jamie
Bigdavep
Boldie
Cheshiredick
DeeCee
Firedrake1
FrowningMango
Grooveykats
Hammo373
Hj47
Imhorny4u
Jigsawman
John_uk2003
Kevr81
Lenross
Naughty_boy_37
Nice-Simon
Niceandgentle
Northants_David
Phildive
Redwine_lover
Robbiem
Simon2171
SouthDarky
Steff35
Theboogetman
Try2
Ubik6807
And reserve list on page 1
Ladies
123angel
Bbbuxie
Chaotic_spirit
H-X
Hotandwet
Ms_Minxie +2
Oneniteonly
Pickles2007
Portia
Play-g-j
Rampentbunny
Roxie
Sara_2006
Tiger_Lily
Tigeress41
Varca
AND COUNTING
list so far of each is =
Gents
Andjben2003
Big_Jamie
Bigdavep
Boldie
Cheshiredick
DeeCee
Firedrake1
FrowningMango
Grooveykats
Hammo373
Hj47
Imhorny4u
Jigsawman
John_uk2003
Kevr81
Lenross
Naughty_boy_37
Nice-Simon
Niceandgentle
Northants_David
Phildive
Redwine_lover
Robbiem
Simon2171
SouthDarky
Steff35
Theboogetman
Try2
Ubik6807
And reserve list on page 1
Ladies
123angel
Bbbuxie
Chaotic_spirit
H-X
Hotandwet
Ms_Minxie +2
Oneniteonly
Pickles2007
Portia
Play-g-j
Rampentbunny
Roxie
Sara_2006
Tiger_Lily
Tigeress41
Varca
AND COUNTING
Sex God
cheers minxie xxxxxxxxx
Happy christmas fellow n fellowess 
swingers xx
Would just like to add a reminder that this is a Social meeting, not a munch or a sexual meet.
The purpose of socials are litterally to socialise in a relaxed non pressured, fun enviroment. What you do afterwards is up to you
So pease be discreet and respectful to yourself as well as all others attending. That includes the taking of pictures. Always ASK BEFORE you do and gain permission from the gorgeous people you want in them.
Thankyou peeps, and dont forget, would still like a few more ladies to attend... There must be some more around and don't forget to reply any thoughts or questions here to keep this topic near to the top as possible 
The Minx :rascal: xx
swingers xxWould just like to add a reminder that this is a Social meeting, not a munch or a sexual meet.
The purpose of socials are litterally to socialise in a relaxed non pressured, fun enviroment. What you do afterwards is up to you
So pease be discreet and respectful to yourself as well as all others attending. That includes the taking of pictures. Always ASK BEFORE you do and gain permission from the gorgeous people you want in them.
Thankyou peeps, and dont forget, would still like a few more ladies to attend... There must be some more around
and don't forget to reply any thoughts or questions here to keep this topic near to the top as possible The Minx :rascal: xx
Sex God
any theme for the party
Sex God
what about dress to impress as in smart casual leaning more towards the smart or somthing else i just like to dress up
Quote by Sara_2006
what about dress to impress as in smart casual leaning more towards the smart or somthing else i just like to dress up
Smart, casual, dressy... sounds cool to me...
Dress to impress without looking like a christmas tree he he...
I too like dressing up a bit, a bit of bling to make me shine.. Yes lets
The Minx :rascal: xx
Orgasminator
anyone traveling from Derby to the social and back again???
I could do with scraping a lift.
donation to petrol for the favour if anyone can.
I could do with scraping a lift.
donation to petrol for the favour if anyone can.
Come on ladies????
anymore for anymore lol
Or do I sound desperate? hahaha
This could be the ideal time for meeting all those single men.... theres so many waiting, also fun to be had with the karaoke, could even have a competition if we fancied it???
LADIES
Singly ladies..... Come on down :P
The Minx :rascal: xx
anymore for anymore lol
Or do I sound desperate? hahaha
This could be the ideal time for meeting all those single men.... theres so many waiting, also fun to be had with the karaoke, could even have a competition if we fancied it???
LADIES
Singly ladies..... Come on down :P
The Minx :rascal: xx
Casanova
Shameless bump :P
Orgasminator
happy new year minx and bux babes luv u both to bits xxxxxxxx
Master of Sex
Quote by Ms_minxie
Dont forget ladies, you can bring a non sh (single) member as long as they are aware of the sh lifestyle.
And please also remember this is a social 'get to know you' meet not a munch or sexual meet.
Thankyou peeps
The Minx :rascal: xx
does that mean they can bring male friends or does it have to be female .....and what about the men ...can they bring female friends ...or are they not allowed to bring anyone
Sex God
Quote by Mr-cream123
does that mean they can bring male friends or does it have to be female .....and what about the men ...can they bring female friends ...or are they not allowed to bring anyone
The secret envelope that contains the rules hasn't been opened yet so an answer will be given shortly... ;-)
Master of Sex
Quote by Mallock2006
does that mean they can bring male friends or does it have to be female .....and what about the men ...can they bring female friends ...or are they not allowed to bring anyone
The secret envelope that contains the rules hasn't been opened yet so an answer will be given shortly... ;-)
or still being wrote
Oh ha ha Mallock 
Bitterness doesn't suit you
Anyway Mr-Cream123 if your really interested in the serious reply to your question, the answer is really on the first page that tells you all about this social.
i.e.
The male places are now full
Thus meaning... there are no more male places available unless anyone cancels, then I will be inviting those men already on the reserve list.
The ladies list is not yet full (is it any wonder with the thought of possibly meeting men who are likely to chat them up with whitty comments like Mallocks?) Happily Tho, Marrieds or attached, like said funny man :lol: are not allowed to attend (as this is a singles social) So maybe there will be some genuinely nice guys there who actually want to meet a quality female - THAT is why Im allowing females OR males to bring along a single female to help fill up the places. As long as males who bring females are not 'together' in any way.... This is fine.
I do hope this clears this matter? or I'll await next :silly: comment to appear..... Watch this space!!
The Minx :rascal: xx
Bitterness doesn't suit you
Anyway Mr-Cream123 if your really interested in the serious reply to your question, the answer is really on the first page that tells you all about this social.
i.e.
The male places are now full
Thus meaning... there are no more male places available unless anyone cancels, then I will be inviting those men already on the reserve list.
The ladies list is not yet full (is it any wonder with the thought of possibly meeting men who are likely to chat them up with whitty comments like Mallocks?)
Happily Tho, Marrieds or attached, like said funny man :lol: are not allowed to attend (as this is a singles social) So maybe there will be some genuinely nice guys there who actually want to meet a quality female - THAT is why Im allowing females OR males to bring along a single female to help fill up the places. As long as males who bring females are not 'together' in any way.... This is fine.I do hope this clears this matter? or I'll await next :silly: comment to appear..... Watch this space!!
The Minx :rascal: xx
Master of Sex
that didn't really answer my question.....are the single males allowed to bring a friend ..if they are female ...to try and equal the numbers ...which are and always will be male dominated .......i'm not knocking this social ...far from it ......but it smacks of desperation when you wanting female members of the site to bring a female friend along to try and level the numbers out..
Didn't just answer it now Mr-cream???
Ive put "THAT is why Im allowing females OR males to bring along a single female to help fill up the places. As long as males who bring females are not 'together' in any way.... This is fine."
That also includes in their personal life of course.
And yes, if you feel this 'smacks of desperation' then so be it!... Im not ashamed to admit there are not as many ladies as men who have applied... AND.. "IF YOU DONT ASK, YOU DONT GET"
Happy to wait n see.. Been funny tho, as most comments or questions Ive had have been from people who are not eligable to attend anyway... Certainly the silly ones though :lol:
The Minx :rascal: xx
Ive put "THAT is why Im allowing females OR males to bring along a single female to help fill up the places. As long as males who bring females are not 'together' in any way.... This is fine."
That also includes in their personal life of course.
And yes, if you feel this 'smacks of desperation'
then so be it!... Im not ashamed to admit there are not as many ladies as men who have applied... AND.. "IF YOU DONT ASK, YOU DONT GET" Happy to wait n see.. Been funny tho, as most comments or questions Ive had have been from people who are not eligable to attend anyway... Certainly the silly ones though :lol:
The Minx :rascal: xx
Sex God
A really serious reply to your personal remarks isnt worth it as it probably wouldn't be understood anyway so all that remains to be said is I have put an advert in the local paper for you :thumbup:
so all that remains to be said is I have put an advert in the local paper for you :thumbup: Tell you what I am strugglin with....
Why people keep asking questions that haven't presented a problem in the first place???
This social, like many other socials, will be male dominated... it really doesn't matter to me or most other accepted guests, especially not the females as it gives US more choice But as Ive been asked here in the 'sounding out' forum post about the ratio of men to women Ive tried to be as fair as possible to all.
Im sure all men on the reserve list will also be accepted to this social, making it even more men to us ladies, to fill up the vacant spaces.
And so, as a social, the ratio is fine, but as this is a 'meet other likeminded to yourselves singles social' where, as it says at beginning, you may even find a partner... the ratio of men to women just helps everybody... Thats all... All those attending or interested seem to understand this, but what makes this more complicated is the 'funny' people who like to comment with 'whitty' remarks, which is fine if thats 'your thing'
Maybe we should atart a 'whitty' comment thread to relieve those just itching to add!.. :lol:
The Minx :rascal: xx
Why people keep asking questions that haven't presented a problem in the first place???
This social, like many other socials, will be male dominated... it really doesn't matter to me or most other accepted guests, especially not the females as it gives US more choice
But as Ive been asked here in the 'sounding out' forum post about the ratio of men to women Ive tried to be as fair as possible to all.Im sure all men on the reserve list will also be accepted to this social, making it even more men
to us ladies, to fill up the vacant spaces.And so, as a social, the ratio is fine, but as this is a 'meet other likeminded to yourselves singles social' where, as it says at beginning, you may even find a partner... the ratio of men to women just helps everybody... Thats all... All those attending or interested seem to understand this, but what makes this more complicated is the 'funny' people who like to comment with 'whitty' remarks, which is fine if thats 'your thing'
Maybe we should atart a 'whitty' comment thread to relieve those just itching to add!.. :lol:
The Minx :rascal: xx
Casanova
I think Minxies only trying to 'level out' the field so to speak.
Pretty much like many single guys request a female pair up with them in order to get into certain clubs that have too many single men.
Text can be very deceiving...questions can be disguised as 'digs' but ALSO innocent enquiries can be misread & taken in the wrong context {before I get jumped on I'm NOT singling anyone out} I hate arguments & friction.
I have said before I thought Minxie was very brave.. and I still do. Hope it goes well & doesn't deter her from organising another social in the near future.
Anyway...in reply to easycome & also to the rest of SH
HAPPY NEW YEAR
:beer: :cheers: :thrilled:
Pretty much like many single guys request a female pair up with them in order to get into certain clubs that have too many single men.
Text can be very deceiving...questions can be disguised as 'digs' but ALSO innocent enquiries can be misread & taken in the wrong context {before I get jumped on I'm NOT singling anyone out} I hate arguments & friction.
I have said before I thought Minxie was very brave.. and I still do. Hope it goes well & doesn't deter her from organising another social in the near future.
Anyway...in reply to easycome & also to the rest of SH
HAPPY NEW YEAR
:beer: :cheers: :thrilled:
Quote by Ms_minxie
Happy christmas fellow n fellowess
Would just like to add a reminder that this is a Social meeting, not a munch or a sexual meet.
The purpose of socials are litterally to socialise in a relaxed non pressured, fun enviroment. What you do afterwards is up to you
Quote by Ms_minxie
And so, as a social, the ratio is fine, but as this is a 'meet other likeminded to yourselves singles social' where, as it says at beginning, you may even find a partner... the ratio of men to women just helps everybody... Thats all...
How is it a social, no-pressure event when you already stated that it's an opportunity to maybe meet a partner? Won't that put pressure on anyone? On the 'will it be feasible' thread, you said you wanted to do it so that singlies looking for like-minded folks might be able to met a longer-term partner. You said yourself that you'd like that.
Sounds like a dating event to me; evening up the numbers won't necessarily mean that each single will find a partner.
I think you are getting a little carried away here Minxie, this is a swinging site not Heaven Dating
Why don't you just allow any men on the reserve list to come? You are presuming that every female will fancy one male when they might not but they might like someone on the reserve list :dunno:
Buxie
When you 'pair up', you walk into a club with a person, that is all. Its not about "you may even find a partner", its convenience and nothing more.I am not attempting to dig at anyone but this social is taking the piss in my opinion. You can't advertise on the site for non-members, which you are more or less doing by allowing female friends of members but you are being sexist against other single current paid up members! Whats that all about???
Damn, I tried not to post but I can't help myself any more
Orgasminator
Quote by Ms_minxie
Ive put "THAT is why Im allowing females OR males to bring along a single female to help fill up the places. As long as males who bring females are not 'together' in any way.... This is fine."
Minx I’ve supported you on this right from the start but now it seems the rules are changing. Couples can come provided they are not attached to each other and are prepared to play single as soon as they walk through the door? Does this now include couples who swing alone?
If I came there with a single female then I would leave with the same female and her safety throughout the night would be my concern. I would not walk through the door at the social and forget that she existed and hope that she finds her own way home.
This is becoming a social like all other socials. If guys think that they are going to get lucky then they will be very disappointed like they are at all other social.
Well Dawnie...
If 'taking the piss'(your words) is your feeling then cool, that is your opinion. Though dissapointed with the wording.
I have already stated that men on the reserve list will more than likely be invited.. If the venue wasn't LIMITED NUMBERS it wouldn't matter to me who came of what sex!!! The venue has fire regs just like any public place and this makes rules to follow and I intend to respect them. If this means I have to make sure there are an EQUAL amount of spaces available for BOTH sex's to assure fairness then I will.
I have already noted that at other socials, non members are invited.. I asked about this and was told its perfectly acceptable.
Where the heck do you get the assumtion that everyone will fancy at least someone??? I feel your putting YOUR OWN interpretation into this event and trying to twist my words and discredit anything I say.. You are not interested in attending this event and thats cool.. but those that are seem happy to put their names down, those that arn't have not and thats all fair. I have hid nothing in the fact that of course me AND others would like a long term partner (plus others who darn't always admit it) but where do I look for one that likes the lifestyle I do? I have more chance on SH than your mentioned Dating site, why do you frown upon it? Are you sayin that everyone on SH is ONLY out to have sexual contact with anyone and no-one has ANY chance of that CHANCE meeting of Mr/Mrs right??? Cos I know thats not true cos its already happenned here.
So how is putting a room full of single people together a pressurred enviroment?? Im not stating that they HAVE to pair off... infact I'll be suprised if anyone does.. but you never know. This social is just providing an oppertunity, nothing more. I don't agree Im getting carried away.. with what? but I do believe all the negative comments from the select FEW are all thats presented a problem, its the same few again and again.
When anyone 'pairs up' it is for THEIR own reasons, not always the reasons you state.
I will not be bullied into submission by ANYONES comments and I will not back down. I will NOT break SH rules. I WILL continue to do as right as I can by everyone eligable who wishes to attend this social. What I would like to see is those attendings comments, how do you all feel and do you think Im wrong in anyway?
Happy to listen to the people who have put their names down to attend, after all, Im breaking NO rules that Im aware of.
And if you'd like to pick out comments to mix n match then fine, Im happy to politely explain theie meanings.
The Minx :rascal: xx
If 'taking the piss'(your words) is your feeling then cool, that is your opinion. Though dissapointed with the wording.
I have already stated that men on the reserve list will more than likely be invited.. If the venue wasn't LIMITED NUMBERS it wouldn't matter to me who came of what sex!!! The venue has fire regs just like any public place and this makes rules to follow and I intend to respect them. If this means I have to make sure there are an EQUAL amount of spaces available for BOTH sex's to assure fairness then I will.
I have already noted that at other socials, non members are invited.. I asked about this and was told its perfectly acceptable.
Where the heck do you get the assumtion that everyone will fancy at least someone??? I feel your putting YOUR OWN interpretation into this event and trying to twist my words and discredit anything I say.. You are not interested in attending this event and thats cool.. but those that are seem happy to put their names down, those that arn't have not and thats all fair. I have hid nothing in the fact that of course me AND others would like a long term partner (plus others who darn't always admit it) but where do I look for one that likes the lifestyle I do? I have more chance on SH than your mentioned Dating site, why do you frown upon it? Are you sayin that everyone on SH is ONLY out to have sexual contact with anyone and no-one has ANY chance of that CHANCE meeting of Mr/Mrs right??? Cos I know thats not true cos its already happenned here.
So how is putting a room full of single people together a pressurred enviroment?? Im not stating that they HAVE to pair off... infact I'll be suprised if anyone does.. but you never know. This social is just providing an oppertunity, nothing more. I don't agree Im getting carried away.. with what? but I do believe all the negative comments from the select FEW are all thats presented a problem, its the same few again and again.
When anyone 'pairs up' it is for THEIR own reasons, not always the reasons you state.
I will not be bullied into submission by ANYONES comments and I will not back down. I will NOT break SH rules. I WILL continue to do as right as I can by everyone eligable who wishes to attend this social. What I would like to see is those attendings comments, how do you all feel and do you think Im wrong in anyway?
Happy to listen to the people who have put their names down to attend, after all, Im breaking NO rules that Im aware of.
And if you'd like to pick out comments to mix n match then fine, Im happy to politely explain theie meanings.
The Minx :rascal: xx
Quote by Ms_minxie
Well Dawnie...
If 'taking the piss'(your words) is your feeling then cool, that is your opinion. Though dissapointed with the wording.
I have already stated that men on the reserve list will more than likely be invited.. If the venue wasn't LIMITED NUMBERS it wouldn't matter to me who came of what sex!!! The venue has fire regs just like any public place and this makes rules to follow and I intend to respect them. If this means I have to make sure there are an EQUAL amount of spaces available for BOTH sex's to assure fairness then I will.
I have already noted that at other socials, non members are invited.. I asked about this and was told its perfectly acceptable.
Where the heck do you get the assumtion that everyone will fancy at least someone??? I feel your putting YOUR OWN interpretation into this event and trying to twist my words and discredit anything I say.. You are not interested in attending this event and thats cool.. but those that are seem happy to put their names down, those that arn't have not and thats all fair. I have hid nothing in the fact that of course me AND others would like a long term partner (plus others who darn't always admit it) but where do I look for one that likes the lifestyle I do? I have more chance on SH than your mentioned Dating site, why do you frown upon it? Are you sayin that everyone on SH is ONLY out to have sexual contact with anyone and no-one has ANY chance of that CHANCE meeting of Mr/Mrs right??? Cos I know thats not true cos its already happenned here.
So how is putting a room full of single people together a pressurred enviroment?? Im not stating that they HAVE to pair off... infact I'll be suprised if anyone does.. but you never know. This social is just providing an oppertunity, nothing more. I don't agree Im getting carried away.. with what? but I do believe all the negative comments from the select FEW are all thats presented a problem, its the same few again and again.
When anyone 'pairs up' it is for THEIR own reasons, not always the reasons you state.
I will not be bullied into submission by ANYONES comments and I will not back down. I will NOT break SH rules. I WILL continue to do as right as I can by everyone eligable who wishes to attend this social. What I would like to see is those attendings comments, how do you all feel and do you think Im wrong in anyway?
Happy to listen to the people who have put their names down to attend, after all, Im breaking NO rules that Im aware of.
And if you'd like to pick out comments to mix n match then fine, Im happy to politely explain theie meanings.
The Minx :rascal: xx
well said...............
i wonder why people want to stop others having fun?
