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Quote by Ms_minxie
I cant believe you didnt read the 'reasoning' behind Why Singles Socials...... I have stated it on nearly every post I've put up.
"I personally, and I know it's been said by others too, sometimes find it difficult trying to find out who's available for meets at a mixed social, without looking like a 'maneater or partner stealer'. I am far from that and if I want to share sex with anyone I usually get quite passionate, loads of kissing etc. I don't feel comfortable doing that with someone else's partner(in a couple)& Im sure they wouldn't want me too. This may be a swinging site but Im sure it wouldn't be appreaciated by a woman if I went to her man and asked if I could have a passionate session with him, probably get a smack! :boxing:
Those couple's I have shared fun with I've never been able to really let go & fulfill my desires. And isn't that what this is all about?? Comfortable, safe, clean, mutual fun?
Minxie xx
Yes, I did read it, hence me asking people, and not one particular person
I know your reasoning, I havent heard many others being as vocal
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There are actually three questions
correct,thats what you get when adding to a thread and then rushing off to
i wasn't intending to say its a bad idea i was trying to get the singles view if we held a couples only social (like ive been asked numerous times to do)would they feel grieved they wouldn't be allowed to attend.
if we attend any social we look through the list and check out all the profiles to see if anyone attending has similar likes as us and although we'el chat to anyone there, we do make a beeline for the people with same interests as us.
There are actually three questions
correct,thats what you get when adding to a thread and then rushing off to
i wasn't intending to say its a bad idea i was trying to get the singles view if we held a couples only social (like ive been asked numerous times to do)would they feel grieved they wouldn't be allowed to attend.
if we attend any social we look through the list and check out all the profiles to see if anyone attending has similar likes as us and although we'el chat to anyone there, we do make a beeline for the people with same interests as us.
Well cockslut
first things first
As a single I wouldn't mind at all if you organised a couples only event. After-all, if thats what people say they want then why not. In my eyes the only unfair bit about it is if they were ALL couples only. staggerred ones seems a good idea
Love Minxie xxxx
first things first
As a single I wouldn't mind at all if you organised a couples only event. After-all, if thats what people say they want then why not. In my eyes the only unfair bit about it is if they were ALL couples only. staggerred ones seems a good idea
Love Minxie xxxx
)I have a fb and so have been to munches and socials both on my own and as part of a couple and I must say I do tend to feel that they're aimed mainly at couples, I can only imagine how marginalised the single guys feel. A singles night, where everyone is one the same level pegging so to speak would be great. I am still a little worried about married 'singles'. And the East Midlands is bloody miles away 
H.x
H.x
Orgasminator
Minx I’ve already told you what I think of your idea and reading the thread I have noticed that most of those who have expressed an interest in attending are male and very few females. I also know that some who have responded have regular partners though they class themselves as singles.
There seems to be two types of singles i.e., those who are single and those who are single with a partner.
There seems to be two types of singles i.e., those who are single and those who are single with a partner.
Sex God
Quote by Try2
Minx I’ve already told you what I think of your idea and reading the thread I have noticed that most of those who have expressed an interest in attending are male and very few females. I also know that some who have responded have regular partners though they class themselves as singles.
There seems to be two types of singles i.e., those who are single and those who are single with a partner.
There are more single males on the site than single females, so maybe the proportion is representative?
You're going to make it very difficult to organise if you try to weed out any who have a fuckbuddy/partner, regular or not. Will you want all those who are married but playing alone, to be excluded?
If Minx is organising, I'm sure she'll set the criteria for eligibility to attend.
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Quote by H-x
As a complete aside, Try2, I love your avatar
H.x
she's called licking pussy.....I love licking pussy
hiya there ms minxie... thats a great idea!!! im a genuine single guy. and id be up 4it.. put me down on the list please when it gets started and if you need any help with the sorting out. id be more than happy to lend you a hand if you like.. cheers.. and i hope this idea gets all sorted soon
and if you need any help with the sorting out. id be more than happy to lend you a hand if you like.. cheers.. and i hope this idea gets all sorted soon Hi
I am a single guy and up for attendance.
I have read over the page of comments and am bit lost at this "I am a cpl and I want to come too?" Its a singles nite for singles seeking singles. Just like the adverst in the site, guy seeks girl, girl seeks guy. Its the same idea?
Sorry but Champion the idea plz
Simon
xxxx
I am a single guy and up for attendance.
I have read over the page of comments and am bit lost at this "I am a cpl and I want to come too?" Its a singles nite for singles seeking singles. Just like the adverst in the site, guy seeks girl, girl seeks guy. Its the same idea?
Sorry but Champion the idea plz
Simon
xxxx
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Quote by Nice-Simon
Hi
I am a single guy and up for attendance.
I have read over the page of comments and am bit lost at this "I am a cpl and I want to come too?" Its a singles nite for singles seeking singles. Just like the adverst in the site, guy seeks girl, girl seeks guy. Its the same idea?
Sorry but Champion the idea plz
Simon
xxxx
Only one person has asked if he/his wife will be excluded and explained that they play as singles due to childcare issues. I haven't seen any other couples ask to be considered? Nowhere has anyone said 'I am a couple and I want to come too'.
Me Again
It was not meant literally. But the thread goes on about two people meeting and become fuck Buddy's can they attend, and couples who like singles can they attend?
May be call it a one on one nite?
I offer a comment and get shot for it?
Maybe I should just put "I will come put me down on the list plz."
It was not meant literally. But the thread goes on about two people meeting and become fuck Buddy's can they attend, and couples who like singles can they attend?
May be call it a one on one nite?
I offer a comment and get shot for it?
Maybe I should just put "I will come put me down on the list plz."
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Quote by Nice-Simon
Me Again
It was not meant literally. But the thread goes on about two people meeting and become fuck Buddy's can they attend, and couples who like singles can they attend?
May be call it a one on one nite?
I offer a comment and get shot for it?
Maybe I should just put "I will come put me down on the list plz."
You offered a comment as if someone had said something they didn't. You didn't get shot
Mod
Only thing is??
Is there enough single females going to go so there is an even balance or you could end up with 70 singles guys and three females
woohoo!! shouts the females
Is there enough single females going to go so there is an even balance or you could end up with 70 singles guys and three females
woohoo!! shouts the females Sex God
Quote by woohoo
Only thing is??
Is there enough single females going to go so there is an even balance or you could end up with 70 singles guys and three females
Still a singles social though :wink:
Quote by boyabouttown
But generally agree - how will you 'vet' people and I guess, speaking as one half of a couple, does it REALLY matter as long as everyone knows what they are there for? Or would only a guy say that? lol
Yes indeed, single seeking single. And my special badge says I seek a fem or a guy?
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Quote by Freckledbird
Hi
I am a single guy and up for attendance.
I have read over the page of comments and am bit lost at this "I am a cpl and I want to come too?" Its a singles nite for singles seeking singles. Just like the adverst in the site, guy seeks girl, girl seeks guy. Its the same idea?
Sorry but Champion the idea plz
Simon
xxxx
Only one person has asked if he/his wife will be excluded and explained that they play as singles due to childcare issues. I haven't seen any other couples ask to be considered? Nowhere has anyone said 'I am a couple and I want to come too'.
That would be me/us/me
I know what I mean :lol2:
i go to a social for a social...not to "hunt" or feel like im on a "meat market".
im not sure what the purpose of a singles only social for me would be? is it to cop off with a like minded male and have a relationship? is it to play? or is it just social?
i dont go to socials for the first two and the last...well...a run of the mill social with attendees from all walks of life and relationship backgrounds will do for me
i do think tho, that if you build it, they will come go for it minxie :thumbup:
im not sure what the purpose of a singles only social for me would be? is it to cop off with a like minded male and have a relationship? is it to play? or is it just social?
i dont go to socials for the first two and the last...well...a run of the mill social with attendees from all walks of life and relationship backgrounds will do for me
i do think tho, that if you build it, they will come
go for it minxie :thumbup: Quote by boyabouttown
But generally agree - how will you 'vet' people and I guess, speaking as one half of a couple, does it REALLY matter as long as everyone knows what they are there for? Or would only a guy say that? lol
Yes.
Yes.
Just one evening where you didn't have to worry about whether the guys you were meeting were lying to a wife/partner for a quick shag would be nice. Or is that too much to ask?
H.x
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Quote by H-x
But generally agree - how will you 'vet' people and I guess, speaking as one half of a couple, does it REALLY matter as long as everyone knows what they are there for? Or would only a guy say that? lol
Yes.
Yes.
Just one evening where you didn't have to worry about whether the guys you were meeting were lying to a wife/partner for a quick shag would be nice. Or is that too much to ask?
H.x
Playing devils advocate here...
That could never be guaranteed anyway could it
*sigh*
I've been watchin the lastest posts going over n over the same points n feeling very disheartened.
To sexkittenhfx re-
'im not sure what the purpose of a singles only social for me would be? is it to cop off with a like minded male and have a relationship? is it to play? or is it just social?'
A social is not to play unless it is held in the right facilities. This would be just in a pub, hopefully with a private room so you know we all 'belong' & know the people we're chatting to are likeminded. As for the possibility of a relationship, who knows, like minded couples have to meet somewhere, why not meet somewhere where you know up front what we all like? What happens after is for the 'couple' to sort out.
You may be looking for a regular 'FB' who doesn't have to ok times and dates with a partner!
You may just want to meet other singles as the last dance can make you feel very single at mixed do's... I don't know....
It is just to socialise with likeminded others who would be genuinely available to choose which of the 'above' suits them.
But I know I WILL be organising a singles social now, I think in the new year when Ive sorted a suitable pub. It could crash & burn or it could become a few times a year--who knows.
We'll never know till we try!
Minxie xx
I've been watchin the lastest posts going over n over the same points n feeling very disheartened.
To sexkittenhfx re-
'im not sure what the purpose of a singles only social for me would be? is it to cop off with a like minded male and have a relationship? is it to play? or is it just social?'
A social is not to play unless it is held in the right facilities. This would be just in a pub, hopefully with a private room so you know we all 'belong' & know the people we're chatting to are likeminded. As for the possibility of a relationship, who knows, like minded couples have to meet somewhere, why not meet somewhere where you know up front what we all like? What happens after is for the 'couple' to sort out.
You may be looking for a regular 'FB' who doesn't have to ok times and dates with a partner!
You may just want to meet other singles as the last dance can make you feel very single at mixed do's... I don't know....
It is just to socialise with likeminded others who would be genuinely available to choose which of the 'above' suits them.
But I know I WILL be organising a singles social now, I think in the new year when Ive sorted a suitable pub. It could crash & burn or it could become a few times a year--who knows.
We'll never know till we try!
Minxie xx
Quote by Mallock2006
Playing devils advocate here...
That could never be guaranteed anyway could it
Sadly not, there will always be people, both men and women, who think it's acceptable to lie to and cheat on their spouse/partner, the 'what they don't know can't hurt em' school of thought.
What I don't understand is why some people are finding a 'single's night' as a concept so hard to fathom. There are numerable socials and munches organised aimed mainly at couples, why shouldn't there be an event aimed at single people where they can go and socialise and meet other single people, what's so wrong with it?
H.x
Quote by Ms_minxie
*sigh*
I've been watchin the lastest posts going over n over the same points n feeling very disheartened.
To sexkittenhfx re-
'im not sure what the purpose of a singles only social for me would be? is it to cop off with a like minded male and have a relationship? is it to play? or is it just social?'
A social is not to play unless it is held in the right facilities. This would be just in a pub, hopefully with a private room so you know we all 'belong' & know the people we're chatting to are likeminded. As for the possibility of a relationship, who knows, like minded couples have to meet somewhere, why not meet somewhere where you know up front what we all like? What happens after is for the 'couple' to sort out.
You may be looking for a regular 'FB' who doesn't have to ok times and dates with a partner!
You may just want to meet other singles as the last dance can make you feel very single at mixed do's... I don't know....
It is just to socialise with likeminded others who would be genuinely available to choose which of the 'above' suits them.
But I know I WILL be organising a singles social now, I think in the new year when Ive sorted a suitable pub. It could crash & burn or it could become a few times a year--who knows.
We'll never know till we try!
Minxie xx
Go for it Minxie..its got the possibility of being a good evening i think....worth giving it a go
RWL
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