Social meets?

21 Sep 2005

Hello everybody, i'm baz, fairly new to s.h., been swinging with various partners for a couple of years but i'm looking to meet new friends who enjoy the lifestyle, maybe on a social basis to get to know them and vice-versa. Would appreciate any advice from people reading this as to the best way of achieving this. After all, no one can have too many friends! smile

21 Sep 2005

Quote by Bazza64
Hello everybody, i'm baz, fairly new to s.h., been swinging with various partners for a couple of years but i'm looking to meet new friends who enjoy the lifestyle, maybe on a social basis to get to know them and vice-versa. Would appreciate any advice from people reading this as to the best way of achieving this. After all, no one can have too many friends!

Hiya Bazza
:welcome: to :swingingchair: heaven
You may want to get yourself know in the Cafe or the chat room and look at going to some of the munches - that way you get to meet people in person
Anyway hope you enjoy yourself here wink

21 Sep 2005

Thanks for the advice Clair (hornylittleblonde), and the best wishes. I'll certainly follow it, and try to make friends that way. Just to prove my ignorance - what is a "munch"? I assume its a get-together for chat, drinks and nibbles? smile

21 Sep 2005

Quote by Bazza64
Thanks for the advice Clair (hornylittleblonde), and the best wishes. I'll certainly follow it, and try to make friends that way. Just to prove my ignorance - what is a "munch"? I assume its a get-together for chat, drinks and nibbles?

hi baz welcome hun. you was right about the munches they are social evenings take a look on lets meet forum have fun hun xxxxx

21 Sep 2005

Quote by Bazza64
Thanks for the advice Clair (hornylittleblonde), and the best wishes. I'll certainly follow it, and try to make friends that way. Just to prove my ignorance - what is a "munch"? I assume its a get-together for chat, drinks and nibbles?

Try the following link Bazza64, which will give you low down on a munch
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/terminology/munch.html
The only advice I can give, is what the others have already said, join in with the banter either in here or better still, in the chat room and once you have been around a while and people get used to seeing you around, put your name down for one of the Munches!
Good luck and have fun.

21 Sep 2005

Many thanks to you all for the advice. Will check out the chat room, cafe, and link over the next couple of days. Sounds a great way to get to know people from the swinging community and make good new friends. Looking at the ads on here, it does seem that some single guys just think its a free-for-all and that actually making effort to get to know someone as a person isn't necessary!