sorry,another first timer

30 Aug 2005

right ive had enough(hello by the way,im tinka),no point me thinking about it all the time,im married,male, 35,str8,and i want some fun,weather it be watching or taking part etc,this married stuff is driving me mad at the moment,i want to do something for my self,and others obviously,im from medway,if any one can oblige i would be gratefull,or send me a pm for a bit more info, i appologise if my post doesnt come across right but i maybe need to learn a bitmore from the forum,i cant put an add up because of the e-mail address at home, im sure you understand,and thanks for having a read, bye

30 Aug 2005

i didnt think it would come across right,and im not after one thing,honest,so maybe i should get to know you all first,ive kind of introduced myself,i just need to find my way around first i suppose,sorry if i come across as just another first timer after one thing.

30 Aug 2005

Quote by tinka
i didnt think it would come across right,and im not after one thing,honest,so maybe i should get to know you all first,ive kind of introduced myself,i just need to find my way around first i suppose,sorry if i come across as just another first timer after one thing.

Is Mrs tinka aware of your ..........er.............new interests? dunno

It comes across that you're a cheating husband and frankly I don't think you'll find many females on here who would be interested in being a party to the deception, if indeed this is the case.
This is first and foremost a swinging site. If you don't already know it swinging involves complete trust and openness between couples who are in a relationship.
'Course I may have done you an injustice and if so my apologies but that's the way it appears to me.

30 Aug 2005

your right i know,but ive been driven to it,just thought its best to be honest from the start,at least on here,if i dont have ago ill never know i suppose?.
im sure im not the only married person on here am i,im probably being a bit nieve,have i shot my self in the foot then

30 Aug 2005

Quote by tinka
im sure im not the only married person on here am i,im probably being a bit nieve

Indeed you are not the only married person on this site who is here without their partner's knowledge or consent.
However, at least you are honest about it right from the start, which is more than some . . .
People can now make up their own minds if they wish to meet with you or not.
As for your being naive, well yes you may be if you think you can drop in for a quick shag. I'm afraid it doesn't work that way confused

Swingers like to make friends first and foremost, and we don't shag everything with a pulse, despite what tabloid papers would have people believe rolleyes

I have to say you sound pretty desperate about your home situation and quite frankly I don't feel swinging is going to be the answer for you.
Before you take the leap into this lifestyle, you need to completely re-appraise your situation. Otherwise you could be heading for a severe fall sad

I hope things work themselves out for you :therethere:
Tracy-Jayne

30 Aug 2005

I would listen to RedHot, she's got it spot on!
Dogging takes a lot of patience and you will go out time and time again and see absolutely nothing. Except Deer lol

Seriously, get a marriage councillor or visit a massage parlour. I apologise if this comes over the wrong way I just agree with RedHot, I don't think Dogging is the answer for you.
Either way, I hope you sort things out!

31 Aug 2005

i appologise if ive upset anyone,i wasnt after one thing hence the second post,im not near divorce either,just thought i could maybe chat with people with a more broadminded attitude to life,lack of forum experience meant it come across a bit desperate and suicidal i guess,which could'nt be further from the well redface

31 Aug 2005

Quote by tinka
i appologise if ive upset anyone,i wasnt after one thing hence the second post,im not near divorce either,just thought i could maybe chat with people with a more broadminded attitude to life,lack of forum experience meant it come across a bit desperate and suicidal i guess,which could'nt be further from the well

tinka
Introduce yourself in the cafe and join in the fun. I've no doubt you'll make friends on here.
Whether or not you take the friendships further and into sexual activity is entirely between you and them. wink

:wink:
Good luck! :thumbup: