Me and my wife were thinking of going to a club, we have never been and we thought we would like to sample it. Would we be able to watch others ?we would play as a couple ? We don't want to get hustled into swapping but would like to see how every thing works .
Any names of clubs for newbies like us would be appreciated
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/clubs/
That is a list of the clubs, just find one near to you.
I am moving this out of the chatroom area, as it is not a chat issue.
Have fun
You won't be hassled or hustled into swapping at any decent club, and - as pointed out - there's a list on this site with more details about them all and reviews.
My favourite one in the S of England is Abfabs, right next to Heathrow. I'd suggest maybe a Tues or Weds night to start with, as it's quieter, and you can soak up the atmosphere in peace, have a swim, sauna, chill out, etc.
Suggest you find a club that seems to suit, then give them a ring to ask about practicalities - dress code, valuables, parking, bringing drinks, etc. You'll get a feel for the place by chatting to staff on the phone, and when you go, make sure you explain to the staff it's your first time and they'll show you round and explain what you need to know.
We've all had a first time once, so we've all been there!
Good luck, and I hope you find some fun if/ when you go. Maybe come back and let us know how you got on?