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Taking The Plunge

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Well, yep, I'm a single guy. So this is probably more an excersize in typing than a serious attempt to meet anyone!
My sex life is dormant, at best. I'm average. I don't do crowds, so pubs, clubs etc are right out. I don't think I'm quite ready to dive in and meet a couple. In fact, I'm just a little shy at best, so I'm not sure I'm all that ready to meet a single woman either, but it's celibacy or make an effort, and celibacy just doesn't suit me.
I suppose what I'm hoping for is to chat to a few people, and hopefully find one or two (or more, given the chance) who I click with, and end up meeting, maybe once, maybe twice, who knows? A relationship is not what I'm after, and I can assure you there'll be no moves towards one from my side of things. I suppose basically what I want is sex, but on the other hand, it would be nice to manage a conversation before, hopefully after, and if fitting, during.
In terms of the sort of woman who 'd find attractive, I'd be lying if I said looks were totally unimportant, but someone who I can feel comfortable with, even if it's only for one night, is more important than someone who'd sell shampoo. Someone who knows what they want sexually turns me on, I'm not naturally dominant in any way, preferring give and take. Oh, and someone who actually finds me attractive enough to want to play with me might be a plus smile Late 20s, fairly tall, average build.
Can meet in Dorset or parts of Hampshire, would rather not invite anyone round here, after all, it's a bit single man like! redface
I suppose I ought to have submitted this as an ad, but I tend to find forums are a little more relaxed, and more likely to give feedback.
:welcome: mate
Good ADD.
Goodluck
:welcome:
Good effort mate, a lot better than most of the one to two line posts put on here!
Thanks smile
Needless to say, the female response hasn't exactly been overwhelming.... But I expected that really, so not to worry. Nothing ventured nothing gained and all that I suppose.
As for the ad, I'm sure there's things I left out, or things I put in, that I shouldn't have, but better to be honest than pretend to be some super star adonis sex god ideal that the moment reality hit I'd never live up to!
edited due to context shattering typo!
Nice ad, though you do seem to be rather negative in the second paragraph, you start by ruling nearly everything out! I think you need to sound certain that you would like to meet a female!
I would advise you to put an avatar for your posts, and also put your (rough) location underneath - these are all things that catch the reader's eye and could help you.
Pics help a lot - i know what you mean about preferring to post here, with more chance of feedback (QED!), but you could have an ad as well, with a link to it in your sig, and pics on an ad do help.
Just a few ideas that might help, good luck.
Mike.
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Nice ad, though you do seem to be rather negative in the second paragraph, you start by ruling nearly everything out! I think you need to sound certain that you would like to meet a female!

Good point. I suppose I don't really know what I want, which doesn't help. No relationship/ ties, but other than that, who knows? I don't confused
I guess the idea was to put as little as possible about myself out in public (I'm rather shy) and see what came of it. I'm sure there's a woman out there somewhere who would get the gist of my post, and contact me, but of course, just because she's out there doesn't man she's in here! I really don't want to be too open, or misleading, but maybe I was a little too cautious?
I would advise you to put an avatar for your posts, and also put your (rough) location underneath - these are all things that catch the reader's eye and could help you.

Good idea, althoguh I'm too random to be a regular fixture around here, but I'll have a think about that and see what I come up with smile
Pics help a lot - i know what you mean about preferring to post here, with more chance of feedback (QED!), but you could have an ad as well, with a link to it in your sig, and pics on an ad do help.

I know it may sound silly, but I feel more comfortable posting my desire for casual lust on a forum than in a proper ad - And as for pics, I'd rather provide them privately. I suppose I have issues with net privacy and safety, which might be odd for a guy, but I've been online for a while, and had my fair share of idiots sad
Thanks for the tips :)
Don't worry mate, things will sort out and your life will change and celibacy will be a thing of the past!
Thought it time to post again, just so as people don't think I was just doing one of those one post wonders.
Not had time or mood to pop in and reply properly or come up with any bright ideas (which is why I can't see me being very active on these boards), but I know you all just can't wait for my next dazzling display of sexual magnetism... rolleyes
Bloody good post m8.
Be positive and you will be fine.
Gill x