My sex life is dormant, at best. I'm average. I don't do crowds, so pubs, clubs etc are right out. I don't think I'm quite ready to dive in and meet a couple. In fact, I'm just a little shy at best, so I'm not sure I'm all that ready to meet a single woman either, but it's celibacy or make an effort, and celibacy just doesn't suit me.
I suppose what I'm hoping for is to chat to a few people, and hopefully find one or two (or more, given the chance) who I click with, and end up meeting, maybe once, maybe twice, who knows? A relationship is not what I'm after, and I can assure you there'll be no moves towards one from my side of things. I suppose basically what I want is sex, but on the other hand, it would be nice to manage a conversation before, hopefully after, and if fitting, during.
In terms of the sort of woman who 'd find attractive, I'd be lying if I said looks were totally unimportant, but someone who I can feel comfortable with, even if it's only for one night, is more important than someone who'd sell shampoo. Someone who knows what they want sexually turns me on, I'm not naturally dominant in any way, preferring give and take. Oh, and someone who actually finds me attractive enough to want to play with me might be a plus

Can meet in Dorset or parts of Hampshire, would rather not invite anyone round here, after all, it's a bit single man like!

I suppose I ought to have submitted this as an ad, but I tend to find forums are a little more relaxed, and more likely to give feedback.