Thanks to iluvminis,cheshireguy and pumapaul

15 Mar 2005

hi there
the meet set off to a bad star cause 6 SINGLE guys didnt show,
this afternoon me lucyslovely vicky uk and audiman and lee was there and the 3 perfect gents that turned up, a big thanks to them smile

lots of fun had by all :rascal:
hope to meet again soon
jo xxxx

15 Mar 2005

Quote by gingerjo-lee
the meet set off to a bad star cause 6 SINGLE guys didnt show

Sounds like their loss! At that rate you need to invite 27 single guys to get the 9 you wanted... now we know why mother nature arranged for the ratio of guys to ladies on here to be the way it is. rolleyes

15 Mar 2005

If I hadn't read it with my own eyes I wouldn't have believed it.
SIX single guys arrange to meet gingerjo-lee and don't turn up.
They are giving us single guys a bad name.
They must have had something else pretty good come up.
As a newbie and a swinging virgin I can only use my furtile imagination to picture what happens at gingerjo-lee's meetings.
Well, the pictures on your web sites help my imagination a little!!!
Very nice gingerjo, very nice.
Only wish I was closer and had the courage.
I'll just continue watching from the backseat, on my own if that's ok with you.

15 Mar 2005

well what can i say but im glad there are some GEN guys out there smile

cya soon
jo xxxx

15 Mar 2005

They must be mad not showing I wish we had somebody like gingerjo in Staffordshire. Why oh why do single blokes arrange to meet and then don't turn up and give us genuine blokes a bad name and make it very hard to meet couples off SH because they think we are all the same and don't trust us. You know what the answer is to name and shame them.

15 Mar 2005

cya soon
jo xxxx
Ooooo! I hope so!!!

15 Mar 2005

hiya
would love to name and shame but your not allowed sad

1 guy phoned me at 1pm saying hes lost when the meet started at 12 and at 1pm we was all in my bedroom having fun hehehheh
and 1 guy said he got lost :( and i belive him as he mention some names of streets i know so he will get the chance to come to another meet again some time soon smile

thanks jo x

15 Mar 2005

Unbelievable mad

. Look on the bright side - you missed out on meeting at least 4 real prats. rolleyes

15 Mar 2005

i had fun any way smile

and all the other did to lol
having more later on in cupids as im still gagging :)

15 Mar 2005

Unbelievable indeed, but not suprising..... I was dogging last week and four guys didn't show (two have explained but the others haven't), and I did a meet a while back and only one guy turned up. It happens a lot, it is REALLY annoying, and it puts people off (well, it puts me off anyway) from arranging meets cos you know the time you spend with arrangements is wasted.
Thing is, the ones that don't show up still try to get meets in the future and then whine when they don't get invited evil

. Those of us who do arrange meets now and again get to know who the genuine people are, and we invite those back again and again cool

8-) 8-)
Oh well, glad you had a great time with the ones that did show lol

:lol: :lol: :lol:

15 Mar 2005

I know there is a policy of not naming timewasters but if they don't show and don't even have the decency to let you know why they didn't show they should be named or banned from this site. I know what the reaction will be but it really annoys me and these tossers we don't want on SH anyway so I don't see the problem with naming them.

15 Mar 2005

Quote by Alan
I know there is a policy of not naming timewasters but if they don't show and don't even have the decency to let you know why they didn't show they should be named or banned from this site. I know what the reaction will be but it really annoys me and these tossers we don't want on SH anyway so I don't see the problem with naming them.

Easy mate.....calm down.......you don't speak for everyone when you say "we"....sometimes there is always a good reason why people don't turn up...what you may call a timewaster might just be someone who lost his bottle...it does happen,and i am sure they are embarrased about it now...it's never a good idea to name and shame people without the facts!!

15 Mar 2005

well i had a good time , thanks to lee and jo for arranging it , also it was great to meet some nice people thanks pumapaul

15 Mar 2005

I did say da69ve that if they had not been in touch and given a reason why they hadn't shown then they should be named and shamed. Nobody is suggesting that we should just put names out willy nilly.

15 Mar 2005

I echo what pumapaul has just said,thanks Jo and Lee,it was great fun and we had some laughs as well,hope to see you all soon,LOL,john,x

15 Mar 2005

well boys

you know your always welcome round at mine for fun
hope to see you soon
jo xxxx

15 Mar 2005

Quote by Alan
I did say da69ve that if they had not been in touch and given a reason why they hadn't shown then they should be named and shamed. Nobody is suggesting that we should just put names out willy nilly.

Either way.....it's still not a good idea to name and shame,what will it lead to next.....naming and shaming shit shags!.....lol

15 Mar 2005

Gingerjo, just read the post ... gutted that i didn't know but probably not as much as you ... by the sounds of things you have had even more fun with another 4 single guys!!
The real reason for the post was to say ... fantastic personal site ... looks like you've had some fun!
Just hope i can too being relatively new on here!

15 Mar 2005

someone new on this site,im sorry that these people let you downand as i live in stockport,i hope to get the chance to meet you sometime!

15 Mar 2005

hope to get to meet you soon to scrum30 smile

15 Mar 2005

as i said i am totally new to this and find it a bit confusing especially the abbreviations.i have seen on some of your responses that you say do not pms, i assume this means personal message so how do people get the info on where you are going to meet?

15 Mar 2005

Well i did say in the chat room this morning 5 at the most would turn up lol
Don't they make you laugh, all you get in the chat room is men moaning no1 wants them and then they go and do this? i know there are some gen single guys out there but the wasters out number them and it does put you off.
Anyway sounds like you had fun anyway so thats all that matters biggrin

P.S i think we should name and shame these kinda people lol

15 Mar 2005

All these guys not turning up only helps us genuine guys and we become more in demand - what a bugger, eh? lol

:twisted:
Mal
wink

15 Mar 2005

Well that is a shame on those single guys, silly them! By the look of your pics you had a good time anyway! Would i be wrong in thinking that?? You any idea when your next meet is jo as i would love to come ( pardon the pun ). Im new to this sort of thing too so have nooo idea of what to expect.
Rugbyman. biggrin

16 Mar 2005

Hi ya Gingerjo
Stephen here.....Glad to hear you all had a good time even if the other guys didnt turn up but also please remember it works both ways. I have arranged some meets from the site and out of 5 that were arranged......2 came to nothing...... and I had travelled from cumbria to Manchester twice and booked and paid for a hotel room only to be let down on 2 occassions and it was 2 ladies who let me down (you know who you are!) so there are still some genuine lads out here too you know hehe anyway thats enough moaning from me. Take care and enjoy!! wink

16 Mar 2005

tell me which posts ive made and said no pm's ?
i always put on pm me or leave me a message on the message as then i know whos been in touch abnout the meet
no meets during the day for a cpl of weeks as kids break up from school on fri sad

cya soon jo xxxx
ps gen guys keep a eye out on the FORUMS for further meets smile

16 Mar 2005

the more i read this section and the ad's section the more it seems that there are a lot of people who just don't turn up for pre-arranged meets it is a shame as the other person would have gone to a lot of trouble to get ready and there excitment would have been building all day all because someone coudn't be bothered to turn up and if they could not turn up for a genuine reson what the f**k is wrong with letting that person know they will probly still be a bit miffed but at least they are not left waiting for someone to show who just isn't going to show sad

16 Mar 2005

all of the 6 guys had my phone number and only 1 phoned at 1pm to say hes lost but the meet was at 12 midday lol
jo xx