Hi guys
I am new to the scene and i agree that this is not a quick shag site
just finding my feet with forum posting so be patient LOL.
I am willing to come to a local munch meeting if anyone will have me as a guest
heres hoping.
I do prefer that i meet people in the flesh so to speak rather than talk to a blank screen full of meaningless words sometimes its infuriating that someone says will meet then they don't turn up after spending hours talking and pic swaping then they let you down.
I know a few of you are gona jump on the band wagon and say whooo your new here how can you make comments like that ( well to be fair in my comment its this) you don't muck people about by stating will meet then don't and factual you do meet then your like icicles if you know what i mean .
gona stop dribbling on just needed to get that little lot of my chest.
thanks for your time :arrow:
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Sex God
What's your point? 
Hi again folks
Appears that my message fell on deaf ears.
DON'T MUCK PEOPLE ABOUT after several hours chatting and pic swapping.
or is that not simple enough for a few people.
Oh OK lets see someone come back with either a stupid comment or a sly one .
maybe even try to take the urinal out of my comment well fool that you are it only servers one purpose in life for you and that is to make you into a bigger fool than you already are.
if this comment offends then thats the purpose its intended for the small minded..
fool is the person that riddicules the minority with no understanding...................
Go swap a wife for a life.................
Appears that my message fell on deaf ears.
DON'T MUCK PEOPLE ABOUT after several hours chatting and pic swapping.
or is that not simple enough for a few people.
Oh OK lets see someone come back with either a stupid comment or a sly one .
maybe even try to take the urinal out of my comment well fool that you are it only servers one purpose in life for you and that is to make you into a bigger fool than you already are.
if this comment offends then thats the purpose its intended for the small minded..
fool is the person that riddicules the minority with no understanding...................
Go swap a wife for a life.................
Sex God
you got lucky tonight mate.... if we weren't all busy doing other things...i will have a run at it...
sean xxxxxxxx
sean xxxxxxxx
Sex God
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Orgasminator
Quote by bluexxx
What's your point?
I'm not sure, but I think he's upset after coming across some time-wasters/pic-collectors?
Maybe drago could've expressed yourself abit better? It is annoying to have your time-wasted, but there are genuine people here too. So chill man, your new here and will realise that there are plenty of time-wasters about (often single males too). And you'll probably come across more aswell.
Now theres something for you to look forward to
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have you taken this up with the individual(s) you arranged to meet? Either way, it seems kinda pointless posting here.
There are a lot of fakers replying to ads, and no doubt a fair few registered on the forum. That's the nature of the internet. If you're going arranging meets without making sure they are who they say they are, i've no pity for you.
If you've been able to ascertain that they're at least who they say they are, i'm sure they probably didn't mean to stand you up. Either way, take it up with them, posting here's silly.
There are a lot of fakers replying to ads, and no doubt a fair few registered on the forum. That's the nature of the internet. If you're going arranging meets without making sure they are who they say they are, i've no pity for you.
If you've been able to ascertain that they're at least who they say they are, i'm sure they probably didn't mean to stand you up. Either way, take it up with them, posting here's silly.
Mod
Quote by drago
Hi again folks
Appears that my message fell on deaf ears.
DON'T MUCK PEOPLE ABOUT after several hours chatting and pic swapping.
or is that not simple enough for a few people.
Oh OK lets see someone come back with either a stupid comment or a sly one .
maybe even try to take the urinal out of my comment well fool that you are it only servers one purpose in life for you and that is to make you into a bigger fool than you already are.
if this comment offends then thats the purpose its intended for the small minded..
fool is the person that riddicules the minority with no understanding...................
Go swap a wife for a life.................
What shall I do today to enhance my sex life? I know, I'll join a swingers site
Now, what is the best way to go about joining in and making friends? I know, I'll insult them and put on my 'newbies' protective device so that no-one will have a go at me, otherwise they would be accused of newbie baiting!! That should REALLY help me have more fun on here!!
fool is the person that riddicules the minority with no understanding...................So if I am a fool for ridiculing the minority (I take it you mean newbie?) with no understanding, I dread to think what you are to come on here and make presumptions about us.
Go swap a wife for a life
Think about it - I've been a newbie, everyone on this site was at some time or another, so we DO know more about that position actually, than you do. We who have stuck around and been successful on here, have done so by NOT having a go at others carte blanche, but only at those who give us reason to.
Am I having a go at you? Probably, but my reason is, you haven't given me a reason to think you're a great guy and someone I would like to share a beer with or dogging locations or even invites. I don't have a problem with that because I give a hell of a lot back to this Site and the members on here who are worth it and have proved that they are here to enjoy and enhance the Site. You seem to be struggling with this issue.
Take a deep breath, have a think about what you have posted and consider whether your way is the way forward. Whatever you decide will be the right reason for you. There are loads of advice threads on here, have a look at them. They are aimed at newbies to help them understand what they have joined and how to get the best from the site.
Mal
:x You post on here and blatantly take the urinal out of newbies ( new members) with out giving them any sort of guidance and then expect those ( new members) to follow the rules or guidelines that have been laid out to be Followed.Why then did several of you reply to my comments without reading inbetween the lines proper.
These comments where to provoke rather than critises like the few that have done which is the point i have put forward in the above comments.
I don't presume nothing nor, do i judge people on what they say if i think someone is wrong i will voice my opinion.
all i ask is that someone gives me guidance in this forum.
and the few that replied to my earlier posts above read them carefully and read between the lines maybe then you will understand what i was trying to say or where i am coming from.
Happy Days!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: Drago welcome to swinging. If you can't take knock backs and let downs then the doors that way :arrow: :arrow:
Swinging is not as simple as you think. Most members on this site are looking to become friends via the forum and munches before swinging. There is unfortunately alot of people who pretend to be swingers, but for one reason or another, are either pics collectors, uncertain and bottle it at the last minute or just plain old time wasters who get their kicks from the anticpation and build up.
Either way my advice if you are genuine is to hang about in the forums and chat to the regulars, get yourself along to some munches and soon you will start to feel part of this website and enjoy what it has to offer.
Good luck
Swinging is not as simple as you think. Most members on this site are looking to become friends via the forum and munches before swinging. There is unfortunately alot of people who pretend to be swingers, but for one reason or another, are either pics collectors, uncertain and bottle it at the last minute or just plain old time wasters who get their kicks from the anticpation and build up.
Either way my advice if you are genuine is to hang about in the forums and chat to the regulars, get yourself along to some munches and soon you will start to feel part of this website and enjoy what it has to offer.
Good luck
Orgasminator
Quote by Norfolk_couple
Drago welcome to swinging. If you can't take knock backs and let downs then the doors that way :arrow: :arrow:
Swinging is not as simple as you think. Most members on this site are looking to become friends via the forum and munches before swinging. There is unfortunately alot of people who pretend to be swingers, but for one reason or another, are either pics collectors, uncertain and bottle it at the last minute or just plain old time wasters who get their kicks from the anticpation and build up.
Either way my advice if you are genuine is to hang about in the forums and chat to the regulars, get yourself along to some munches and soon you will start to feel part of this website and enjoy what it has to offer.
Good luck
That was very nicely put I reckon. I think you should listen to this drago and realise that none of the regulars go looking to pick on newbies unless they.................. like you have.
Newbies are fully formed people who arrive on the site equipped with a personality, a set of opinions and an attitude.
When someone posts for the first time, they do so in a way which displays personality, opinion and attitude. It may be a true and natural reflection of them or an image they choose to portray, or a mixture of both.
What then happens is, their post causes a response in other people, based purely on what is in that post. That response is rarely, if ever, down to some hidden agenda, it is simply a response to what is read.
When I offer support and help to someone that is new on the site, it is not because they are new, it is because when I read their first post, it made me want to support and help them.
Your post evoked a particular reponse in some people, and a different one in others. Do not presume that you will come on here and everyone will react to you in the same way, or in the way that you want them to.
lhk
Kat
When someone posts for the first time, they do so in a way which displays personality, opinion and attitude. It may be a true and natural reflection of them or an image they choose to portray, or a mixture of both.
What then happens is, their post causes a response in other people, based purely on what is in that post. That response is rarely, if ever, down to some hidden agenda, it is simply a response to what is read.
When I offer support and help to someone that is new on the site, it is not because they are new, it is because when I read their first post, it made me want to support and help them.
Your post evoked a particular reponse in some people, and a different one in others. Do not presume that you will come on here and everyone will react to you in the same way, or in the way that you want them to.
lhk
Kat
Quote by manofmuchfun
you my friend are making my blood boil, you come on here and accuse us of Blatantly having a go at newbies and want some sort of guidance ?
I'm trying to be tolerant because you are a newbie......you want guidance ? go read the rules......and come back with a better attitude ..........dont bait members here cos you might just lose..........and your havent done yourself any favours with your posts........i'm not allowed to be rude......but I have two words if you continue.......ones off !
doesnt matter to me my friend ....I can have fun with or without you being here ? your no value to me........just think !
Tolerance indeed LOL i smite your words with infavorable glee that this provokes thee
i have read several post over the last months since joining this forum i do understand how forums work and how people react.
Don't come at me with verbal B.S i am not baiting any member of this forum.
and i have been polite in asking or commenting and my attitude is not like the one of yours i have not abused anyone up till now but this just reinforces my point of (new members) coming on and ask a half decent question and getting blowback comments like yours.
So here it is polite like ( ALL I ASK IS THAT NEW MEMBERS BE RESPECTED) and not have the P*** taken out of them or is that 2 much too ask from a few of the forum members.
And life is not about humiliting others for your own sport but to build trust and freindships
making fun of others is not nice this forum should be about Peace,love and harmony.......
This is my final statement
As i give up arguing any sort of point as it seems to fall on deaf ears
no more comments to my post
i will post occasionally
Sex God
I can't even be bothered reading this shite any more.
Go troll another board Drago
Go troll another board Drago