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Timewasters strike again

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Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Sorry I should have said, that in my bview if people dont shoe then naem and shame.
SORRY
Ron aka Smokey13

Sorry if this offends you Smokey but we had a meet planned for tonight and have had to cancel due to family issues. Should we be named and shamed? Just because something has come up which means we cant go out, does that mean all our future meets should be cancelled? If for example, the person we was meeting gets a bit pee'd off at us for cancelling (even though we have a genuine reason) and decides to name and shame us, do you think we would ever get another meet?
A name and shame thread or a verification thread is open to abuse. For example, say for some reason or other I take a dislike to a certain member. I decide Im going to make it hard for that person to get meets, perhaps they turned me down or something, so I decide to put a bad post about the person being a timewaster and not attending a meet they had arranged. That other person knows nothing about the so called meet, but who is telling the truth? me or them? How do we prove it? Its their word against mine.
Name and shame and verification threads/posts are too open to abuse and is one of the reasons why they are not allowed on this site.
Timewasters, sorry but it happens, both in real life and on here, but you just have to pick yourself up and move on, hopefully learning from the experience and being a bit more careful with any future meets you arrange.
i dont know what shoes have to do with it....but can NWC's post please be a sticky? its the perfect answer, in my opinion, of course. smile
couldent agree more with NWC ,ther is pple we have met and gone seperate ways wen we wernt intersted in them and ther is some pple we have met and they have wanted to go seperate ways as they wernt interested in us sometimes pple have a genuine reason and some may not have been but it is all about personal choices some of our best friends on here we have not got on with sexually and we still class them as friends but, what about the ones we have or been redjected by be very easy for us or them to post a load of bs just to hapmer ther chances of fun on here anyhow hope u have fun on here we have had our share of fun timewaters and some downright idiots but it aint all bad
Happy New Year everyone.
I think that this is getting a bit too deep now so lets call it quits.
It was only a idea of mine but I will withdraw it if it goes against most peoples idea.
Sorry if I have offended anybody and look forward to meeting up with a couple in the North West ie Cheshire, Lancs Yoks and Merseyside who would like to meet in the New Year.
Sorry if i hav e offended anybody bit as long as we ca n agree to disagree then I would be Happy.
Ron aka Smokey13
Quote by Smokey13
Sorry if i hav e offended anybody bit as long as we ca n agree to disagree then I would be Happy.

You've definately not offended anyone, and that is the good thing about this forum. You can put your ideas down and then someone will no doubt come along and pull them to pieces lol Debate is good and at least you did put your ideas on the forums and was willing to participate in the discussion.
All the best for 2008 wink
Its the trouble maker again,
Its nice to know that sum people do at least agree in principal with my views. It restores the faith in the human race.
Right lets get onto another subject. Are there any couples out there who would like to meet up with me for a meet at sum so please contact me through the swinging heaven mailboxs.
Hope to hear from you soon.
Ron aka Smokey13
Quote by mr-mish69
To be honest we have not had a lot of time wasters we have a system that works for us dunno if it is this system that does it but here it is, first add them to messenger (don't know if we are allowed to say that lol)
if they ask for a sexy pic within 4 sentences they are blocked deleted as simple as that, if they pass that test we will then chat for a few hours getting to know them usually its easy to suss time wasters out ie couples you chat to them if they say I instead of we or my wife has just gone to shops every time you chat to them.
Its a pity we have to go to these lengths but thats the sad reality of the swing scene nowadays.

Its a system that works for us too