To club or not to club..that is the question?

21 Oct 2005

I was recently asked by someone to meet me at a club, rather than a hotel or home.
I'm just wondering what peoples views are with particular respect to meeting a single guy?
personally i prefer couples home, then hotels....as i dont feel super comfortable in a club setting, but that is just me.
T
p.s. if only my flatmate was more open minded! lol

21 Oct 2005

Club

21 Oct 2005

Think its a safety thing tim, allows a lady/couple to suss you out before giving you their home address, or getting into a dodgy situation with a guy she/they don't know.

21 Oct 2005

I would always say to a single woman meet in a club for your own safty and any guys or couples should understand that a single fem should have the rights to chose where they meet after all they are the ones taking the biggest risk (in my opinion) other that meet where you feel most relaxed

21 Oct 2005

...i guess i would always suggest meeting for a drink first with any single female or indeed any couple, just to suss them out ( and for them to suss me out ). Wouldnt meeting in a club put extra pressure on the situation? particularly if they are nervous?
T

21 Oct 2005

Quote by timdotcom
...i guess i would always suggest meeting for a drink first with any single female or indeed any couple, just to suss them out ( and for them to suss me out ). Wouldnt meeting in a club put extra pressure on the situation? particularly if they are nervous?
T

Clubs are fun. Good night out. More relaxing, no extra pressure at all.

21 Oct 2005

Quote by timdotcom
Wouldnt meeting in a club put extra pressure on the situation? particularly if they are nervous?
T

It's easier for all parties to find something else to do at a club if it doesn't work out. Not so if you're stuck in a hotel room or house. I would say there is more pressure in a hotel/house meet.

21 Oct 2005

Quote by bluexxx
...i guess i would always suggest meeting for a drink first with any single female or indeed any couple, just to suss them out ( and for them to suss me out ). Wouldnt meeting in a club put extra pressure on the situation? particularly if they are nervous?
T

Clubs are fun. Good night out. More relaxing, no extra pressure at all.
:thumbup: Yup, what she said...

21 Oct 2005

Quote by bluexxx
...i guess i would always suggest meeting for a drink first with any single female or indeed any couple, just to suss them out ( and for them to suss me out ). Wouldnt meeting in a club put extra pressure on the situation? particularly if they are nervous?
T

Clubs are fun. Good night out. More relaxing, no extra pressure at all.
actually to be honest i feel more pressure at a home meet, to me clubs are a good place to meet new people, you meet up have a drink and if you do not get on go your own way, if you go out to someones house do you not find it a lot harder to say...sorry but your not what i am looking for? now some guys would be ok with that and other would tale offence and get a bit nasty, so to me being in a place where you can get help if needed is just the sencible thing to do

21 Oct 2005

Club definitely.

21 Oct 2005

Club for us as well.
J & S

21 Oct 2005

Defintely club. As has been said no pressure and can still have a nice chilled night if it has a sauna or jaccuzzi.
:love: xxx

21 Oct 2005

We only do clubs. If you arrange a meet at a club and they don't turn up then nothing is lost and there is much less pressure than a private meet. Also, I would think that a good group session is quite hard to arrange as a private meet but is very easy to find at a club.

21 Oct 2005

,m.

21 Oct 2005

Quote by naughtynymphos1
if you go out to someones house do you not find it a lot harder to say...sorry but your not what i am looking for?

Never had that problem ohh thats probably because I have only been invited to someones house ONCE and we hit it off in the pub we met at first. It's all well and good meeting at a club if you have one less than two hours away from you sad

Regards
Harry Jones

22 Oct 2005

club definitely.....
u never know when u r going to find a stalker type.........it`s bad enough when it`s just dirty phone calls... heaven forbid he knows where u live!!!!!!!!
and a lot of couples have kids at home
2`s

22 Oct 2005

i would also say there is no problem meeting at a club.
however......from a single fellas point of view......the membership fees for some clubs are massive......so unless you go as a couple to a club, this approach used regularly is gonna cost ya.

Meeting single guys at Club or at Home?