V.A. 20th--the planets have aligned

Warming the Bed

0 likes 15 Apr 2013

Well karma is finally paying us back, the planets have aligned and we finally get to go out to VA again Saturday 20th.
We're normally one of the first in the Jacuzzi, as hubby likes to get in a few lengths before it get busy... rotflmao

Looking to soft play so don't be shy ;)
Hope to see you there!
best T&D

Unknown User

0 likes 19 Apr 2013

Yep..We are going as well!
BBW Bi couple..say hi!
Andrew & Nicole
xxx

rimscar1

Warming the Bed

0 likes 23 Apr 2013

this will probably upset somebody, but we're just not enjoying going to VA anymore.
perhaps the fantasy of going is more fun than the actual reality...
and the reason?
The guys.
We look at the ladies and most of them have made an effort with dressing up, hair, makeup whatever--they look like they are out to attract.
Unfortunately a lot of the guys, and too many, just look as though they can't be arsed.
Casual shirts, jeans. Where the hell is the effort?
We know it's not "formal" or a black tie do, but where is the dress to impress from the fellas?
It's almost as if the women are expected to do all the work, which to us is just not on. My wife is part of the experience as well, she would like someone to at least go to some trouble of putting on there best bib and tucker.
Sorry but checked shirts hanging over beer bellies just don't do it for her.
With the ladies that's not so much of an issue ;)

ski69

Warming the Bed

0 likes 23 Apr 2013

hya guyz
was it busy usually find the over 40's dress up alittle, the over 60's dont..
and under 40's dont need too lol
luv n respect

rimscar1

Warming the Bed

0 likes 24 Apr 2013

Aye it was fairly busy for a standard couples night, and a broad spectrum of ages and sizes.
Still no excuse not to make effort though smile

As t'wife says, we're dressing up to go out--we very rarely get the chance so we like to look different to how we normally look.
Otherwise it's just workaday clothes.
We've certainly had some interesting pms from people who feel the same, so it's not just us.
C'mon guys, what's so hard about looking attractive for the ladies...?
Don't they deserve it too? Or do you just expect to dive in once your other half has secured you an opening?

tinytimmy

Sexpert

0 likes 24 Apr 2013

As someone who doesn't have a dress to impress outfit and doesn't feel has the figure to get one, never wears make up and only has nice hair for an hour after a visit to the hairdressers, I have only visited VA once and found it a bit intimidating. However what I would like to know is what is appropriate for the guys to wear to VA and other similar clubs?

Bear69

Sex God

0 likes 24 Apr 2013

I have never been to VA,but i have been to a few other clubs. im a shirt and jeans kinda guy lol

bimbo likes to dress up a little but im more for casual comfort, don't get me wrong im cool with guys who like to suit up,but if it was compulsory i wouldn't all about choice and taste, some ladies like the more casual some don't.

rimscar1

Warming the Bed

0 likes 25 Apr 2013

Well how about black pin-stripe trousers, crisp white or blue shirt and polished black shoes--
think the whole thing was <£50
You don't have to go all Barney Stinson and wear a perma-suit, more James Bond with his jacket and tie removed!!!!!!!!
Otherwise it's just a pub with benefits...
Casual comfort for us is.....butt naked--doesn't come more casual or comfortable than that lol

Unknown User

0 likes 25 Apr 2013

yeah..sorry...we went, Nic was lush as ever...but I had jeans boots shirt untucked and a jacket.
Guilty as charged.
But you do make a fair point.
Andrew & Nic
x