Ok, new to (organised) swinging. I am 36 y old, pretty cool and fit sexpot. I don't want to just go to a party and be the third...wheel. Especially I would love to try upper end parties like fever. So, I want to find a female match first. Any idea where to look, post ad etc. (to meet females who are serious).
Don't have probs with meeting girls but want to get straight to the point as I'm sure there's girls who are curious about it but don't want to try w/out some security about her initial consort.
Any thoughts appreciated.
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I have one thought on your post.... why don't YOU think about your post..... that's my thought - great ain't it, this thinking lark 
Orgasminator
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Ok, new to (organised) swinging. I am 36 y old, pretty cool and fit sexpot. I don't want to just go to a party and be the third...wheel. Especially I would love to try upper end parties like fever. So, I want to find a female match first. Any idea where to look, post ad etc. (to meet females who are serious).
Don't have probs with meeting girls but want to get straight to the point as I'm sure there's girls who are curious about it but don't want to try w/out some security about her initial consort.
Any thoughts appreciated. 8)
I really should write a Guide for Newbies. There are several thousand registered male's on this site, all competing for very few females. Those that have been successful are very unlikely to give hints or tips to someone else, they don't want more competition than there already is.
Place an advert by all means, but as I, and others have said on many occasions, you only get out of this site what you willing to put into it. It's a long hard road getting accepted as a potential swinging partner, there will be many failures along the way, eventually you may tire and go elsewhere.
This is not a site where women throw themselves at you, unless you can show that you are very, very exceptional indeed. Lots have tried and all but one or two have failed, many miserably.
By all means read through the adds section, place your own advert, but if you do, be honest, If your not you won't get beyond any ladies front door, never mind her bedroom.
Have fun trying.
Harry0
Ok, new to (organised) swinging. I am 36 y old, pretty cool and fit sexpot. I don't want to just go to a party and be the third...wheel. Especially I would love to try upper end parties like fever. So, I want to find a female match first. Any idea where to look, post ad etc. (to meet females who are serious).
Don't have probs with meeting girls but want to get straight to the point as I'm sure there's girls who are curious about it but don't want to try w/out some security about her initial consort.
Any thoughts appreciated.
Are you Male or Female?
I would guess male from the post.
Thoughts
There are probably dozens of curious girls who would be interested in an escort of the type you describe, and hundreds of men willing to act as escorts.
You have taken the first step to finding your match - this description of yourself.
It is likely that the girls actively looking for an escort have drawn up a list of possibles and are busy ticking off boxes on their 'ideal escort' list. If you have posted the information they are looking for, you will be contacted. If not, you won't be.
You could also do the same, look through the site for women advertising for escorts, and contact those who seem to be the best match for you.
You have chosen an approach that could prove successful though, from your post it appears that you want to go to parties, and need a partner to do so. This means that you would be attractive to those women with similar needs, someone they can walk through the door with, but not be stuck with all night.
A clear advert would help others decide if you are a match for them, success would depend on whether what you offer is what others are looking for.
lhk
Kat
Ah well thanks to all who have taken the time to reply. I guess my question was whether there is a forum where interested women are actually looking and I guess the answer is no.
Fair enough, I just don't want to waste time with something that's not real. I'm not looking at this to get laid. Fortunately, or - taking sleep deprivation into account - unfortunately, I have no problems getting women 'into my bedroom'. I was just hoping there is some form of real forum but will continue my search lol. Maybe, I can convince the next one to apply to fever parties.
Fair enough, I just don't want to waste time with something that's not real. I'm not looking at this to get laid. Fortunately, or - taking sleep deprivation into account - unfortunately, I have no problems getting women 'into my bedroom'. I was just hoping there is some form of real forum but will continue my search lol. Maybe, I can convince the next one to apply to fever parties.
Sex God
Errrrrr, am I missing something here....?
It was my impression that THIS forum is real... is it not? :shock: If not, then where the f*ck am I?
Blue shuffles off scratching her head yet again, this time not because the lice are partying
It was my impression that THIS forum is real... is it not? :shock: If not, then where the f*ck am I?
Blue shuffles off scratching her head yet again, this time not because the lice are partying
Orgasminator
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Errrrrr, am I missing something here....?
It was my impression that THIS forum is real... is it not? :shock: If not, then where the f*ck am I?
Blue shuffles off scratching her head yet again, this time not because the lice are partying
Strange, I thought this Forum was real as well, can it be that Bluexxx and I are just dreaming this?
Harry0
:sleeping: :sleeping:
Bluexxx Me.
Actually, although we've never had complaints about Fever parties, I've never come across anyone who has felt comfortable at one.
I recall reading more than one post in this forum from women who said they felt intimidated.
Fever parties obviously are successful and there are folks that like them... but my point is that it's hard getting a swinging partner in the first place, but to find one who doesn't mind being prodded and poked to see if she fits in with the standard you have just trebled your hurdles.
Best of luck, though.
Hxx
I recall reading more than one post in this forum from women who said they felt intimidated.
Fever parties obviously are successful and there are folks that like them... but my point is that it's hard getting a swinging partner in the first place, but to find one who doesn't mind being prodded and poked to see if she fits in with the standard you have just trebled your hurdles.
Best of luck, though.
Hxx
Mod
What's a Fever Party, Heather? :shock:
Mal
Mal
Sex God
Harry, we may be dreaming, but it's a bloody good one - shhhhhhh, don't wake me anyone
There's a link to Fever parties on the Clubs and Parties page http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/clubs/reviews-12.html
I've never spoken to anyone who's ever been to one and my knowledge is limited, but basically only the young and sexy are invited (so, that's all of us lot out of the action then :wink: ).
There's a link to Fever parties on the Clubs and Parties page http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/clubs/reviews-12.html
I've never spoken to anyone who's ever been to one and my knowledge is limited, but basically only the young and sexy are invited (so, that's all of us lot out of the action then
:wink: ). Here you go Mal,
:shock: I am too old!
Why do I keep thinking "How can I advertise Fever Parties on the SH 'Lets Meet Up" forum without getting the advert pulled?
Kat
:shock: I am too old!
Quote by deiusofloveWant's to go to a fever party and not get laid? Is there a forum for people who want to go to sex parties but not get laid?
I'm not looking at this to get laid.
I have no problems getting women 'into my bedroom'.Why not invite one of them?
Why do I keep thinking "How can I advertise Fever Parties on the SH 'Lets Meet Up" forum without getting the advert pulled?
Kat
Sex God
It's OK Kat, you're not left out completely - according to their web site, they're doing a party for the over 40s soon 
OK, that's plenty of free adverts for Fever. I don't think I'll be going to apply (apply :shock: ) any time soon btw
OK, that's plenty of free adverts for Fever. I don't think I'll be going to apply (apply :shock: ) any time soon btw
Mind you I was in the bath with a bottle of wine for most of the time so I probably wouldn't have been in a fit state. 
Mod
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It's OK Kat, you're not left out completely - according to their web site, they're doing a party for the over 40s soon
It's called the NW Munch :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Mal
