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We're going to Ab Fab tommorow (22nd)
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I disagree entirely. We see lots of people hooking up there. Just because different people have different needs. We don't always want to play with other people and that's fine. There's a ton of atmosphere. Last night we met lots of nice people and while we only played with the three of us, we had a great time meeting and chatting to new people. We have played with a random person there before too ...
The swinging scene isn't all about getting in with tons of people you don't know. It's about accepting that everyone has their own lifestyle and sexually exploring what you are comfortable with is part of that. Maybe no one wanted to play with you on the nights you went, but on the nights you didn't, people who would have wanted to would have been there.
Keep an open mind to everyone's line. Yours is not the same as everyone elses.
The swinging scene isn't all about getting in with tons of people you don't know. It's about accepting that everyone has their own lifestyle and sexually exploring what you are comfortable with is part of that. Maybe no one wanted to play with you on the nights you went, but on the nights you didn't, people who would have wanted to would have been there.
Keep an open mind to everyone's line. Yours is not the same as everyone elses.
Hi I had amazing time with you last march. any chances we can meet again? I am free tonight and monday and tuesday next week.... please email me. thanks dom.
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Which is why we have ceased going to ab-fabs......It's full of litle groups of people that meet up and go to play with each other ONLY.....No one must join in and that's that.....It's no longer a swingers club, more a sort of motel for pre-arranged meets.
Very cliquy and no atmosphere.
I'm so glad to be informed what the swinging scene is, and that my opinions are rubbish......Like I said......We have stopped going to ab-fabs because it is now full of incestuous little groups that do lots of talking about swinging, with very little actual playing.
I noticed the comment that you had once played with A (singular) random person!
That is YOUR take on swinging, and I quite understand that the Ab-Fab circle mainly feel the same.......Beggars the question, why go on a night that they have single guys in attendance?
You have your cake, and eat it in a place you are comfortable.....we beg to differ.
It is noticable that the attendance figures at Ab-Fabs have been falling for the past year! Says something, we feel.
Like I said, lots of pretentious, little groups, banging on about the way they think things should be done, is just not our thing.....But each to their own.
I noticed the comment that you had once played with A (singular) random person!
That is YOUR take on swinging, and I quite understand that the Ab-Fab circle mainly feel the same.......Beggars the question, why go on a night that they have single guys in attendance?
You have your cake, and eat it in a place you are comfortable.....we beg to differ.
It is noticable that the attendance figures at Ab-Fabs have been falling for the past year! Says something, we feel.
Like I said, lots of pretentious, little groups, banging on about the way they think things should be done, is just not our thing.....But each to their own.
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I'm so glad to be informed what the swinging scene is, and that my opinions are rubbish......Like I said......We have stopped going to ab-fabs because it is now full of incestuous little groups that do lots of talking about swinging, with very little actual playing.
I noticed the comment that you had once played with A (singular) random person!
That is YOUR take on swinging, and I quite understand that the Ab-Fab circle mainly feel the same.......Beggars the question, why go on a night that they have single guys in attendance?
You have your cake, and eat it in a place you are comfortable.....we beg to differ.
It is noticable that the attendance figures at Ab-Fabs have been falling for the past year! Says something, we feel.
Like I said, lots of pretentious, little groups, banging on about the way they think things should be done, is just not our thing.....But each to their own.
Read what I wrote and you'll find that I was saying keep your mind open ... while you are saying quite brutal things. I didn't once tell you that your opinion was rubbish or try to tell you how to be ... I was being damn polite actually. I didn't judge your way of life and I didn't make judgements on you. You're being very antagonistic and your post just comes across as rude and insulting. Thanks, but stay out of forums if you can't be polite.
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Quote by dippergt750
Which is why we have ceased going to ab-fabs......It's full of litle groups of people that meet up and go to play with each other ONLY.....No one must join in and that's that.....It's no longer a swingers club, more a sort of motel for pre-arranged meets.
Very cliquy and no atmosphere.
Just because they don't have your outlook in life, doesn't make their way wrong, this was posted by you on a thread you started.
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WE are off to the Helfire club this Friday. It's their couples and singles night, so men are allowed on their own! Fem says she's going to have a non-refusal night, in that anyone who asks, gets! She won't refuse any request.
If you want to fuck anything with a pulse, good luck to you, if others want to be more choosey, good luck to them!
Perrie and Dave, you do what ever makes you feel comfortable, know your boundaries.
