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Can anybody advise us we have been on this site for a while now, looking for a sexy bi female or cple to join us for some saturday night fun, todate we have chatted to loads of people but not met anyone to have fun with us, any tips from you hardened swingers.
Looking at yr profile and photos..nothing is wrong...suggest you go to a club for a meet as am sure you will be far more successful... its far easier to chat to people at clubs and far more choice of people to talk to....and you have at least two of the best clubs in the UK on your doorstep........
good luck
RWL
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Well, I dont actually know any of the so called 'hardened swingers' as you describe them, but I do know there have been quite a few threads on the subject of not getting any meets.
I will presume you are complaining about lack of response from the phots ads section as this is only your second post in the forums, so it cant be the forum users you are complaining about.
You need to try and see things from a single girls point of view. She is coming into an established couple and she knows nothing about you. You have no photos on your profile, you have no information on your profile and have NOTHING at all written in your ad!
If you were a single female would you take the risk of meeting up with you?
There u go...two different pieces of advice..both equally valid and pertinent..
one froma single guy viewpoint and one from a cpl viewpoint...
as i said.. good luck
RWL
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hi we have had the same as you we think there is to many single guys on here with pics of woman on they profile(sorry not all the single guys on here are fake just a few who spoil us couples fun).it is hard on here and the best place to find people is at clubs you dont have to take part in the clud but you will find plenty of people like yourself there hope that helpx
hi,
ok this is only my view but... ive looked at your profile and looked at your ads,
the ad seeking a bi female just doesnt read nice from the offing, " come open my wifes pussy with me" or something like that. that screams written by a guywith no female input, is the wife real, is she really intrested, why is she being spoken about like that ?
a couple of your pics look very professional, including the avatar , this could lead some to thinking they are lifted or you are to perfect for them to want to meet you?
everyone will agree there are more couples and single guys on here , so when any one is looking to meet a bi female they have to give alot, as it has been said before to many single guys pretending to be couples, so the single female will be hesitant to write a long email including pics until she is sure they are real.
in my experience a single bi fem doesnt have to do alot of convincing, ad hunting etc herself, they come to her.
im not saying this is fair, just often the way it is.
just one opinion, as asked for
xx lou xx
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Can anybody advise us we have been on this site for a while now, looking for a sexy bi female or cple to join us for some saturday night fun, todate we have chatted to loads of people but not met anyone to have fun with us, any tips from you hardened swingers.

Sent a PM with a few words of advice.
Hiya.
I've looked at the advert and agree with redwine lover. I cant see anything wrong with it at all. Just supprised why you havnt had any response. As mentioned...go along to a club or social do if there are any local to you. Good chance to meet poeple. Also, go in the chat rooms. Get to know couples through chatting.
Good luck.
Mike
Deffo nothing wrong with those photos ;-)
I've not played with a couple for several reasons, the main one being fear. If you do a search for 'bi-fem' in the forum you'll find some fairly interesting reading. The whole commodity thing has been covered quite extensively and I'm not accusing you of it but sometimes you get the feeling that couples just want 'a bi-fem' and don't really care about getting to know them as people. The thing that would put me off your add is that you're expectations seem high and frankly I don' think I could live up to them. Just my opinion.
H.x
Hi
We are memebers of Chameleons (swingers club off junction 9 of M6) and wud be happy to take u guys along with us sometime, we think its the best way 2 meet new people and have sum fun.
If interested drop us a line
Regarding ur profile maybe u cud detail more about what u r after and include male and female pics
Dave & Sarah