WHAT TO DO ABOUT NO SHOWS........

3 Aug 2005

Hi Everyone. We're 337099.
Very new to this but were hoping to meet our bi-fem last night.
Met on a different site and Several MSN conversations later, we agreed to meet up.
Lo and behold, she didnt show. No message, no text or phone call. sad

Are we naieve? Are there genuine bi fems out there looking for couples? Or is it more to do with titillation for some people? we suppose that is true, some people will get kicks out of just chatting and arranging to meet and then not turning up..but we would like to get our kicks in return??!!! Is it too much to ask?
It has put us off a little to be honest, but we suppose if you are a sexy bifem reading this, then well, who knows? maybe you could restore our faith? wink

LOL
Lisa and Mark
cool

3 Aug 2005

Hi - Your not on your own , it`s not only bifems that let you down - read my post. Am totally fed up with the timewasters.

3 Aug 2005

Quote by jeff1530
Hi Everyone. We're 337099.
Very new to this but were hoping to meet our bi-fem last night.
Met on a different site and Several MSN conversations later, we agreed to meet up.
Lo and behold, she didnt show. No message, no text or phone call.
Are we naieve? Are there genuine bi fems out there looking for couples? Or is it more to do with titillation for some people? we suppose that is true, some people will get kicks out of just chatting and arranging to meet and then not turning up..but we would like to get our kicks in return??!!! Is it too much to ask?
It has put us off a little to be honest, but we suppose if you are a sexy bifem reading this, then well, who knows? maybe you could restore our faith? LOL
Lisa and Mark

But surely if you "met" on a different site, then it's no good coming on here and whinging about it, is it? dunno

:dunno:
I think you'd be better going back to the site you "met" her on and complain there instead of bringing any form of negativity to the best site for genuine swingers on the net

3 Aug 2005

Whilst there are always exceptions, the likelihood of receiving replies from genuine single bi fems on this section is on a par with receiving them from pixies and goblins - they are that rare!
Asking them to reply in order to prove you wrong, rather than what you are offering makes it even more unlikely.
Still, good luck though! lol

3 Aug 2005

Quote by Sexysteph
Hi - Your not on your own , it`s not only bifems that let you down - read my post. Am totally fed up with the timewasters.

So why not come to some of the Munches - meet the genuine people from the site who like the social side - let them see the genuine you.
I know guys who have attended munches have had far more success post munch. Don't forget when you are msning and chatrooming you are looking at a screen not at a person at a Munch or social meet you see the real people behind the screen. Judge for yourself face to face ---- you never know.
Lets get positive here guys please. SH is the only site that I know of where the members get off their arses organise these meets throughout the country so that people get a chance to meet - make contacts and have loads of fun together. Newbies get the best of breaks at such munches.
At notts there were many who were having their first Munch and if you read the thread you will see it was a lot of fun for all.
I guess what I am trying to say is quit whining - do sommut about it. I aint being nasty but whining does not endear you - positive actions do.
Steph
Don't know what you mean Steph. I never get invited anywhere because I'm such a shy, quiet person. :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

3 Aug 2005

Quote by Marcuso
Don't know what you mean Steph. I never get invited anywhere because I'm such a shy, quiet person. :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

Are you an impostor? lol

3 Aug 2005

a flying pig just flew over marcuso's house lol

3 Aug 2005

yes it's time to start thinking positive......
A few weeks ago I advertised for meets and had to cancel one at the last minute because I got ill......I agree that it is only polite to let them know but sometimes that is not possible or maybe they lost your number or something.....
But I agree with Steph......get to some of the Munches and get to know people, you will make better contacts there and it's loads of fun!!! :twisted:

3 Aug 2005

Quote by Sexysteph

Don't know what you mean Steph. I never get invited anywhere because I'm such a shy, quiet person. :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

Are you an impostor? lol

Bev this the same guy who has memory problems - he was supposed to use my blow up bed at Daves then bring it back to me in just over a week.
Guess what like Jas's Jacket its still at Daves pmsl.
Lottie has a better memory. You know its those shoes :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
:lol: :lol: :lol:
I think those shoes are just a small indicator of personality Steph loon

3 Aug 2005

Quote by Sexysteph

Don't know what you mean Steph. I never get invited anywhere because I'm such a shy, quiet person. :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

Are you an impostor? lol

Bev this the same guy who has memory problems -he was supposed to use my blow up bed at Daves then bring it back to me in just over a week.
Guess what like Jas's Jacket its still at Daves pmsl.
Lottie has a better memory. You know its those shoes :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
:lol: :lol: :lol:
OH SH*T!!!!!!!
Totally forgot about that Steph babes. Was a little busy at Dave's and never got to use it so it kinda slipped my mind. I'm down in Leicester one day next week (not sure which one yet) so I'll go pick it up from Daves and give you a ring when I'm coming over.
Marcuso goes and hangs his head in shame redface

3 Aug 2005

Quote by Marcuso

Don't know what you mean Steph. I never get invited anywhere because I'm such a shy, quiet person. :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

Are you an impostor? lol

Bev this the same guy who has memory problems -he was supposed to use my blow up bed at Daves then bring it back to me in just over a week.
Guess what like Jas's Jacket its still at Daves pmsl.
Lottie has a better memory. You know its those shoes :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
:lol: :lol: :lol:
OH SH*T!!!!!!!
Totally forgot about that Steph babes. Was a little busy at Dave's and never got to use it so it kinda slipped my mind. I'm down in Leicester one day next week (not sure which one yet) so I'll go pick it up from Daves and give you a ring when I'm coming over.
Marcuso goes and hangs his head in shame redface

I want you no where near my house again.........you ring me and I will leave it at the bottom of the road

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Dave_Notts

3 Aug 2005

Locked due to initial negativity - again!!!
Mal