hiya paul, try visiting a few clubs and meet other ppl off here, its a good way for ppl to get to no u and u them
alot of the above is true,myself,lm lucky to be able to advertise,both as a couple,and as a single male.
l use several sites,and l find when advertising as a single male ,you do not get as many replies,even if its to say no thanks.
even on a site where they have verified swingers,you see that they are loking for males,you send a reply with all the things asked for,ie face pics,no 1 liners,and some,do even bother to reply,all you can do is keep trying,mix,and maybe attend local get togethers.
good luck