hi,
Im quite new to the site. I have replied to a few posts and put up a couple of posts myslft all to no avale. What am I doing wrong. I read the message telling beginners how to put up and advert and respond but nothing.
Anyway im 22, good looking, athletic and into music, sport loads of things. Im looking for a female to share fun nights with, in and around Birmingham. I have recently split from a long term relationship and looking for fun. doesnt have to be sexual but its a big bonus if it is.
Rich
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Sex God
Hi Rich, welcome to the forums. You might want to go into the other 'copy' of this post and delete it (little cross top right hand corner of the screen).
You have not really given the place much of a go, your profile says you only joined December and I noticed you have only done a few posts. You will find that from Swinging Heaven you only get back from it what you put in, it takes a bit of effort. You have to remember that there are thousands and thousands of single guys on here for every couple/single guy who is looking, and why should they chose you over all the rest?
You could try adding some more photos (not cock shots) and some more information about your likes and dislikes in your ad, let your personality show through a bit but most of all, show the couples/females why they should infact contact you and not all the other guys on here.
You might also find this post usefull,
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/20451.html
good luck but remember, a bit of patience and be prepared to put in a little effort
You have not really given the place much of a go, your profile says you only joined December and I noticed you have only done a few posts. You will find that from Swinging Heaven you only get back from it what you put in, it takes a bit of effort. You have to remember that there are thousands and thousands of single guys on here for every couple/single guy who is looking, and why should they chose you over all the rest?
You could try adding some more photos (not cock shots) and some more information about your likes and dislikes in your ad, let your personality show through a bit but most of all, show the couples/females why they should infact contact you and not all the other guys on here.
You might also find this post usefull,
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/20451.html
good luck but remember, a bit of patience and be prepared to put in a little effort
Hi Rich,
I have been a member of the website since Sep 05 (Although this is my first post on the Forum) and have had alot of meets with couples and a few single females. You need to realise that alot of the adverts are fake. I reckon that perhaps almost 75% of ads are by sad old men trying to get kicks.
Like Robbo said "make a note and move on".... I promise it will be worth the wait!!!!!!!!
Again Good Luck
Nuneatonmale
I have been a member of the website since Sep 05 (Although this is my first post on the Forum) and have had alot of meets with couples and a few single females. You need to realise that alot of the adverts are fake. I reckon that perhaps almost 75% of ads are by sad old men trying to get kicks.
Like Robbo said "make a note and move on".... I promise it will be worth the wait!!!!!!!!
Again Good Luck
Nuneatonmale
Warming the Bed
hi me n adam not been on here long but please bair with it n sure something will come along
It will take time for your personality to shine trough but it you invest your time and effort im sure you will meet people.
Try the Munches and social events they are great way of making friends
I know you need to meet people and be verifyied to get to the munches but im sure there will be somebody localish who would be willing to meet you for a drink and chat only to verify you.
As a single guy it helps if you are more than willing to meet people just for a drink and chat only the first time.
Good luck
Bi-Guy-Notts
Try the Munches and social events they are great way of making friends
I know you need to meet people and be verifyied to get to the munches but im sure there will be somebody localish who would be willing to meet you for a drink and chat only to verify you.
As a single guy it helps if you are more than willing to meet people just for a drink and chat only the first time.
Good luck
Bi-Guy-Notts
