Hope you take this as genuinely friendly and constructive feedback but perhaps tone down the amount of negative ranty comments on your profile. The first paragraph on your profile is a pure rant and the end of your profile includes a rant. Yet you state you’re a genuine fun easy going couple…you’re not exactly giving off that vibe on your profile.
Also your wife is listed as in height?!? Don’t get me wrong she looks stunning in your profile photos but mistakes like this on a profile for me personally are a ‘potential fake profile’ red flags.
The last point is perhaps just geography, less people down in Salisbury, have you thought about arranging a romantic weekend break for you both in London. There are a few established gang bang groups of guys up there who can take the hassle out of the organising logistics as you only have to deal with one person. They’d supply photos of guys that meet your specific requirements.
Anyway hope that helps in someway…happy swinging