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Why dont I get any replies
Quote by monty2u4fun
Hi Ya all. I am looking to get involved on the scene and have placed loads of ads on the dogging site and "men looking women"part and included pics but never had any replies to the genuine advert. Can anyone help a horny male he he!
You dont mention having replied to any ads - how many ads have you replied to?
In a buyers market you have to take the product to the buyer - not just sit back and wait for them to come to you.
And you need to read the ads and respond accordingly -
If they want pics - send them!
If they want to know what you have in mind - tell them!
We get alot of emails from single guys - most are one liners and they get treated with the contempt they deserve, however guys that have put some effort in to their email will get replied to and although we are not looking for single guys currently we always ask if they would mind us keeping their details in case we do want a single guys one day.
Hope this helps - Good Luck
Dx
thanks all for the feed back. I always send pics if they are asked for and I never send 1 liners, I think if you wanna just send a one liner you would better of havin a *ank! he he. I am new to the scene, but it seems to me that alot of people on here who are looking for a meet are only wanting to see if they will get a reply and are not actually serious about it. Am I wrong?
Mod
Yes
Warming the Bed
Please refer to the earlier answer of 'We're outnumbered'
There is also the possiblilty that you are not what they are looking for or they have found something better (No offence)
Keep trying it is a big boat filled with a lot of people. Stand out in the crowd....and all that!
Perserverance goes a long way ;)
Delaney
There is also the possiblilty that you are not what they are looking for or they have found something better (No offence)
Keep trying it is a big boat filled with a lot of people. Stand out in the crowd....and all that!
Perserverance goes a long way ;)
Delaney
Quote by Delaney
Please refer to the earlier answer of 'We're outnumbered'
There is also the possiblilty that you are not what they are looking for
Perserverance goes a long way ;)
Absolutely.
Obviosuly some ads are just pic collectors - but they will generally be of the 'seeking women' variety (pervy guys wanting pics of girls).
I would imagine that ads of the 'seeking men' variety are more likely to be genuine.
You really do need your replies to stand out - and make sure you tailor your response to each ad rather than just banging out a standard reply (without lying of course!!)
And yes, perseverance is vital!!!!
Sex God
Errrr, what they all said above.... 
Almost every week we get guys saying the same thing. 
There's a whole pile of information and tips in parts of this site. I wrote a piece to enlighten single guys about what life is like for female advertisers. Have you read it?
As with everything else in life, you get out what you put in. Turf up and expect to the site's official Stud (and I'm NOT suggesting that's what you're trying to do!), and you'll be met with a certain cold and cynical scepticism. Say hello and make try to make friends and you'll stand out from the mundane.
My partner and I met through these forums. The very thing that attracted me to him was that he DIDN'T ask me for a shag. He was polite, friendly and very gentlemanly and he waited until I rummaged in his boxers... He realised the fact that many men on here miss - that all the females here want sex as much as the fellas. But for us, we like to feel a little in control of what happens and when.
Hope this helps you in your quest.
There's a whole pile of information and tips in parts of this site. I wrote a piece to enlighten single guys about what life is like for female advertisers. Have you read it?
As with everything else in life, you get out what you put in. Turf up and expect to the site's official Stud (and I'm NOT suggesting that's what you're trying to do!), and you'll be met with a certain cold and cynical scepticism. Say hello and make try to make friends and you'll stand out from the mundane.
My partner and I met through these forums. The very thing that attracted me to him was that he DIDN'T ask me for a shag. He was polite, friendly and very gentlemanly and he waited until I rummaged in his boxers... He realised the fact that many men on here miss - that all the females here want sex as much as the fellas. But for us, we like to feel a little in control of what happens and when.
Hope this helps you in your quest.
Sex God
Quote by surreycouple
Anybody want a shag???
Go on then..
Sex God
look at surreycouple.
They seem to have it right, they posted on your thread and got a reply straight away.
You must be wording it wrong :twisted:
G x
They seem to have it right, they posted on your thread and got a reply straight away.
You must be wording it wrong :twisted:
G x
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Quote by xxdevil69
Anybody want a shag???
Go on then..
Quote by dundeecpl
look at surreycouple.
They seem to have it right, they posted on your thread and got a reply straight away.
You must be wording it wrong :twisted:
G x
and then there was my 'Fancy a shag?' thread and you all know me and I STILL didn't get one!!
Did I whinge? Did I bloody ever - but not on here! :lol:
Mal
(getting over it now -with difficulty sniff!)
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Quote by surreycouple2003
Anybody want a shag???
Go on then..
Is that Helen or Rob or both??!
Dx
Does it matter? :lol2:
Mal
:wink:
Sex God
Hey, is there a group shag being organised here? Can i cum too!!! :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Sex God
Thought this thread started as advice for us single guys, now someone is offering a shag. Mind I'm thinking of applying to join SHAG if you allow ugly ducklings in!!!!! :cry:
Orgasminator
You need to join the queue of dissatisfied guys.
TS
TS
Quote by monty2u4fun
Hi Ya all. I am looking to get involved on the scene and have placed loads of ads on the dogging site and "men looking women"part and included pics but never had any replies to the genuine advert. Can anyone help a horny male he he!
patience is a virtue.......don;t get disheartened.......if your going to buy a car or a house you don't always pick the first one you choose. it's the same here couples and females have a lot of choice.
Quote by djswinger
if your going to buy a car or a house you don't always pick the first one you choose. it's the same here couples and females have a lot of choice.
However Females do generally choose the first outfit they try on even though they try on another 50 before they arrive at this decission.
Dxxx
