Lesmon,
Been looking through your posts, 10/10 for effort! If you keep positive in your messages, you are bound to get a response sooner or later.
if you want to improve your chances. Come and post in the cafe, let people get to know you. In here, you are just an advert in the crowd, if you get known, you stand out.
Kat
Seriously, Kit and i are looking to get to know people first, then see if we want to meet them.
Getting to know someone only because you want to see if you want to meet them tends to put a bit of pressure on both sides.
Doesn't mean you should not try and do it both ways. have a think about it and join us in the cafe if you want to relax a bit, fun is what it is all about.
lhk
Kat
I think if u try to hard in finding people to meet u come across as pushy or even dare I say desperate......
Its like trying to find a new girlfriend or biyfriend the minute u stop trying so hard, be yourself start having a little bit of fun it all comes together !! just a thought.
thanks guys wil be in the cafe
hello there are there any couples or ladies willing to give this genuine fun chap a chance to prove himself fun loving bubbly all limits respected your wish my command lol 
and loves to give oral can scramble egg with my tounge email me if you interested it would be nice to meet all the best lesmond xx 