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I dont like them skinny but I dont like them too big either. The phrase with a bit of meat on probably sums it up for me. There are some BBW's that look horny that I could be with. Its pretty much the same for Mrs Tweeky too, she likes a lady fairly like herself.
Just a comment, not sure what were actually supposed top discuss in this thread biggrin
I'll go out on a limb here:
I am what people would call fat/overweight or whatever. However I dislike the term BBW and the kind of fetishising of women as a result.
I would like people to find me attractive not because I am big but rather because I am me and they find me sexy. In fact, I think I would almost prefer to know that someone finds me attractive in spite of my weight rather than because of it.
I tend to steer clear of people who obsess about BBWs as it makes me uncomfortable - I want to be thought of sexy for who I am and not what I am. I feel a little objectified otherwise - as in "has he only agreed to the meet because of the big tits or the ample ass or whatever fat bit he likes" etc
Anyway, it made sense in my head! wink
Me and hubby are far from Ken and Barbie! We dont look on the outside of people we like personality, theres no point in swinging with couples that have nothing about them even if they are really attractive as its all about having fun!
I can normally find some thing sexy in all shapes and sizes except for the very very thin
Although I do seem to spend half of my life in the BBW room in chat, it is a term that I dislike with a vengence. The main reasons is because no one is automatically beautiful because of their size (small or large) and secondly, what size is considered a BBW?
Personally, if I was describing my ideal figure, it would be the more rounded, naturallu curvy figure with something to get hold of, but that does not mean I dont like the very slim, or very large. The size of a person is just one tiny little element of what I find attractive in a person, and other things such as personality, eyes, clean hair (dont ask, but I have a thing for clean or NO hair) nice bum, good firm thights and good shoulders seem to have a greater attraction. redface
Shove up Trav, think I need to join you in that shower :twisted:
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I would like people to find me attractive not because I am big but rather because I am me and they find me sexy...

OK, well as it's 'go out on a limb' night.. :rascal:
I find you exceptionally, f**king sexy so you must be going some to break through my gaydar smile It's not just about or because of the way you look, although that's part of it, it's more about the over all YOU.
Funny though, with blokes I tend to go for muscular, meaty :twisted: fitties most, if not all of the time. I'd go for a bit of tum every time over blokes that look like they need a good feed! Although there are exceptions to every rule wink
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where am... oh forget it.
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I'm BBW... like it or lump it lol
Bloke, you're rather sexy yourself passionkiss
Well I fancy Nola. lol
There should be a Nola appreciation society.
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Well I fancy Nola. lol
There should be a Nola appreciation society.

There is - you just have to come through me to get into it :lol:
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And that's a bit of a dickhead thing to do, whatever the reason dunno
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Well I fancy Nola. lol
There should be a Nola appreciation society.

There is - you just have to come through me to get into it :lol:
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And that's a bit of a dickhead thing to do, whatever the reason dunno
You naughty man you. :lol:
OK, so I gave you that one mate wink I can be MUCH naughtier though! :twisted:
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I dont like them skinny but I dont like them too big either. The phrase with a bit of meat on probably sums it up for me. There are some BBW's that look horny that I could be with. Its pretty much the same for Mrs Tweeky too, she likes a lady fairly like herself.
Just a comment, not sure what were actually supposed top discuss in this thread biggrin

Why start a thread and then delete the title?
Ok...clears throat.
"I kind of prefer using the albumen as a covering to be honest, it sticks like glue and makes a great "splatt" sound when you fling it using a wooden spatula...As for the Burly dockers who want you to do that depraved activity. I'd let them, just bite down hard on a piece of leather and drink plenty of rum and you'll be fine. Then if you can't sit down the following morning, find a rubber ring or a pervert with an evil glint in their eye."
I'm locking this as there is no original post any more.
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