% of the swinging community that use clubs?

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As this is something we have started getting into recently I thought there were a few questions worth asking about. Just for a few starters
1: What general % of the swinging community do you think use clubs (Feel free to say if you go at all)

We have started going to clubs since we arrived here in France. I think only a small percentage actually have the courage to go through the door the first time but of those that do (or are "hand held" by another couple) the percentage increases as they find the experience less terrifying than they imagined.
2: Who uses them more Couples, single males? I doubt its Single Woman

We find there are more single males wandering around in a moronic state and the moment there seems any possibility of some action, they are there en-force spoiling the fun for everyone else by being overly pushy. Once you understand the "single male syndrome" you just push them away with a firm "no" and not let them get in the way of your enjoyment.
3: Is using a club something you have always done? Thought about but not done? Or something you would never do?

No, certainly not. We thought we never would until we decided on a whim to try one local club - liked it and then tried another we we also like, both for their own reasons.
4: If you use clubs do you only go on certain nights i.e. mixed, couples only, fetish?

Mixed for us but we have discovered a new club a bit further away (which another SH couple have mentioned) which does couples only nights.
5: Do club users look for meets? We started altering our profiles now to say prefer club meets. Wondering if its time to just go to clubs and forget the old messaging people method altogether.

Maybe for us, it's the language thing, but we have yet to suggest a jolly weekend with French couples we have met at the clubs we have gone to.

Quote by tweeky
As this is something we have started getting into recently I thought there were a few questions worth asking about. Just for a few starters
1: What general % of the swinging community do you think use clubs (Feel free to say if you go at all)
Because you say "The Swinging Community" that includes the "single" men on here, which a lot of actually aren't "single" therefore difficult for them to meet at clubs usually. Of the genuine singles and couples I'd say 25% go to clubs.2:
Who uses them more Couples, single males? I doubt its Single Woman
Depends on the nights you go. Greedy girls nights probably mostly men, few couples, few single girls. Couples only nights, couples ! Seen several single women at clubs we go to, it's actually a very safe enviroment for single women, always help nearby if they feel threatened.
3: Is using a club something you have always done? Thought about but not done? Or something you would never do?
We started off at clubs, love the free and easy atmosphere, only rarely do we meet away from clubs.
4: If you use clubs do you only go on certain nights i.e. mixed, couples only, fetish?
Mixed or couples only.
5: Do club users look for meets? We started altering our profiles now to say prefer club meets. Wondering if its time to just go to clubs and forget the old messaging people method altogether.
We ask potential meets if they would meet at a club, that way if they don't turn up we'll still have fun. Tho we do meet away from clubs if the other people prefer and we think they are genuine.
Feel free to discuss anything else club related. For anyone who is interested we are prepared to use, Romeos in Bristol, Bath Swingers, Decadent nights, Chameleons Newport and the Lodge in Gloucester. But please keep those messages for PM

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Thanks for your replys so far all. Some good comments, we will take note
In reply to your number 5 Geordiecpl2001, thats how we feel :) Its not a wasted evening if you go to a club and they decide to cancel before the meet or just dont bother showing up.

Quote by tweeky
As this is something we have started getting into recently I thought there were a few questions worth asking about. Just for a few starters
1: What general % of the swinging community do you think use clubs (Feel free to say if you go at all)
I go occasionally but, for me, the most successful nights depends on the company. I've been to clubs alone, as one half of a couple and as part of a bigger group.

2: Who uses them more Couples, single males? I doubt its Single Woman
I have been to a club alone as a single woman :smug:
3: Is using a club something you have always done? Thought about but not done? Or something you would never do?
Not always. Not as much as I'd like. I'm in the mood for some clubbage at the mo!
4: If you use clubs do you only go on certain nights i.e. mixed, couples only, fetish?
Prefer mixed nights. Might be going to a fetish night soon though.
5: Do club users look for meets? We started altering our profiles now to say prefer club meets. Wondering if its time to just go to clubs and forget the old messaging people method altogether.
I look for sex. :rascal:
Feel free to discuss anything else club related. For anyone who is interested we are prepared to use, Romeos in Bristol, Bath Swingers, Decadent nights, Chameleons Newport and the Lodge in Gloucester. But please keep those messages for PM

Quote by flower411
We`d love clubs to be those fantasy places where we liked the look of everybody else and they liked the look of us !! But our few and far between visits haven`t resulted in this scenario !
Best meet we have had came from meeting somebody by chance at a social in a club who we had chatted to in chat rooms on SH .....so it does happen ....just not often enough !
Our experience is limited and has been dictated by our lack of perseverance ....maybe if we went more we`d be more successful