Hi ignoreme,
If you want to be ignored it's not a good idea to post twice.
If you want to be ignored it's not a good idea to post twice.
Quote by northwest-cpl
2 or more couples and any number of singles involved is swinging.
1 couple and any number of singles is swinging.
A single and half a couple playing with the other half's knowledge is swinging.
2 singles playing with no 3rd party involvement is shagging.
1 single playing is wanking.
Quote by LadyFeeBee
2 or more couples and any number of singles involved is swinging.
1 couple and any number of singles is swinging.
A single and half a couple playing with the other half's knowledge is swinging.
2 singles playing with no 3rd party involvement is shagging.
1 single playing is wanking.
Quote by Sassy-Seren
Can we have another spin off of SH then for us singles who only do 1-2-1? You could call it Shagging Heaven
Quote by PoloLady
Why? Is there not room for all of us here under this sexually liberated umbrella? - I think there is and if it does end up being a squeeze, I wouldn't complain being squeezed up next to you
Quote by PoloLady
I didn't ask the question to make a point of who does and doesn't belong here or who is and isn't a swinger. It has been said many times before that being a swinger is more about your attitude and I believe that.
Quote by PoloLady
I didn't ask the question to make a point of who does and doesn't belong here or who is and isn't a swinger. It has been said many times before that being a swinger is more about your attitude and I believe that.
Quote by Sassy-Seren
Can we have another spin off of SH then for us singles who only do 1-2-1? You could call it Shagging Heaven
Quote by PoloLady
Why? Is there not room for all of us here under this sexually liberated umbrella? - I think there is and if it does end up being a squeeze, I wouldn't complain being squeezed up next to you
Quote by PoloLady
I didn't ask the question to make a point of who does and doesn't belong here or who is and isn't a swinger. It has been said many times before that being a swinger is more about your attitude and I believe that.
Quote by Sassy-Seren
I can see where you're coming from here though it seems to have a lot of people, mostly couples funnily enough, agreeing on the idea that singles who only do 1-2-1 are not swingers.
Quote by PoloLady
I can see where you're coming from here though it seems to have a lot of people, mostly couples funnily enough, agreeing on the idea that singles who only do 1-2-1 are not swingers.
Quote by PoloLady
Even though it is pretty much off topic.......
In what way do you think some swingers think they are better than vanillas?
I don't think I am 'better' than a vanilla person - but I do think I am a more open minded person than some guy who thinks women who shag are slags. In fact I don't think I could associate with someone who openly expressed an opinion like that with such derogatory terms.
Quote by dambuster
As an example. . . .
There are some men here on SH that I can stand at the bar drinking with, but only if there are no girls joining the chit chat. Pretty much as soon as a girly joins us, I have to excuse myself and leave the conversation due to my perception of their opinion and treatment of "sexually liberated" women.
How can I drink with them ?
If there are no girlies there, and the topic of conversation isn't girlies, they are otherwise pretty "decent" guys.
Quote by PoloLady
Even though it is pretty much off topic.......
In what way do you think some swingers think they are better than vanillas?
(edit) also what shock do you think they will have?
I don't think I am 'better' than a vanilla person - but I do think I am a more open minded person than some guy who thinks women who shag are slags. In fact I don't think I could associate with someone who openly expressed an opinion like that with such derogatory terms.
Quote by onlyme1981
Ok, well know for a fact that some, in this scene, think that because they've shagged loads of people it makes them a stud for the male and something else for a female version. Yet these same people are derogatory towards vanilla folk who go around shagging, calling them slappers, slags etc etc.
This is just what I've seen. I'm not tarring everyone with the same brush here!