12 Months and still counting

16 May 2006

It's just occured to me that I've been single now for about 12 months now it's been a bit longer since I was in a long term relationship, but roughly 12 months since I've found myself in the BF/GF catagorey................Why am I telling you this? In all honesty I ain't got a clue but your the ones reading it so it must be of some interest lol

No my point is it's been one of the best years of my life smile

I've travelled a lot, climbed mountains got in worse states than I can bear to think about on night's out redface

Thrown and attended parties that quite frankly Pete Doherty would be shocked by lol

I've driven what ever car I've chose to drive or buy, made selfish life decisions knowing full well it's only affecting me (within reason this one as I do have a child that still depends on me being around) Made more good friends than I have ever done in the same period of time before, on and off this site. kiss

I've made an arse out of myself on more than one occasion but I've always been able to laugh about it afterwards (and thankfully so have those who've witnessed it redface

) To sumerise it all I've played bloody hard at life (but safely most of the time lol

) and enjoyed it all biggrin

My point is I was talking to a newly single friend the other day and he was glum to say the least (single men have feelings trust me I know) and on more times than I wish to admit I think about being in a LTR again, but for anyone one in a similar boat fook it go out and make the most of it why you have chance biggrin

Now my life has hit a blip I'm bloody glad I did biggrin

Being a single male ain't that bad as long as you fill out your profile and keep the cock shots in your private gallery lol

Sorry all, again it's just me thinking out loud, sermon over carry on as you were cool

16 May 2006

Being single does have its advantages. I've been single for just over 3 years, having been in a long term relationship for 16 years previous to that it was a big culture shock, it's not till you're single again that you realise just how much of the world around us revolves around couples. Booking holidays as a single person is a nightmare, going out for a meal on your own is not the done thing, not round here anyway. But you do get to do what you want when you want, within reason - unless what you want to do involves another person, 'bumping uglies', as my bro in law puts it. There are days I wake up and don't want to open my eyes cos I know I'm on my own, but there are days I get up and think 'what do I want to do today'. I don't know how single life as a woman compares to the single life of a man, from conversations I've had I think going out is a lot easier if you're a single man, women are still, even in this day and age, expected to go out in groups or with a guy. I don't know where I'm going with this either, just a little muse whilst I should be working.
H.x

16 May 2006

Quote by H-x
I don't know where I'm going with this either, just a little muse whilst I should be working.
H.x

In all honesty I felt the same as I posted however it's theraputic for me to vent my views and I wonderd prehaps some men could benefit from my outlook if they were or had just found them selves or have been for a while single and wondering on their next move biggrin

16 May 2006

As another member of the recently single, I can see good bits and bad bits about being alone.
I like being single because:
my shopping bill is halved
I get the bed to myself
I can play whatever music takes my fancy without someone telling me to turn it down
the toilet seat's always left down
I'm no one's taxi anymore
I DON'T like being single because:
There's no one to cuddle
I can't go into a pub unless I can find a mate to come too
No sex on tap anymore
I have to do all the housework myself
I only go for meals with family these days
No one to give me a foot massage after a hard shift
the bed's too big
Basically, as much as I love having more freedom, I do miss the closeness and companionship of a partner redface

17 May 2006

Honorary single for the next 3 weeks or so :cry:
All hugs, kisses, snoggs, tea and sympathy gratefully received
Anyone any good at ironing? :rascal: innocent

17 May 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
As another member of the recently single, I can see good bits and bad bits about being alone.
I like being single because:
my shopping bill is halved
I get the bed to myself
I can play whatever music takes my fancy without someone telling me to turn it down
the toilet seat's always left down
I'm no one's taxi anymore
I DON'T like being single because:
There's no one to cuddle
I can't go into a pub unless I can find a mate to come too
No sex on tap anymore
I have to do all the housework myself
I only go for meals with family these days
No one to give me a foot massage after a hard shift
the bed's too big
Basically, as much as I love having more freedom, I do miss the closeness and companionship of a partner

Couldn't have put it any better sassy

17 May 2006

Quote by sassy seren
I like being single because:
my shopping bill is halved

Oh the irony of all mine's droped by 90% :giggle: kiss

Quote by Pete_sw
Honorary single for the next 3 weeks or so icon_
All hugs, kisses, snoggs, tea and sympathy gratefully received

Ya can have a manly hug and NO snog from me mate
:shock: lol

Give me a week and I'll convert you to the bachelor life style you'll soon be living on take aways and will have given over leaving the toiloet seat up..................... having removed it all togehter, some time saving advice in it's own right lol

17 May 2006

I like being single because:
the toilet seat's always left down !
I DON'T like being single because:
There's no one to cuddle
There's no one to talk to
There's no one to laugh with
There's no gardening, ironing or burning of food to do
There's no point in playing scrabble alone
I am just a misery really.......... but its early days for me :giggle:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

17 May 2006

Get yourself a cat and start talking to yourself....
it's worked for me.....
I'm fine.....
all on my own.....
can I come over there?
H.x

17 May 2006

Quote by H-x
Get yourself a cat and start talking to yourself....
it's worked for me.....
I'm fine.....
all on my own.....
can I come over there?......... YES YES YES :giggle:
H.x

17 May 2006

Quote by H-x
Get yourself a cat and start talking to yourself....
it's worked for me.....
I'm fine.....
all on my own.....
can I come over there?
H.x

good advice H-x.........i opted for a house rabbit and talking to myself.......lifes bliss being singe!

17 May 2006

........sits back and waits for the bunny jokes.
H.x

17 May 2006

OMG my threads been invaded by girlies :shock: :shock: :scared:
But lovely ones at that kiss

But for the last time the natural position for the toilet seat is ....................UP!!!!!! rolleyes

17 May 2006

Quote by H-x
........sits back and waits for the bunny jokes.
H.x

Trust me H I've cracked them all already :giggle:

17 May 2006

Here is a cuddle for all you singles out there passionkiss

I could think of a few ways of entertaining a few of these sexy ladies for a few hours :twisted:
69position

:rascal:
Shaz x