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which one of these are you?

I am a male who is swinging alone but is NOT single
I am a male who IS single
we are a couple who only would swing with men who ARE single
we are a couple who swing with (would swing with) men who are committing adultery
we are a couple who avoid men who swing alone
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Unknown User
Quote by peenut
My respects for whoever or to whatever I don't know or want to know,
But myself, I tend to do as I please and therefore must take full blame or credit should anything "happen" as a result. Were I to die, well Its not my problem anymore and were the situation for example, that I as a single male meet a "single" female who is infact married and her husband does not know then I feel my first mistake is that I know too much about that person and my second mistake would be to continue, but I would not feel any sense of blame whatsoever (unless he's a big hairy bloke...) but then we must all be prepared to defend ourselves and our actions or walk away if thats the right thing to do?

Agreed biggrin
duncanlondon
Sex God
I think when people ask if you can get involved in swinging without responsibiity or accountability, then I say this is unavoidable. Because participants must make a decision on the best available information, which they should get by asking the right questions of the people who they intend to be involved with. If they don't make enquiries they can not plead ignorance and apportion blame to anyone else.
Unknown User
Quote by duncanlondon
I think when people ask if you can get involved in swinging without responsibiity or accountability, then I say this is unavoidable. Because participants must make a decision on the best available information, which they should get by asking the right questions of the people who they intend to be involved with. If they don't make enquiries they can not plead ignorance and apportion blame to anyone else.

Agreed if we are talking about a pre-arranged meet but when you are in a club? Realistically if we play in clubs then we have to turn a blind eye to the other person's situation, it would just be daft to be sitting in a jacuuzzi, for example, have a good looking guy start to play and then look at him and say 'Before you go any further can I check if you have a partner?' :shock: :shock: :shock:
duncanlondon
Sex God
Quote by flidais-media
I think when people ask if you can get involved in swinging without responsibiity or accountability, then I say this is unavoidable. Because participants must make a decision on the best available information, which they should get by asking the right questions of the people who they intend to be involved with. If they don't make enquiries they can not plead ignorance and apportion blame to anyone else.

Agreed if we are talking about a pre-arranged meet but when you are in a club? Realistically if we play in clubs then we have to turn a blind eye to the other person's situation, it would just be daft to be sitting in a jacuuzzi, for example, have a good looking guy start to play and then look at him and say 'Before you go any further can I check if you have a partner?' :shock: :shock: :shock:
I think if you go with the passion at a club then you know you have already made a decision without being fully aware, and willing to take a risk, but that would be your responsibility.
Dawnie
Sex God
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Tragedy does and can happen.
Imagine you were playing away, was in an accident on the way home from a meet and died. Your spouce looked on the Pc and found this site. It would be most traumatic for everyone involved, not least the unsuspecting spouce.
The best and worst case should always be considered when going into something because you really don't know the time or the day.

This can happen and DOES happen, the scenario you mention above happened last year, none of us even knew the guy was married, but as you said Gem, if you are playing with fire you should always thing about all the possible consequences.
I'd forgotten about that sad
A most terrible time for so many people.
Drop a pebble in the water and watch the ripples to give you some idea of how many people that can affect.
Unknown User
Quote by duncanlondon
I think when people ask if you can get involved in swinging without responsibiity or accountability, then I say this is unavoidable. Because participants must make a decision on the best available information, which they should get by asking the right questions of the people who they intend to be involved with. If they don't make enquiries they can not plead ignorance and apportion blame to anyone else.

Agreed if we are talking about a pre-arranged meet but when you are in a club? Realistically if we play in clubs then we have to turn a blind eye to the other person's situation, it would just be daft to be sitting in a jacuuzzi, for example, have a good looking guy start to play and then look at him and say 'Before you go any further can I check if you have a partner?' :shock: :shock: :shock:
I think if you go with the passion at a club then you know you have already made a decision without being fully aware, and willing to take a risk, but that would be your responsibility.
It is indeed our decision..but have to say can't say, in all the times we've visited clubs, we've ever been asked (or seen anyone else asking) about marital status...that is just the nature of the scene.
Unknown User
Quote by Dawn_Mids
Tragedy does and can happen.
Imagine you were playing away, was in an accident on the way home from a meet and died. Your spouce looked on the Pc and found this site. It would be most traumatic for everyone involved, not least the unsuspecting spouce.
The best and worst case should always be considered when going into something because you really don't know the time or the day.

This can happen and DOES happen, the scenario you mention above happened last year, none of us even knew the guy was married, but as you said Gem, if you are playing with fire you should always thing about all the possible consequences.
I'd forgotten about that sad
A most terrible time for so many people.
Drop a pebble in the water and watch the ripples to give you some idea of how many people that can affect.
This is very true and sounds like a really sad situation for everyone.
However, we are all grown ups and we all have to make our own decsions and, in the long run, our own mistakes, we do not think, as free thinking people, we have the right to tell anyone else how to live their own life.
duncanlondon
Sex God
Quote by flidais-media
I think when people ask if you can get involved in swinging without responsibiity or accountability, then I say this is unavoidable. Because participants must make a decision on the best available information, which they should get by asking the right questions of the people who they intend to be involved with. If they don't make enquiries they can not plead ignorance and apportion blame to anyone else.

Agreed if we are talking about a pre-arranged meet but when you are in a club? Realistically if we play in clubs then we have to turn a blind eye to the other person's situation, it would just be daft to be sitting in a jacuuzzi, for example, have a good looking guy start to play and then look at him and say 'Before you go any further can I check if you have a partner?' :shock: :shock: :shock:
I think if you go with the passion at a club then you know you have already made a decision without being fully aware, and willing to take a risk, but that would be your responsibility.
It is indeed our decision..but have to say can't say, in all the times we've visited clubs, we've ever been asked (or seen anyone else asking) about marital status...that is just the nature of the scene.
Yes I think so too. In fact any kind of discussion like that is usually avoided as it will cause doubt and loss of confidence all round. Not good at any time if a successful meeting is wanted.