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1st time Clubbers!!

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Hi Guys, first post on here so please be nice to us! Ok were just about plucking up enough courage to go to our first club wheres good whats the etiquette whats the dress code etc and what are we likely to expect there probarbly obvious questions really however peolples first time experience examples are always helpfull !!
Mr Hnj.
Hi folks, and welcome to the site, and to the forum.
The standard advice normally meted out to newbies is this: go and spend a night with skinny, after which everything else will seem perfectly acceptable, even pleasant by comparison.
Have fun x
Sorry I can't advise on clubs, they tend not to allow me in.... some people have no sense of humour.
Something I would add is - focus on chatting and getting to know lots of people a little bit. If fun happens that's great, but it's more likely after at least some preliminary conversation.
Oh, and don't give anyone a false name unless you can be sure to remember it 5 minutes later (Guess how I learned about THAT mistake. biggrin)
Check out the club reviews over thattaway <<<<<
As Ste-n-Kez said, checking out the website will give you some ideas.
I would say try and avoid going down the 'dutch courage' route, or at least, do it in moderation. Secondly, I'd say set some ground rules between yourselves before you go.
You may find you just want to play with each other - and most clubs have lockable rooms where you can go and do just that. If being watched is your thing, then you may find the public play areas or rooms with viewing opportunities fun.
Basically, I'd say just go and relax. Don't have any set expectations and you'll probably be surprised at how fun/laid back it is.
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