Does you gf know you're here?
Do you want to swing or cheat?
We get someone like you introducing themselves in here every week now. You won't be popular in here. It's a much better idea to talk with your partner than to announce yourself in here as a (potential) cheater.
Mike.
John - I bet you never thought you'd come on here and peeps think you were a perv lol ;-) But basically mate, think it through. Are you really into your g/friend? If so and she's not the adventurous kind then that's it really (although you might find some interesting tips on this site to spice up your sex life if you feel it needs it). If the bottom line is that you are an adventurous type and that is more important, then maybe she's not for you? It sounds lke you care for her, so you might want to think about which is which - you'll enjoy either lifestyle if you can be wholeheartedly committed about it. Cheating on someone is not just 'unfair' to them, it's unfair to you, because it means you are pegging time rather than deciding what you really want in your life.
I don't know your g/friend (I am so tempted to put something wicked in here bit won't lol :twisted: ) but would she not enjoy browsing the site with you? If the answer's no, would she be shocked if she found out you had been browsing it? How shocked? Would you want to do that to her? Some men can lead double lives and some women can be Stepford Wives, but you only live once, so decide who you want to have been (and what sort of person you want to have been) now.
m8, swingers come here and are always welcomed, str8's come here and are welcomed, but cheaters dont get a welcome at all
as edingboroughchris said, how would you gf feel about this place
before you do something that you could well regret, talk with her about it, see how she feels. perhaps its something she would like to explore with you, perhaps its something she would hate, but if you cant be honest between the 2 of you, you could never be honest here
we value our lifestyle, we value honesty and respect and friendship. yes i am here as a single guy who is looking for sex, but 1st I am looking for friends, i respect everybody I have seen on the forums, some more than others, but cheaters dont deserve or get respect from me, only contempt
think long and hard on what you are doing, if you dont want to be with her, tell her, leave her, if you do, then work with her and make it work
One more point, John, you might have thought that swingers would have an "anything goes" attitude, but remember that any random group of people is likely to include people who have been cheated on in a past relationship, and who have had their attitude to the subject very much coloured by their own bitter experience. Have a good think about it.
Mike.
just go pay a prostitute for sex if that's what you are after...it's not free for all on here!
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Does seem your up for cheating not swinging.
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