Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
How can he be married if he's living with her?
His wife thinks he's a travelling salesman?
Or a truck driver that tramps ????
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A bit of advise or opinions wanted
I've found myself in a similar position just recently. After 5 months my boyfriends parents didn't know I existed and I hadn't met any of his friends. The last straw for me was when I was pretty much told I didn't factor into his Xmas or New Year plans so I dumped him. I don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to spend, what I consider, special times of the year with me.
thanks for all your replies,
His parents do know about her and it has been discussed about them meeting which ends up in an arguement when he wont set a date as such or wont explain why. Other than that they have a great relationship and worship each other and would be a shame to see them split up which is i think destined to happen very soon.
Im pretty certain that he hasnt got a wife stashed somewhere, and she has met his friends and work collegues
I dont know anymore
: :?: :?: :?: :?: :?: his behaviour confuses me, just wanted to clafify my feeling were rightly so and not in a sympathy vote for my friend
His parents do know about her and it has been discussed about them meeting which ends up in an arguement when he wont set a date as such or wont explain why. Other than that they have a great relationship and worship each other and would be a shame to see them split up which is i think destined to happen very soon.
Im pretty certain that he hasnt got a wife stashed somewhere, and she has met his friends and work collegues
I dont know anymore
: :?: :?: :?: :?: :?: his behaviour confuses me, just wanted to clafify my feeling were rightly so and not in a sympathy vote for my friend 
Warming the Bed
must say it seems very strange that length of time....if he hasnt anything to hide or ashamed of family...or of her... or anything hes told her that the family will not confirm..... he does have issues some where for sure... :shock:
Warming the Bed
must say it seems very strange that length of time....if he hasnt anything to hide or ashamed of family...or of her... or anything hes told her that the family will not confirm..... he does have issues some where for sure... :shock:
sounds suspicious to me guys 5 years, that has got to mean only 3 thing A) hes married B) hes ashamed of her (and married) C) hes married 
dunno i think a cplof months is even a bit of a long time i met miss srnes parnets after bout 4 weeks but then she wanted to shoew me off unsurprisingly :lol:
dunno i think a cplof months is even a bit of a long time i met miss srnes parnets after bout 4 weeks but then she wanted to shoew me off unsurprisingly :lol:
Quote by duncanlondon
If you don't mind me asking what has your role been with your friend during the last 5 years?
I assume a conventional, but clearly incompetent relationship; or is there something really juicy going on? Borderline sado masochism perhaps? Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm....
nothin juicy going on with me n her im afriad
just a regular friendship
Well I think he's not married but Playing away..... If family have never been a big deal anyway why all of a sudden?? Nahhh Stinks... family thing is an excuse to go and have a good night out without her thinking he is up to no good.... No way is he seeing his family lol no way!!
Sounds as dodgy as a dodgy git gets lol........
Sounds as dodgy as a dodgy git gets lol........
Quote by mdr2000
Well I think he's not married but Playing away..... If family have never been a big deal anyway why all of a sudden?? Nahhh Stinks... family thing is an excuse to go and have a good night out without her thinking he is up to no good.... No way is he seeing his family lol no way!!
Sounds as dodgy as a dodgy git gets lol........
Now that sounds like the most likely possible scenario yet!! :thumbup:
But still cant understand the 5 year bit and no family involvement. The guy is just following his own agenda in his own little world!!
Quote by Hungrypussy69
Well I think he's not married but Playing away..... If family have never been a big deal anyway why all of a sudden?? Nahhh Stinks... family thing is an excuse to go and have a good night out without her thinking he is up to no good.... No way is he seeing his family lol no way!!
Sounds as dodgy as a dodgy git gets lol........
Now that sounds like the most likely possible scenario yet!! :thumbup:
But still cant understand the 5 year bit and no family involvement. The guy is just following his own agenda in his own little world!!
If I read right he pops to see his family only every few months..... yeah ok!! Now if I were a guy wanting a good excuse to play away every now and then BINGO lol....
After 5 years it wears thin agreed but if he really thought 'New years Eve' I'm on a winner I need a good excuse for a very late one...... Mmm
Mike x
I hope its not too much to ask as I'm a nosey old codger. It may feel like a diggging out, but there's just a few loose ends and missing logical stuff.
If you have both been monitoring this relationship over the last 5 years, she has probably confided many intimate details to you. Didn't her family want to meet the fellow? So how has that been handled?
Its just that he has been presented with some basic details, so it would help if she was also given some description in this situation.
If you have been in the middle, are you worried that she may now lash out at you because you are the most convenient victim?
It sounds like a classic dumped misstress scenario.
If you have both been monitoring this relationship over the last 5 years, she has probably confided many intimate details to you. Didn't her family want to meet the fellow? So how has that been handled?
Its just that he has been presented with some basic details, so it would help if she was also given some description in this situation.
If you have been in the middle, are you worried that she may now lash out at you because you are the most convenient victim?
It sounds like a classic dumped misstress scenario.
Quote by duncanlondon
I hope its not too much to ask as I'm a nosey old codger. It may feel like a diggging out, but there's just a few loose ends and missing logical stuff.
If you have both been monitoring this relationship over the last 5 years, she has probably confided many intimate details to you. Didn't her family want to meet the fellow? So how has that been handled?
Its just that he has been presented with some basic details, so it would help if she was also given some description in this situation.
If you have been in the middle, are you worried that she may now lash out at you because you are the most convenient victim?
It sounds like a classic dumped misstress scenario.
He met her family after a few weeks as he mainly stayed at hers with her having kids at home, they also live in the same street as her parents so see them often.
I am not worried that she will lash out me, i originally made the post after she had visited me on new years eve, upset about the new years eve party,and just wanted to know other peoples opinions in case i was a little to involved and acting with my friends best interests to make a logical opinion rather than looking at the whole picture
Righty ho. Well the onion has several layers !
Really this is such a menage domestique.
Your mate should know why he's fucked her off. She should have told you by now.
Its to your benefit to get to the nub of the matter asap, otherwise your posting will be flooded with a plethora of misguided opinions, which in turn you could feed your boggle eyed mate.
Really this is such a menage domestique.
Your mate should know why he's fucked her off. She should have told you by now.
Its to your benefit to get to the nub of the matter asap, otherwise your posting will be flooded with a plethora of misguided opinions, which in turn you could feed your boggle eyed mate.
