Last night I went out for a few drinks with the boys, which as usual (as a student) ended up with an absolute hammering in a nightclub. Anyway.. I mentioned to my mate that I really liked this girl... but me not being the best looking guy in the world.. I thought nothing of it.
But strangely for me, I somehow managed to pull her, and was pretty chuffed to leave it at that. But I also got co-erced into walking her home, and during that time SHE pulled me in to kiss her a few more times.
She was talking to me about ex-girlfriends etc, and also about her ex-boyfriend who she broke up with because all he was interested in was sex :shock: !!! So that kinda preluded me not making any attempts to get lucky!
So question is, where do I go from here. Ive got her number, and Ill definitely see her out again on Weds night. Im not usually a soppy one, but Ive really got a soft spot for this girl, and would like to NOT MESS IT UP!
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A Bit of Girl Advice if you please...
Sex God
Just be yourself and don't forget your manners
Good luck - hope it works out for you
Good luck - hope it works out for you
Sex God
Ben~
Sounds as if you're doing fine so far! The fact that she was speaking freely with you about ex-girlfriends and her boyfriend shows that she's comfortable with you and also indicates some level of trust. Next time you meet, just do your best to pick up where you left off, continue to be a good listener and let things develop naturally with her setting the pace. Let the friendship between you blossom first...then there'll be no limits to where the relationship can go (and it definitely seems that the spark of romance is already present between you)! Best of luck...
~Reese!
Sounds as if you're doing fine so far! The fact that she was speaking freely with you about ex-girlfriends and her boyfriend shows that she's comfortable with you and also indicates some level of trust. Next time you meet, just do your best to pick up where you left off, continue to be a good listener and let things develop naturally with her setting the pace. Let the friendship between you blossom first...then there'll be no limits to where the relationship can go (and it definitely seems that the spark of romance is already present between you)! Best of luck...
~Reese!
Master of Sex
the only thing i will say Ben is read all the posts above. good luck though you could be on to a really nice girl here
Can't say anymore than has been said already but it sounds like a potentially great start - the fact that you talked openly and casualy about 'exs' is always a good indication of better things to come (IMHO) - so may people get SO hung up on what's gone on before, they miss all the good stuff that's happening to them there and then.
Do what you/she want to do, not what your mates or her friends and the 'text books' say you should. Gut feeling is always 99% correct in my experience.
Good luck mate - and keep us posted!
Do what you/she want to do, not what your mates or her friends and the 'text books' say you should. Gut feeling is always 99% correct in my experience.
Good luck mate - and keep us posted!
Smooth...very smooth......
If she gave you her number...she must be interested... if you do ask her out for a more private evening...make sure you ask her to something specific... I.e. go to a restaurant or watch a film...or go to the pub/club.... is much better then saying 'Do you fancy going out...to er....um... you know...um... somewhere...um...'
If she is interested she will say yes to what ever you suggest so just enjoy.
In my experience (For whatever that is worth???) a lady likes a confident manner without being pushy... so be yourself... go with the flow....and give her a call......
Now!
Feel the fear ..............and do it anyway !
If she gave you her number...she must be interested... if you do ask her out for a more private evening...make sure you ask her to something specific... I.e. go to a restaurant or watch a film...or go to the pub/club.... is much better then saying 'Do you fancy going out...to er....um... you know...um... somewhere...um...'
If she is interested she will say yes to what ever you suggest so just enjoy.
In my experience (For whatever that is worth???) a lady likes a confident manner without being pushy... so be yourself... go with the flow....and give her a call......
Now!
Feel the fear ..............and do it anyway !
Quote by luv2lick
i agree with vix. i would call her and tell her you cant wait that long to see her ask her if she is doin anything tonight. if answer is no ask her treat her like a will ring you the next day.
Or make you breakfast ? :twisted: :twisted:
No, you eejit. Hold out for as long as you can... she'll be gagging for it. Works for me anyways. But I am a first date kinda woman, so ignore me.
Quote by Vix
i agree with vix. i would call her and tell her you cant wait that long to see her ask her if she is doin anything tonight. if answer is no ask her treat her like a will ring you the next day.
Or make you breakfast ? :twisted: :twisted:
No, you eejit. Hold out for as long as you can... she'll be gagging for it. Works for me anyways. But I am a first date kinda woman, so ignore me.
He might be able to hold out for 2... maybe 3 hours...then she will be beggin him.... No?
Quote by Vix
i agree with vix. i would call her and tell her you cant wait that long to see her ask her if she is doin anything tonight. if answer is no ask her treat her like a will ring you the next day.
Or make you breakfast ? :twisted: :twisted:
No, you eejit. Hold out for as long as you can... she'll be gagging for it. Works for me anyways. But I am a first date kinda woman, so ignore me.i still stand by what i said. if you dont ring now her ex might. or one of your treat her nice like she is the only woman in the world. you will be ok. pm me and tell me what happens.
Sex God
Quote by foxylady 123
Get her rung NOW, no waiting till Ted night!!!
But... but... I thought every night was Ted night!! :P
~Reese!
P.S. to Ben: Listen to Vix - just DO it!! :thumbup:
Sex God
May I add my voice to the others, Ben - call her now, or as soon as you can. Be honest, down to earth, don't try to "impress", just be yourself.
Good luck,
Mike.
Good luck,
Mike.
Sex God
Quote by foxylady 123
You know very well that im eant WED night!!
What?? You mean Ted's not coming tonight?! :cry:
~Reese! :o
P.S. to Ben: Well? Have you phoned her yet?!
