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A change of taste

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W and I have been playing in public places for years. Not in public as in front of, that has happen, just not planned.
Now W has been turning down offers, do not say it's is to cold, it was not. I know tastes change, but has any one's taste changed so dramatically?
I think the novelty can sometimes wear off.. for a while. Two years ago, Jay picked me up from a party and we drove home. On the way home I decided I wanted to be naughty and we parked up at the sea front. I went down on him and the next thing we knew someone was standing by the car watching. I was mortified. This was my first ever experience of dogging. Instead of stopping I got really turned on and after that we did it again. By the third time the novelty had wore off and the experience just wasn't the same.
So we moved on to something else - SH! :happy:
It could just be that, but other than that you could talk to W about it.x
when i first started swinging i got into it to meet other women, i have been bi all my sexual life but was finding it hard to find women so i thought sites such as this was ideal, i wasnt even interested in meeting couples just 1 on 1 with other women, now i don't have any interest in meeting women at all it wasnt something i planned, i didn't sit down one day and think 'im off women' i just started meeting less and less and more and more men, i didnt even notice it at first, but now i don't even look for women at all, peoples sexual needs change, simple as smile
I've for the most part, been on here to explore my bi side so meeting women for 1-1 has always been the main reason for my meets. MMF and DP has never appealed to me but lately, I've been wondering what it'd be like. Not sure how long before I try it but you never know wink
My problem is I'm so fussy where guys are concerned I have trouble finding ONE I like let alone TWO! confused
The trouble is with us women is that we are prone to changing our minds often! Sometimes I find that things I find a huge turn on one week, just dont turn me on another......you may say that may just be hormonal.......i say its just cos Im not an animal of habit.
I like exploring. I enjoy trying new things and seeing what works and, indeed, what doesnt.
Perhaps W has just had enough of that particular way of meeting for a while. Try something different. A change is as good as a rest so they say biggrin
had this convo very recently with dek we was talking about the things we used to do 5 years ago when we met and wondered why those things didnt turn me on like they used to. porn is the best way to explain this 5 years ago i loved porn now it really bores me give me a good story to read anyday Ive asked myself is it an age thing (me being younger still wanting to explore so many different things) or is it just the difference in people
they say a womans taste for things change every five years
I suppose when it's a novelty - it's fun (apart from novelty ties - they are never fun rolleyes ). But when it stops being a novelty, well its humdrum...
Our tastes have changed dramatically we only ever used to drink tea now its just coffee lol
But on a serious note, as others have said, think sometimes ur tastes for certain things both sexually and in life in general just change or adapt!!
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And, the understatement of the week award goes to...
The trouble is with us women is that we are prone to changing our minds often!

rolleyes :roll: :roll:
bloody men lol
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they say a womans taste for things change every five minutes

thats more like it rolleyes
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Thank you folks. Time to find something new, very new!