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Quote by bigbuns2
Ah yes yes coming from someone who ignores the content of my post to comment on the final line in isolation.

funny enough... are you not guilty of the same thing???
in your first post on the thread... you quote the opening posters first line.....
Quote by jameybruce
Ok, so us girls generally are looking after ourselves. The photo evidence is on the profiles. We're not looking for athletes or gym type fanatics, just people that take care. lol

if they want to make that assumption then fine... they certainly haven't been to one of numerous socials and functions I have been to on the site, they want to use the profiles as proof.. I could show them a ton of profiles that would contradict that.....
however you decided to ignore the second line before you went into your post
Quote by jameybruce
So why are the majority of men on here carrying the equivalent of a 6 pack or three? Come on guys, visit a gym and get in shape. Please! Pretty please. :twisted:

That is the generalisationthat I am betting that most people are annoyed with, and the "visit a gym and get in shape bit" isn't much better.......
I was going to stay out of this after I advised the Opening poster that it was probably a wise idea that they should "stop digging".... but that was ignored
I am a large guy... I play sport.... doesn't mean I am not fit.......
I stopped ages ago so what are u ranting and raving about?
Quote by bigbuns2
I stopped ages ago so what are u ranting and raving about?

Fabio is showing that you yourself are guilty of the self same thing you have accused others of doing ....
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Quote by fabio
Ah yes yes coming from someone who ignores the content of my post to comment on the final line in isolation.

funny enough... are you not guilty of the same thing???
in your first post on the thread... you quote the opening posters first line.....
Quote by jameybruce
Ok, so us girls generally are looking after ourselves. The photo evidence is on the profiles. We're not looking for athletes or gym type fanatics, just people that take care. lol

if they want to make that assumption then fine... they certainly haven't been to one of numerous socials and functions I have been to on the site, they want to use the profiles as proof.. I could show them a ton of profiles that would contradict that.....
however you decided to ignore the second line before you went into your post
Quote by jameybruce
So why are the majority of men on here carrying the equivalent of a 6 pack or three? Come on guys, visit a gym and get in shape. Please! Pretty please. :twisted:

That is the generalisationthat I am betting that most people are annoyed with, and the "visit a gym and get in shape bit" isn't much better.......
I was going to stay out of this after I advised the Opening poster that it was probably a wise idea that they should "stop digging".... but that was ignored
I am a large guy... I play sport.... doesn't mean I am not fit.......
this is the reason why i posted a thread about tongue in cheek this morning because i dont think the OP, had any intention to offend or generalise,she might have expected men to come up with funny excuses why we avoid the gym,i strongly feel this issue has been misinterpretated and taken far out of concept,below is her first reply...
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ah flower, such reassurance is wonderful. You clearly have some wonderful friends!
And I like the natural look too.
Thank you Phukers.
Sanity at last.
Quote by Phuckers
this is the reason why i posted a thread about tongue in cheek this morning because i dont think the OP, had any intention to offend or generalise,she might have expected men to come up with funny excuses why we avoid the gym,i strongly feel this issue has been misinterpretated and taken far out of concept,below is her first reply...

Just because something was said tongue-in-cheek does not confer on it an automatic ability to not offend.
Perhaps you would prefer a series of black jokes based on the number of ads requesting well-hung black guys?
i carry a few extra stones never mind kilos, does that mean i dont look after myself no!
you have no idea why some people are overweight you are assuming its lack of exercise or not looking after themselves.
way to go making people feel self conscious as if there isnt enough of that about already given the media pressure etc
but media pressure works too ways how many look at these skinny celeb mags to do you get
a person is more than the packaging, the inside is what matters thank fook i am not so shallow that i pass people up cos of the way they look
a physical attraction needs to be there yea but if the mental attraction isnt there doesnt matter how fit, good looking etc it aint gonna happen
meeting people at socials, the way someone posts their personality that comes through is more important than the shell they are carried around in
Earthy xxx
Quote by earthchild
i carry a few extra stones never mind kilos, does that mean i dont look after myself no!
you have no idea why some people are overweight you are assuming its lack of exercise or not looking after themselves.
way to go making people feel self conscious as if there isnt enough of that about already given the media pressure etc
but media pressure works too ways how many look at these skinny celeb mags to do you get
a person is more than the packaging, the inside is what matters thank fook i am not so shallow that i pass people up cos of the way they look
a physical attraction needs to be there yea but if the mental attraction isnt there doesnt matter how fit, good looking etc it aint gonna happen
meeting people at socials, the way someone posts their personality that comes through is more important than the shell they are carried around in
Earthy xxx

:thumbup: and how right you are. I have PCOS which makes losing weight difficult (gaining isn't a problem rolleyes ), in the summer of last year I started going to a gym 3 times a week and my body shape changed dramatically to the point that people thought I'd lost stones rather than pounds, I'd lost 20 odd pounds but that was all.
I still exercise now, I'm fitter than most slimmer people. It's all in the mind, you are as fit as you want to be.
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you still got moobs biggrin
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this is the reason why i posted a thread about tongue in cheek this morning because i dont think the OP, had any intention to offend or generalise,she might have expected men to come up with funny excuses why we avoid the gym,i strongly feel this issue has been misinterpretated and taken far out of concept,below is her first reply...

Just because something was said tongue-in-cheek does not confer on it an automatic ability to not offend.
Perhaps you would prefer a series of black jokes based on the number of ads requesting well-hung black guys?
thats absolutely stupid thing to say,do you have to use my race to put such a pathetic excuse on your defence...am sorry MODs if you turn a blind eye at this you must have a lot to answer for am absolutely disgusted with your abusive remarks,despite the way things are going on this forum i didnt expect such foul language...i demand a public apologise.
mad :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x there was no need for that
Quote by Phuckers

this is the reason why i posted a thread about tongue in cheek this morning because i dont think the OP, had any intention to offend or generalise,she might have expected men to come up with funny excuses why we avoid the gym,i strongly feel this issue has been misinterpretated and taken far out of concept,below is her first reply...

Just because something was said tongue-in-cheek does not confer on it an automatic ability to not offend.
Perhaps you would prefer a series of black jokes based on the number of ads requesting well-hung black guys?
thats absolutely stupid thing to say,do you have to use my race to put such a pathetic excuse on your defence...am sorry MODs if you turn a blind eye at this you must have a lot to answer for am absolutely disgusted with your abusive remarks,despite the way things are going on this forum i didnt expect such foul language...i demand a public apologise.
mad :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x there was no need for that
Sory but although the choice of similie may be a little off there wasn't anything foul there dunno
Quote by Phuckers

this is the reason why i posted a thread about tongue in cheek this morning because i dont think the OP, had any intention to offend or generalise,she might have expected men to come up with funny excuses why we avoid the gym,i strongly feel this issue has been misinterpretated and taken far out of concept,below is her first reply...

Just because something was said tongue-in-cheek does not confer on it an automatic ability to not offend.
Perhaps you would prefer a series of black jokes based on the number of ads requesting well-hung black guys?
thats absolutely stupid thing to say,do you have to use my race to put such a pathetic excuse on your defence...am sorry MODs if you turn a blind eye at this you must have a lot to answer for am absolutely disgusted with your abusive remarks,despite the way things are going on this forum i didnt expect such foul language...i demand a public apologise.
mad :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x there was no need for that
What abusive, disgusting and foul language are you talking about?
Quote by Steve

this is the reason why i posted a thread about tongue in cheek this morning because i dont think the OP, had any intention to offend or generalise,she might have expected men to come up with funny excuses why we avoid the gym,i strongly feel this issue has been misinterpretated and taken far out of concept,below is her first reply...

Just because something was said tongue-in-cheek does not confer on it an automatic ability to not offend.
Perhaps you would prefer a series of black jokes based on the number of ads requesting well-hung black guys?
thats absolutely stupid thing to say,do you have to use my race to put such a pathetic excuse on your defence...am sorry MODs if you turn a blind eye at this you must have a lot to answer for am absolutely disgusted with your abusive remarks,despite the way things are going on this forum i didnt expect such foul language...i demand a public apologise.
mad :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x there was no need for that
Sory but although the choice of similie may be a little off there wasn't anything foul there dunno
spend a time and read this guys profile,for my short duration on this forum,have felt safe because my race has never been an issue..i rather if you stay out of it steve
Quote by Phuckers

this is the reason why i posted a thread about tongue in cheek this morning because i dont think the OP, had any intention to offend or generalise,she might have expected men to come up with funny excuses why we avoid the gym,i strongly feel this issue has been misinterpretated and taken far out of concept,below is her first reply...

Just because something was said tongue-in-cheek does not confer on it an automatic ability to not offend.
Perhaps you would prefer a series of black jokes based on the number of ads requesting well-hung black guys?
thats absolutely stupid thing to say,do you have to use my race to put such a pathetic excuse on your defence...am sorry MODs if you turn a blind eye at this you must have a lot to answer for am absolutely disgusted with your abusive remarks,despite the way things are going on this forum i didnt expect such foul language...i demand a public apologise.
mad :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x there was no need for that
Sory but although the choice of similie may be a little off there wasn't anything foul there dunno
spend a time and read this guys profile,for my short duration on this forum,have felt safe because my race has never been an item,but spend a minute and read this guys' profile..i rather if you stay out of it steve
Fraid not.......Its a forum where anyone is allowed to post and if I feel the need to then I will !!
Quote by Phuckers

this is the reason why i posted a thread about tongue in cheek this morning because i dont think the OP, had any intention to offend or generalise,she might have expected men to come up with funny excuses why we avoid the gym,i strongly feel this issue has been misinterpretated and taken far out of concept,below is her first reply...

Just because something was said tongue-in-cheek does not confer on it an automatic ability to not offend.
Perhaps you would prefer a series of black jokes based on the number of ads requesting well-hung black guys?
thats absolutely stupid thing to say,do you have to use my race to put such a pathetic excuse on your defence...am sorry MODs if you turn a blind eye at this you must have a lot to answer for am absolutely disgusted with your abusive remarks,despite the way things are going on this forum i didnt expect such foul language...i demand a public apologise.
mad :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x there was no need for that
Sory but although the choice of similie may be a little off there wasn't anything foul there dunno
spend a time and read this guys profile,for my short duration on this forum,have felt safe because my race has never been an issue..i rather if you stay out of it steve
There is nothing in his profile except about himself and your posting on a public forum thus making it public!
Quote by Phuckers
please yourself steve

Why do you feel the need to omit me personally from this topic ????
f*ck this shit!
am definately talking back to the wrong people
Time out, go and have a brew.
If anyone has a problem, my pm box is that way <<<<<< but please, stop the bickering rolleyes
And Phuckers, if for one moment I thought that the post you quoted was racist, I can guarantee it would have been dealt with immediately by one of the mods.