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A guy who doesn't like Blow Job's- is he unique?

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Quote by foxylady2209
A few people have said they enjoy giving ratherthan recieving.
I'm with them on that - but - I love giving pleasure too, and if 'dining downstairs' (I LOVE that phrase) means my partner can enjoy my response to recieving then I will happily receive. So long as I get to give too.
*** reads it through a couple of times***
I'm pretty sure I know what I meant to say there - hope it makes sense biggrin
What I mean is there is pleasure in giving pleasure and pleasure in being given pleasure - omg, that's no clearer. Well, I now what I mean anyway :doh:

I can guess what you were doing when you were writing the above wink
Quote by foxylady2209
A few people have said they enjoy giving ratherthan recieving.
I'm with them on that - but - I love giving pleasure too, and if 'dining downstairs' (I LOVE that phrase) means my partner can enjoy my response to recieving then I will happily receive. So long as I get to give too.
*** reads it through a couple of times***
I'm pretty sure I know what I meant to say there - hope it makes sense biggrin
What I mean is there is pleasure in giving pleasure and pleasure in being given pleasure - omg, that's no clearer. Well, I now what I mean anyway :doh:

i understood you perfectly.
Quote by foxylady2209
A few people have said they enjoy giving ratherthan recieving.
I'm with them on that - but - I love giving pleasure too, and if 'dining downstairs' (I LOVE that phrase) means my partner can enjoy my response to recieving then I will happily receive. So long as I get to give too.
*** reads it through a couple of times***
I'm pretty sure I know what I meant to say there - hope it makes sense biggrin
What I mean is there is pleasure in giving pleasure and pleasure in being given pleasure - omg, that's no clearer. Well, I now what I mean anyway :doh:

Understood perfectly. And thoroughly agree smile
reading all these comments has been very interesting indeed.
i dont mind them ... i prefer licking n sucking to protracted sucking the idea of being sucked n sucked for 5 / 10 / or 15 mins bores me silly and of all the bj ive had only 1 has made me cum with out wanking at same time lol guess im on the odd list now
I have had occasions when the lady in question didn't open her mouth quite wide enough (I didn't mean that to sound quite how it does! redface ). The sensation of her teeth on the outside edge of me glans was literally unbearable.
It is quite difficult to peel me off the ceiling I've found. wink
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well i dont think every bloke is that talented!!! i know that for a fact lol
i love giving bj and going south!!! lol pmsl !! i get more turn on more that way !!
how a bloke dont like it , i dont understand , do they still do handjobs?
do any blokes like women who swallow and does that turn them off too x!!!
best mate in the world jax1969 xxx
Think the 'answers' here have it.
I don't really like blow jobs because, not to put it to bluntly, I have a slightly tight foreskin and thus a sensitive end. Therefore, it is all in the hands, mouth/tongue on the shaft for me and to much focus on the end after a bit hurts and actually has the opposite effect.
Communication, technique, maybe just not his thing, maybe even 'medical' or maybe he has not had a good 1 and by that I mean 1 that works for him.
Chris x
read all the posts and i hope those guys who dont like bjs - just cos they dont like bjs and why should they explain why they dont like - dont now feel there is something wrong with them. We all like different things and thats what makes life so much fun; after all it would be a boring world if we all liked meat and 2 veg.
runtie xx
Hi Runtie wave
I wasn't trying to make anyone feel bad, and I don't think anyone else on this thread has said anything that would make anyone feel bad either.
I was not judging him for not liking BJ's, merely making an observation that it was unusual, and trying to gague how unusual. I have absolute, utter respect for the guy in question, and am doing all I can to bolster his sexual confidence, not dent it. (I know- it's a tough job innocent)
As you say, it would be a dull world.......
Back on the original topic but from another angle, I personally do not enjoy oral performed on me after I have cum a lot, way, way too sensitive sometimes, to the point of painful :eeek:
will bear it in mind lol :shock:
Quote by PoloLady

So Polo your rules do not work for me. It is just sometimes it is waww and sometimes wawwand sometimes arr waw.

1 – it was not a ‘rule’
2 – “various amounts of sexual activity”
Though I imply the sexual activity to be the cause (which includes a pre-meet wank) wink
ok i will ask the stupid question: I think you are reccomending a pre-meet wank yes ?
Nope, and especially not to tender-togger sufferers.
From what I have been told (seeing as I don't have a penis of my own):
Some guys have a pre-meet tug. Some have the pre-meet tug as they always cum fast the first time (so think it makes them look better in bed if they last a bit longer). But if it means your gonna suffer boner-burnout sooner or tender-toggeritis dunno
OK your theory does not apply. As for the tug, you just do not know how exciting green eyes and red boots can get. So probably best to take precautions... to avoid embarrassment.
I like receiving, although sometimes it can be a bit too intense, personally, Ive yet to meet a woman who gives a BJ because she enjoys it and I get the feeling that the only reason she is doing it is because she feels she has to, so I cant relax and enjoy it because I feel guilty and always stop before completion.
I`ve also had g/f`s who wont let me go down on them for simmilar reasons and I absolutely love to give. I`m happy if I find a partner who loves to receive but isnt really into giving.
So I guess its the same for both sexes some like to give and not receive and vice versa.
Fellatio for me is enjoyable but being an older guy it takes me a long time to come and I think my partners might get jaw ache first, not something I'd want for them. So fellatio is supplemented by my own hand. One partner loves to swallow so wants it in her mouth when I come but my glans gets supersensitive at that point so she is merrily sucking and licking the tip just as I am in silent agony. I am too polite to tell her. I lurrrve kissing a pussy and just want to get better at it.
BJ's do nothing for me- Which sorta pisses the Mrs off a bit. It's always been the same regardless of partner. I don't object to it or find it objectionable. In fact the idea of it is quite practice f it however does nothing at all. Apart from stoppimg the oh yeahhhhhhhhhh feelimgs for the 'oh well' feelings
Winchys back, and guess what.......
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Quote by winchwench
Winchys back, and guess what.......
:smile2:

Cooooooooooooool cool !!Welcome back. But guess what?............what?:lol2:
Well, lets just say theres a first time for everything :rascal:
As if you didn't feckin know :giggle:
Quote by winchwench
Well, lets just say theres a first time for everything :rascal:
As if you didn't feckin know :giggle:

You've gone a whole week without sex? dunno
bolt
PS... spit or swallow? :giggle:
Quote by winchwench
Is there anyone else who doesn't like them? Or is he unique? Come to think of it, is there anyone with any other commonly loved dislikes? (did that make sense?)

What a top question!!!!! worship
Right - I much prefer giving thna receiving, (which no one seems to mind, luckily).
1. I am generally a giver, so lying back I can't just think of Egland, I'm thinking oh, no, am I taing too long, is she tired yet, should have come by now
2. I am sensitive, I need it to be sloppy-slippy wet and I don't like teeth
3. 'body remembers pain', when I was a kid, I had measles that went onto my testicles, so I'm subconsciously sensitive to poeple handling my balls and things
4. er, no, I think, that's about it.
Having said that, some girls are so cool at it that even I love it. There was one in particular, Richmond car park, top level, staircase, mmmmmmm...... :smug:
I much prefer giving to receiving, and I really enjoy being able to please a lady with the touch of my tongue.
Only twice have I enjoyed a bj to completion ... and they were both one-offs. I've never had a regular partner who could sense my feelings and know just what I want ... I wonder if that is possible? Do those who are experts and enthusiasts - I think of Varca's and Jaymar's posts above - know how their guy is reacting and what he wants at any moment? Or is it just a question of 'flat out till he comes'?
biggrin :D :D dam missed out again,any one for a reminder lol
Quite new to this so please bear with me! - The way I see it( as some of you have mentioned) Communication is the key! When giving a serious BJ -as opposed to a quick taster - I love to ask what he likes!
This way he gets to talk dirty which turns me on and he gets more of what he likes!
I haven't had any complaints so far and it means he is more likely to complete - if you get my drift!
I have read this thread with some interest. I LOVE oral sex - both giving and reciving, but I do think that it is best as part of an extended session of lovemaking rather than the be all and end all. A sort of 'prelude' of what is to come.
I must say that oral sex AFTER coming (for a guy, at least) is not normally pleasurable as everything is wayyyy too sensitive :shock: :shock:.
As part of the build up by both parties then I think that it is fantastic - and I DO love the taste of a woman - always have done.
Will
Quote by Rising
Receiving is certainly almost better than giving imo

You surely cannot be more wrong, there is nothing compared to being "downstairs" for hours, performing the "aussie kiss".
On the subject of bj's: "There is no such thing as a bad blow job" period! lol