reading all these comments has been very interesting indeed.
i dont mind them ... i prefer licking n sucking to protracted sucking the idea of being sucked n sucked for 5 / 10 / or 15 mins bores me silly and of all the bj ive had only 1 has made me cum with out wanking at same time lol guess im on the odd list now
well i dont think every bloke is that talented!!! i know that for a fact lol
i love giving bj and going south!!! lol pmsl !! i get more turn on more that way !!
how a bloke dont like it , i dont understand , do they still do handjobs?
do any blokes like women who swallow and does that turn them off too x!!!
best mate in the world jax1969 xxx
Think the 'answers' here have it.
I don't really like blow jobs because, not to put it to bluntly, I have a slightly tight foreskin and thus a sensitive end. Therefore, it is all in the hands, mouth/tongue on the shaft for me and to much focus on the end after a bit hurts and actually has the opposite effect.
Communication, technique, maybe just not his thing, maybe even 'medical' or maybe he has not had a good 1 and by that I mean 1 that works for him.
Chris x
read all the posts and i hope those guys who dont like bjs - just cos they dont like bjs and why should they explain why they dont like - dont now feel there is something wrong with them. We all like different things and thats what makes life so much fun; after all it would be a boring world if we all liked meat and 2 veg.
runtie xx
I like receiving, although sometimes it can be a bit too intense, personally, Ive yet to meet a woman who gives a BJ because she enjoys it and I get the feeling that the only reason she is doing it is because she feels she has to, so I cant relax and enjoy it because I feel guilty and always stop before completion.
I`ve also had g/f`s who wont let me go down on them for simmilar reasons and I absolutely love to give. I`m happy if I find a partner who loves to receive but isnt really into giving.
So I guess its the same for both sexes some like to give and not receive and vice versa.
Fellatio for me is enjoyable but being an older guy it takes me a long time to come and I think my partners might get jaw ache first, not something I'd want for them. So fellatio is supplemented by my own hand. One partner loves to swallow so wants it in her mouth when I come but my glans gets supersensitive at that point so she is merrily sucking and licking the tip just as I am in silent agony. I am too polite to tell her. I lurrrve kissing a pussy and just want to get better at it.
BJ's do nothing for me- Which sorta pisses the Mrs off a bit. It's always been the same regardless of partner. I don't object to it or find it objectionable. In fact the idea of it is quite practice f it however does nothing at all. Apart from stoppimg the oh yeahhhhhhhhhh feelimgs for the 'oh well' feelings
Winchys back, and guess what.......
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Well, lets just say theres a first time for everything :rascal:
As if you didn't feckin know :giggle:
I much prefer giving to receiving, and I really enjoy being able to please a lady with the touch of my tongue.
Only twice have I enjoyed a bj to completion ... and they were both one-offs. I've never had a regular partner who could sense my feelings and know just what I want ... I wonder if that is possible? Do those who are experts and enthusiasts - I think of Varca's and Jaymar's posts above - know how their guy is reacting and what he wants at any moment? Or is it just a question of 'flat out till he comes'?
Quite new to this so please bear with me! - The way I see it( as some of you have mentioned) Communication is the key! When giving a serious BJ -as opposed to a quick taster - I love to ask what he likes!
This way he gets to talk dirty which turns me on and he gets more of what he likes!
I haven't had any complaints so far and it means he is more likely to complete - if you get my drift!
I have read this thread with some interest. I LOVE oral sex - both giving and reciving, but I do think that it is best as part of an extended session of lovemaking rather than the be all and end all. A sort of 'prelude' of what is to come.
I must say that oral sex AFTER coming (for a guy, at least) is not normally pleasurable as everything is wayyyy too sensitive :shock: :shock:.
As part of the build up by both parties then I think that it is fantastic - and I DO love the taste of a woman - always have done.
Will
). The sensation of her teeth on the outside edge of me glans was literally unbearable.
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!!Welcome back. But guess what?............what?:lol2:
