Hi there,
This is my 2nd day on here and i am very impressed with the friendliness amongst member here not to mention the million and one emails i've gotten so far. Gawd knows there's no way i'll be able to answer them all!
I have a couple of questions though:
1 Is there a munch in London? If so where and when?
2. I fancy attending a swingers club (although this scares the hibijibies out of me), any advice as to finding a person or group to go with?
3. Is there anything you wish you'd known when you first started out here?
Thanks in advance
b.
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Quote by Sxlondonfem
Hi there,
This is my 2nd day on here and i am very impressed with the friendliness amongst member here not to mention the million and one emails i've gotten so far. Gawd knows there's no way i'll be able to answer them all!
I have a couple of questions though:
1 Is there a munch in London? If so where and when? ............ Munches are all listed in the Lets meet up and exact details are not given in public forum but by pm normally one or two weeks before the event .....
2. I fancy attending a swingers club (although this scares the hibijibies out of me), any advice as to finding a person or group to go with? ...............They are a bit scary first time round but don't worry people don't jump on you as soon as you walk in the door . as for finding someone to go with be careful and make sure you trust them and know a bit about them first
3. Is there anything you wish you'd known when you first started out here?..............
Yes lots . ignore most of the e/mails and block the winks .....unless you want to spend all your time replying to guys after a quick shag
enjoy the forums and the chat rooms ... welcome to the site
b.
If you can get to west london, there's a club called AbFabs and I'd be happy to go with you the first time. I go by myself and it's scary til you've been there....well, in my case about 5 minutes!!
I've been here a few months and my profile has changed significantly in that time. it's getting more and more precise due to timewasters, totally inapporpriate people and other things I have learned that I prefer or not. You're inundated so work out what you really want and put it in your profile. You'll still be inundated but at least you'll know quickly what works and what doesn't.
One other thing I'd recommend is to get to know ppl before you meet, I've had a few bad experiences lately so make sure they are offering what you want and want what you offer.
Good luck and welcome to the site
I've been here a few months and my profile has changed significantly in that time. it's getting more and more precise due to timewasters, totally inapporpriate people and other things I have learned that I prefer or not. You're inundated so work out what you really want and put it in your profile. You'll still be inundated but at least you'll know quickly what works and what doesn't.
One other thing I'd recommend is to get to know ppl before you meet, I've had a few bad experiences lately so make sure they are offering what you want and want what you offer.
Good luck and welcome to the site
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I can't add anymore than what's already been said so I won't :giggle: 
Sexlightened
im pretty new to the forums but not the swinging scene,
if there was one thing i wish id done before setting out on the long, fun, scary but mostly amazing trip that is swinging its that i wished id spent more time here on the forums, theres so much you can learn and i was welcomed by all,
dont be afraid to ask, ive learnt more in a week than 4 years of trying to figure it all out on my own,
which leads me on to say thanks again to sassy, shireen, kiss, and everybody else who just manages to put a huge smile on my face everyday when i log in,,, :wave2:
shit,,,, i think im turning soft..
if there was one thing i wish id done before setting out on the long, fun, scary but mostly amazing trip that is swinging its that i wished id spent more time here on the forums, theres so much you can learn and i was welcomed by all,
dont be afraid to ask, ive learnt more in a week than 4 years of trying to figure it all out on my own,
which leads me on to say thanks again to sassy, shireen, kiss, and everybody else who just manages to put a huge smile on my face everyday when i log in,,, :wave2:
shit,,,, i think im turning soft..
Hi, welcome to the site. There are a lot of time wasters on any site so be careful with your time. Forum and chatroom are the most responsive areas of the site and you can check out profiles before you correspond. If they seem to prefer anonimity, i.e. no pic. no profile, then leave them to be anonymous. I don't have much experience with clubs but I have been to a couple of smallish parties. Finding a partner is the same as in the other world I'm afraid, you can only trust your instincts. Meet somewhere safe, take a friend along, you know the drill. Maybe you'll find another lady on the site who'll keep you company. Have lots of fun, I'm sure you will, we loved your photo. xxx
ops: and i'll go and try again :oops:
