Ok, well it can be any number of scenarios, but it`s basically based upon how desperate a man gets by watching/wanting me. I could be on the bed, pleasuring myself, and some guy (straight) would be watching me secretly. He`ll be liking what he sees, and he`ll be needing to relieve himself.......maybe pulling his trousers down, you get the idea......
as this is going on, another guy (also straight) will come along, also wanting to get a good view......of course he will start doing the same, but as he is stretching over the other guy, his cock would inadvertantly touch bare flesh. He doesn`t like to admit it, but it feels good. He other guy doesnt want to admit it, but he quite likes it too! Oi! Stop pissing yourself in the background there! I see you!
They try to ignore what is going on, but as they become increasingly horny, and desperate for stimulation (cos I`m that good
) their accidental contact becomes bolder, each one denying that it`s purposeful, because it is, after all against their nature, until it gets to the point where they eventually cave in to it, one guy pushing back on the other, the guy at the back rubbing and pushing more frantically, both worrying that they won`t be able to pull it off as accidental touching, and how to deal with that, but so turned on, that they are beyond caring, they would do ANYTHING to relieve their aching cocks, because of the effect I`m having, trying to resist desperately, but failing miserably....you have to appreciate the intensity of their `need` It`s not about demeaning men, it`s having the power to effect someone so intensely, and sometimes, depending on the stress in my life, it works the other way too, where I would be.......well sub I suppose....
Of course it takes various scenarios, like everyone is aware of each others presence, and I make them perform on each other before I let them touch me, and they have to communicate how much they want fuck me on the other person.....then I might turn them loose whilst they reverse this on me. Perhaps trussing me up, blindfolding me, and then taking me out onto a muddy footpath where I will beg to be fucked by anything, even strangers, I don`t care.
If life is living me, the dominant fantasy comes to the fore. If I`m controlling the ample stress in my life, it`s the sub, sometimes both which just means I`m being greedy. :mrgreen:
I have to admit, although my fantasies often involve strangers, in reality I would need to totally know and trust the people involved. (and no, it`s not a bloody advert!)
Most of the sexual stimulation is on a mental level with me, and can get quite complex. That`s one of the reasons that discussing the befores and afters (not that there`s been many) have been more fulfilling to us as a couple than the act itself with partners (get her :roll: she hasn`t even full swung yet!), because it allows us a greater understanding of each other deeper processes..if that make any sense? It`s can different for many couples I know.
Now the reason I`m posting this is because when I found myself using the words Sub and Dom, it made me blink, it isn`t something I`d considered being a part of my sexual makeup, and as a result know very little about it. It`s always seemed a little `out there` for me. I`ve tried the light bondage etc, but this is a very strong theme, which has a more profound effect. We thought it might be valuable if we offered it up for dissection, especially by those already in the BDSM scene, they might be able to offer an insight as to how this relates to the scene....and whether I`m a hell of a lot kinkier than I realised and why?!!
Venusxxx
), but I suppose if that level of excitement could be achieved, and read, then it would work for me. It`s various things that I have picked up on on the odd occassion BDSM has been brought up by friends which suggest that this level is sometimes achieved........I hadn`t really taken it on board until now, seeing as I am as pure as the driven snow 
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