Following on from the threads of afew posts about porn for the ladies, one such said there is no difference between male and female porn.
But when wifey and I sit down to watch the occasional video /DVD she always comments about the same things
.1 The scenes may start sexy, but they seem to jump imediately from him, fully clothed to him trousers gone and having sex. Where is the sexiness of touching that hidden bulge and the excitement of undressing ..and why do no porn stars where undies!
.2 Often the angles are all about the mans perspective. so you have to wait ages to see the c**k as it is mostly buried deep.
3 Why do the men f**k like rabbits from the off...Where is the slow erotic sensual build up that brings people to the stage when they really cant help going like a steam train.
4 Sometimes the sex smacks of physical abuse, ok sex can get pretty hard...and there will be a market for it..but surely that is not the norm!
See no complaints about all the hardcore bits...If anyone can recommend (by PM) any good titles that are as good for the woman as the man..would be interested to hear.
G xx
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Quote by tall_dark_n_havesome
.1 they seem to jump imediately from him, fully clothed to him trousers gone and having sex.
.2 so you have to wait ages to see the c**k as it is mostly buried deep.
3 Why do the men f**k like rabbits from the off...
4 Sometimes the sex smacks of physical abuse, ok sex can get pretty hard...
All of the above would do it for me if I had chosen to watch straight porn :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: , as I do sometimes, OK, a lot :shock:
Sorry, probably that wasn't helpful, I'll shut up now
I absolutely agree!!! A bit more foreplay in porn would be fantastic, it would make all the difference I reckon. I definately like the bit about the bulge in the pants, I love to see a fit arse in a pair of Calvins 
A bit of strip teasing from both the men and women would be really sexy and lots of snogging and touching and groping mmmmm! Hmm wonder how hard it would be to get into porn directing :twisted:
A bit of strip teasing from both the men and women would be really sexy and lots of snogging and touching and groping mmmmm! Hmm wonder how hard it would be to get into porn directing :twisted: totally agree with you there, thats y i dont watch them.......so boring . yawn yawn. but that must be what the public want coz they sell well.
the only ones i do watch which have the more 'tender' scenes is the bi-fem ones.
maybe we should all make a SH one and show the movie makers what we really want. :thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled:
the only ones i do watch which have the more 'tender' scenes is the bi-fem ones.
maybe we should all make a SH one and show the movie makers what we really want. :thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled:
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maybe we should all make a SH one and show the movie makers what we really want. :thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled:
:lol: :lol: :lol: As long as you don't mind me fast forwarding all the foreplay bits I'll have a watch ...... :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
What you have described are some of the conventions of porn as made by the producers who frequently have little interest in making imaginative porn and just 'do it by numbers'. What you have described has nothing to do with what the audience would really like to see, me included. I often find that porn does go straight into the action without any build up at all and can be quite unrealistic.
There is porn that does attempt seductive scenes and is targetted at 'women' and 'couples', but this is often no more than a marketing strategy, as what turns people on is subjective and varied. No one can say for definate that this type of porn will appeal to women, it will to some of course as well as to men. There are probably just as many women who enjoy a really sleazy amateur made film with genuine people having sex, as opposed to a couple of actors getting it on in a tastefully done high production setting.
I quite agree with you though as I like erotic films with lots of seduction and build up. I have often found that the French often have this sensibility when it comes to making porn and very good it is too. It's often the American style of 'wam bam' porn that is so prolific and readilly available everywhere that lacks any feeling and imagination.
LC
There is porn that does attempt seductive scenes and is targetted at 'women' and 'couples', but this is often no more than a marketing strategy, as what turns people on is subjective and varied. No one can say for definate that this type of porn will appeal to women, it will to some of course as well as to men. There are probably just as many women who enjoy a really sleazy amateur made film with genuine people having sex, as opposed to a couple of actors getting it on in a tastefully done high production setting.
I quite agree with you though as I like erotic films with lots of seduction and build up. I have often found that the French often have this sensibility when it comes to making porn and very good it is too. It's often the American style of 'wam bam' porn that is so prolific and readilly available everywhere that lacks any feeling and imagination.
LC
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maybe we should all make a SH one and show the movie makers what we really want. :thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled:
:lol: :lol: :lol: As long as you don't mind me fast forwarding all the foreplay bits I'll have a watch ...... :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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I agree TDNH!
I've got to admit most of the porn I have seen is so samey-samey that it is almost boring to me. The pure mechanics of sex on film can be so un-erotic.
The touching and teasing and the sense of what may be about to happen are far more of a turn on.
But that is my personal opinion - we are all different (and what a good thing that is too)!
Hugs, Alex x
I've got to admit most of the porn I have seen is so samey-samey that it is almost boring to me. The pure mechanics of sex on film can be so un-erotic.
The touching and teasing and the sense of what may be about to happen are far more of a turn on.
But that is my personal opinion - we are all different (and what a good thing that is too)!
Hugs, Alex x
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the only ones i do watch which have the more 'tender' scenes is the bi-fem ones.
Watching two women together in a porn film does absolutely nothing for me. That's the time to hit the FF button.
Steve
The FF button - are you poking fun now Teach?
I'd never poke fun at you Alex. Poke you? Yes. Have fun with you? Yes. Poke fun at you? Never.
Steve
PS - the F5 runs parallel to the M6 just outside of Wigan.
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the only ones i do watch which have the more 'tender' scenes is the bi-fem ones.
Watching two women together in a porn film does absolutely nothing for me. That's the time to hit the FF button.
Steve
The FF button - are you poking fun now Teach?
I'd never poke fun at you Alex. Poke you? Yes. Have fun with you? Yes. Poke fun at you? Never.
Steve
PS - the F5 runs parallel to the M6 just outside of Wigan.
Somehow I think I am going to be reminded of this from time to time!!!!!!!
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When i read the title, i thought this was gonna be about chocolate, wine, a good movie, a good man :twisted: , beauty regimes etc oops
oops One of the reasons the swingers stories on this site is so popular (the read xxx times gives that away) is because it feeds the imagination so well.
And thats exactly what the wham bam porn film doesn't do. There's definitely a place for it though and I'm sure most of us enjoy that sort of imagery when it suits us.
There's an organisation in the UK called the Erotic Print Society and they really do publish some fantastic stuff if you enjoy reading erotic stories etc. I don't mean to tout for business for them; and I don't have any vested interest, but I reckon that it should be supported as another business thats doing something in the 'alternative lifestyle' arena in a really well thought out way and not purely to extract as much cash as possible from people.
As it is a commercial organisation I won't post the url here but if anyone is interested and can't find them then PM me and I'll pass on their details.
:-D
SA
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And thats exactly what the wham bam porn film doesn't do. There's definitely a place for it though and I'm sure most of us enjoy that sort of imagery when it suits us.
There's an organisation in the UK called the Erotic Print Society and they really do publish some fantastic stuff if you enjoy reading erotic stories etc. I don't mean to tout for business for them; and I don't have any vested interest, but I reckon that it should be supported as another business thats doing something in the 'alternative lifestyle' arena in a really well thought out way and not purely to extract as much cash as possible from people.
As it is a commercial organisation I won't post the url here but if anyone is interested and can't find them then PM me and I'll pass on their details.
:-D
SA
XXX
I used to find it erotic, now I find it boring. If it's soft porn the seduction is endless and you want to say "get on with it", "show some passion", and if it's hard core it's too straight to the action and then still lacks passion. Lets face it, we all understand the mechanics OK, these are not supposed to be tuition vids are they?
When I'm hunting about for a bit of a stiffener these days I try and look for the amateur stuff, at least there's a real sense of feeling there.
When I'm hunting about for a bit of a stiffener these days I try and look for the amateur stuff, at least there's a real sense of feeling there.
