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their advances are rejected. I am always polite in response to a couple or female I might be chatting with in the chatroom when perhaps some single males might become offensive. Some people can be all nice and sweet when they think they still have a chance... but become aggressive and rude when their advances are rejected. Which makes me think that if I was part of a couple or a single female I would use this as a test to see how they react when that seemingly polite single male is told "no thanks". If they pass the test with a polite "okay, just thought I'd ask but sorry to trouble you" then they might actually be in with a chance with me wink
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Well, I don't know what others do or don't do, but I tend to think that " no thanks" means "no thanks", without imagining that there may be some sort of test going on, and being polite is the thing to do to pass that test.
Being polite is the right way to go through life. End of.
And no is no.
Oh but the rude nasty ones are fun, aren't they. The world would be boring without the nasties. Hehehehehehe :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
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@Blue
Indeed, that's because you are naturally well balanced and polite... and you would have passed the test. But there are some (probably in a minority) who might at first seem good but turn bad all too quickly. I'm just saying that a little observation of someone's reaction when they haven't got what they want is a good way to find out what they're really like. As my mum always used to say, "you never truly know a person until you've seen them angry!".
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@Blue
Indeed, that's because you are naturally well balanced and polite... and you would have passed the test. But there are some (probably in a minority) who might at first seem good but turn bad all too quickly. I'm just saying that a little observation of someone's reaction when they haven't got what they want is a good way to find out what they're really like. As my mum always used to say, "you never truly know a person until you've seen them angry!".

HHHmmmmmmm, have you ever met Blue ??
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Quote by Max_Million
their advances are rejected. I am always polite in response to a couple or female I might be chatting with in the chatroom when perhaps some single males might become offensive. Some people can be all nice and sweet when they think they still have a chance... but become aggressive and rude when their advances are rejected. Which makes me think that if I was part of a couple or a single female I would use this as a test to see how they react when that seemingly polite single male is told "no thanks". If they pass the test with a polite "okay, just thought I'd ask but sorry to trouble you" then they might actually be in with a chance with me wink

Hi Max
Not sure if you may have over thought this one. Obviously can not speak for anybody else but as blue says, no thanks means no thanks.
Don't think we have had anybody be rude to us or about us or have a go at us for it. If we have politely pointing out what it says on our profile. They usually either carry on chatting having not taken any offence or go quiet. (presumably because they are talking to someone else)
What we do find is the people how start the chat with a whisper saying "great (insert the body part you like best, usually tits) I only live round the corner from you, want some fun?" not having even said hi or read past are location, are not the most articulate and we (don't tell anybody this because it maybe against the rules) ignore there whispers. So we probably stop the rude ones before they start. Virtually everybody who has taken the time to "chat" has been very polite and respected that no thanks means no thanks.
Not sure if this helps
Herts
xx
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Yeah thanks for the advice, mind you i've always found that "fuck off" works quite well when ya don't want someone's attention.
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@ herts_darlings1
Yep, I think you're right... I think I'm over-thinking this one!
And your feedback is very helpful, thanks.
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@Blue
Indeed, that's because you are naturally well balanced and polite...

HHHmmmmmmm, have you ever met Blue ??
J & S
rotflmao :rotflmao: I just read that and did the blink face too
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@Blue
Indeed, that's because you are naturally well balanced and polite...

HHHmmmmmmm, have you ever met Blue ??
J & S
rotflmao :rotflmao: I just read that and did the blink face too
Is this mild mannered pussy cat Blue we're on about? :mrgreen:
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@Blue
Indeed, that's because you are naturally well balanced and polite...

HHHmmmmmmm, have you ever met Blue ??
J & S
rotflmao :rotflmao: I just read that and did the blink face too
yep' have to agree with the majority on this one ........... you have obviusly never met our pink an fluffy blue lmfao wink
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@Blue
Indeed, that's because you are naturally well balanced and polite...

HHHmmmmmmm, have you ever met Blue ??
J & S
rotflmao :rotflmao: I just read that and did the blink face too
yep' have to agree with the majority on this one ........... you have obviusly never met our pink an fluffy blue lmfao wink
Oh my goodness what have you all started now, Blue, pink and fluffy all in one quote!!
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@Blue
Indeed, that's because you are naturally well balanced and polite... and you would have passed the test..

I know I would have. I'm only ever polite when touting for a shag
But as for well balanced...... No. Stop blaspheming will ya