This is a long one so sorry but please read on.
There is a lot of negative feed back here Newbies Vs Oldbies. And it mostly comes from unsuccessful SINGLE (Married) men who think that all they have to do is log on reply to a few adds and hey there’s a queue for them GET REAL after all they are all Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise look a likes, and get this if they are looking for Pitt sorry Cruise your out of luck!!!
Me I’m a married man and consider myself a Newbie registered for about 6 months BUT I haven’t contributed much during that time. Me I’m just another one of the 20,000+ members and I’m not that special average in every way so I know why I’m not getting to meet others that’s reality.
So if you want to meet people how do you do it its simple be honest and if you are single you wont find the following to difficult
1. Get known in the forums
2. Get known in the chat rooms
3. Get invited to SOCIAL gatherings and bother to turn up and remember its social so do not expect an orgy but expect to go home as you arrived alone, but with the knowledge people have got to know you a little bit better, and with time will allow you into there lives.
4. Respect it if people don’t pick you they have there reasons although you may not agree its there prerogative.
5. Understand that these people have fulfilling sex lives and do this out of choice not need and can afford to be choosey. Its you that is in need.
As for them killing the threads yes some times its confusing and is more akin to the chat room, but its no different from meeting up with friends after a couple of weeks and there’s a new in joke grin and bear it.
MODS another area of complaint but hey I’ve always found them Fair, Humorous & Honest what more can you ask for.
So in conclusion if you don’t like it you wont be missed
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