Sex God
Here's the situation: You're in bed with a couple, either as a MMF threesome or MMFF with your missus. The other male starts paying some "attention" to you. How far would you let it go?
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A Question for the Str8 Males...
Whilst having sex with a MF couple:
I wouldn't mind brushing up against the other male, as long as it wasn't sexual.
I'd be OK with the other male touching my cock, provided all the attention was focused on his missus.
I'd be willing to let the other male masturbate me, but that's it!
If the other male wants to suck my cock, that's fine by me!!
Bring it on - with the right couple, I'd do anything!!!
I couldn't deal with any physical contact from the other male.
Orgasminator
I voted for option 2.
The odd brush against me would be fine, but if this continued I would be mentioning this to him.
But really this should be ironed out whilst talking do's / don'ts about the way the evening will proceed.
Better to get this clarified before hand so that all parties are happy & no1 ends up feeling put off by the experience.
The WHOOSH Man
The odd brush against me would be fine, but if this continued I would be mentioning this to him.
But really this should be ironed out whilst talking do's / don'ts about the way the evening will proceed.
Better to get this clarified before hand so that all parties are happy & no1 ends up feeling put off by the experience.
The WHOOSH Man
Sex God
Ok, OK, I'm not a straight male, but I really have to say my bit here - feel free to ignore it of course...
What I really CAN'T stand in MMF threesomes where one or both guys are straight is when they behave like rigid blocks of matter instead of looking like thier enjoying the experience.... What I mean is when the guys go to so much pain to NOT come into contact with each other in any way, shape or form. It looks stupid and it is not in any way, shape or form going to make for good sex!
OK, fair enough if you're straight, you'r straight, you can't help that, but for fucks sake if you're having a threesome and there are two guys present it doesn't mean if you brush against the other guy's arm that it means you're gay!!!!!
Chill out!
If you can't deal with minor contact with other guys MMF threesomes are not for you in reality! If you are into the greedy girl thing where guys all want to do one girl, you have to accept that there might be some contact between the guys. You ruin the experience for the girl if you behave like dick heads about it!
Jeez!
That's one reason why it is much more relaxed to do MMF threesomes with bi guys
Sorry, Reece - I didn't mean to send your thread off at a tangent, but that's the view of someone who's been there done it and who has decided that bi guys do it better
Well, no, actually, I've known a lot of straight guys who are very chilled out about threesomes, so I take that last sentense back
....... I'm just a bit wary cos so many guys behave like idiots in the presence of other males :roll:
What I really CAN'T stand in MMF threesomes where one or both guys are straight is when they behave like rigid blocks of matter instead of looking like thier enjoying the experience.... What I mean is when the guys go to so much pain to NOT come into contact with each other in any way, shape or form. It looks stupid and it is not in any way, shape or form going to make for good sex!
OK, fair enough if you're straight, you'r straight, you can't help that, but for fucks sake if you're having a threesome and there are two guys present it doesn't mean if you brush against the other guy's arm that it means you're gay!!!!! Chill out!
If you can't deal with minor contact with other guys MMF threesomes are not for you in reality! If you are into the greedy girl thing where guys all want to do one girl, you have to accept that there might be some contact between the guys. You ruin the experience for the girl if you behave like dick heads about it!
Jeez!
That's one reason why it is much more relaxed to do MMF threesomes with bi guys
Sorry, Reece - I didn't mean to send your thread off at a tangent, but that's the view of someone who's been there done it and who has decided that bi guys do it better
Well, no, actually, I've known a lot of straight guys who are very chilled out about threesomes, so I take that last sentense back
....... I'm just a bit wary cos so many guys behave like idiots in the presence of other males :roll: 
Sex God
I've voted for option 2 but I'm actually between options 2 and 3. I wouldn't object to deliberate non-sexual contact, nor would I be particularly bothered about him accidentally touching my old man, but I would not like deliberate sexual contact. If the lady wants a bit of double penetration, then contact between the males is unavoidable, which is fine as long as he doesn't think I fancy him. :P
Ice
Ice
Hi My ten -penneth from a female who enjoys MMF.
WE prefer bi-guys not becuase my hubby is bi in any way but because bi guys are so much more relaxed and are at ease with themselves and the couple they are with. Many men will do anything to screw someone elses wife and they think a 3some means stand in line cos obviously the hubby can't satisfy her and one on one off like a train shunt .... There are some positions in a " true" 3some that involve very close contact between the men ( many a time the guys nuts have slapped my hubby's head as he was paying lip service while the guy was doing me doggy
) That doesn't make the guy or my hubby Bi.... what it does mean is that the female can get the best out of a 3some without having to worry about tow men turning into school boys and freaking out cos of a bit of skin contact. Just my view on experience not a ctritisism on straight guys I havn't met. LOL. Oh!!! while i'm on this subject .... 9 times out of 10 when a guy asks to join us I ask "are you straight"? and the reply is mostly "yes" when i tell them I 'm only looking for bi guys !!! LO AND BEHOLD they become Bi !!! the best reply was " Well I'll fuck your hubby to get a fuck with you !!! " :D ( and no he aint been invited for a 3some!! )
.xX Jewcy Joanne Xx.
WE prefer bi-guys not becuase my hubby is bi in any way but because bi guys are so much more relaxed and are at ease with themselves and the couple they are with. Many men will do anything to screw someone elses wife and they think a 3some means stand in line cos obviously the hubby can't satisfy her and one on one off like a train shunt .... There are some positions in a " true" 3some that involve very close contact between the men ( many a time the guys nuts have slapped my hubby's head as he was paying lip service while the guy was doing me doggy
) That doesn't make the guy or my hubby Bi.... what it does mean is that the female can get the best out of a 3some without having to worry about tow men turning into school boys and freaking out cos of a bit of skin contact. Just my view on experience not a ctritisism on straight guys I havn't met. LOL. Oh!!! while i'm on this subject .... 9 times out of 10 when a guy asks to join us I ask "are you straight"? and the reply is mostly "yes" when i tell them I 'm only looking for bi guys !!! LO AND BEHOLD they become Bi !!! the best reply was " Well I'll fuck your hubby to get a fuck with you !!! " :D ( and no he aint been invited for a 3some!! ).xX Jewcy Joanne Xx.
I consider myself to be a straight male,but if in a threesome situation another man was to touch me and play with me i dont think i would have a problem as long as it was during a three way situation with another woman as well.
Im perfectly happy with my sexuality so wouldnt be shocked or bothered by it.
When Clare asked which one id voted for she was a bit surprized though!!!!
Steve,xxx
Im perfectly happy with my sexuality so wouldnt be shocked or bothered by it.
When Clare asked which one id voted for she was a bit surprized though!!!!
Steve,xxx
I think the theme from most couples here is relax let it go where ever the mood takes you.
2 experiences did it for me, the second ever mmf i was in the lady wanted suck us both at the same time. After about a seconds hesitation there was only one answer how would you like us to do it.
The second & defining experience for me was again a mmf situation. After a lot of oral between me & her her & me & him & her she told me to lie back & close my eyes & she'd finish me off orally, so I did as i was told. After i'd cum & looked up it turns out it was the husband that had finished me off. I have to admit to being a little shocked at first but after a few minutes thought, well to be honest i couldn't tell who it was & the orgasm was just as pleasurable as always so i thought what the hell. The next time i met them i asked if i could try it on him, & found it was a lot of fun especially the effect it had on the lady watching us. It turned out to be one of the best nights i'd had for a very long time. So since then i've always gone for couples looking for a bi male & wow have i had some fun.
In conclusion what i would say to you guys is think about this. if you like giving her oral pleasure & she does to, if she'll put a cock in her mouth then why not you? After all you've already gone some way there just by giving her oral.
2 experiences did it for me, the second ever mmf i was in the lady wanted suck us both at the same time. After about a seconds hesitation there was only one answer how would you like us to do it.
The second & defining experience for me was again a mmf situation. After a lot of oral between me & her her & me & him & her she told me to lie back & close my eyes & she'd finish me off orally, so I did as i was told. After i'd cum & looked up it turns out it was the husband that had finished me off. I have to admit to being a little shocked at first but after a few minutes thought, well to be honest i couldn't tell who it was & the orgasm was just as pleasurable as always so i thought what the hell. The next time i met them i asked if i could try it on him, & found it was a lot of fun especially the effect it had on the lady watching us. It turned out to be one of the best nights i'd had for a very long time. So since then i've always gone for couples looking for a bi male & wow have i had some fun.
In conclusion what i would say to you guys is think about this. if you like giving her oral pleasure & she does to, if she'll put a cock in her mouth then why not you? After all you've already gone some way there just by giving her oral.
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In conclusion what i would say to you guys is think about this. if you like giving her oral pleasure & she does to, if she'll put a cock in her mouth then why not you? After all you've already gone some way there just by giving her oral.
It sounds great in theory, but to be blunt I don't give oral sex to a woman because she likes it, I give it to her because I like giving it.
To put it another way, I wouldn't expect a woman to suck on any bits of me just to make me happy - if you don't like it, don't do it. Personally, I can't think of anything that'd turn me off more than watching someone do something they actively dislike, just in the hope of turning me on, but each to their own.Personally, I think if people are bi then good luck to them. (This is a bit where I reinforce I'm not homophobic by pointing out I have lots of gay friends - but actually I can't think of a single one.
I watch Queer Eye for the Straight Guy, does that count? ) Good luck to all the bi guys out there and all the fun they're having. But it's not something that's within everyone; I know because it's not something that's within me. (Been there, done that, still having nightmares about it.) Some people really are heterosexual. 
Orgasminator
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I have always considered myself, and still do for that matter, a straight male however i agree with Ice
Cant speak from experience yet though, however after search the dark recesses of my mind, lol, i dont believe id have any problems with some contact with another male, who knows with the right couple in the right situation i may go further.
I have always considered myself, and still do for that matter, a straight male however i agree with Ice
Quote by Ice Pie
I've voted for option 2 but I'm actually between options 2 and 3. I wouldn't object to deliberate non-sexual contact, nor would I be particularly bothered about him accidentally touching my old man, but I would not like deliberate sexual contact. If the lady wants a bit of double penetration, then contact between the males is unavoidable, which is fine as long as he doesn't think I fancy him. :P
Ice
Cant speak from experience yet though, however after search the dark recesses of my mind, lol, i dont believe id have any problems with some contact with another male, who knows with the right couple in the right situation i may go further.
Sex God
Thanks to everyone for your open and honest views on the subject. The main reason I posted this poll was to find out where I stood, statistically, as the male half of a bi-MF couple when it came to MMF (or MFMF) encounters. There are so many males who wouldn't dream of putting anything other than "Str8" in their profile - by far, these seem to be the overwhelming majority - and I just wondered, given the opportunity to express their views anonymously, if the balance might shift at least a bit toward the "bi-tolerant" end of the spectrum.
As a semi-bi male, I have to say that I'm certainly not opposed to the feel of a hard, throbbing cock in my mouth, gently grazing the tender flesh just below the head across my teeth before sucking it deep into the back of my throat and stroking the underside firmly with my tongue (oops, sorry, got carried away there!). And, if the other M cares to reciprocate, then it makes for a nice (and, in my experience, extremely stimulating) show for our female partner to enjoy in the event that she wants to take a little fuck-break!
But the one thing I cannot stand is any guy who would deliberately go out of his way to avoid touching me, as it makes for an uncomfortable situation all around. In my first MMF experience, at the tender age of 16, the other M involved turned out to be a serious homophobe! I couldn't get within 2 feet of him, and the casual brush against him whilst changing positions was met with derision. The worst bit is that this antisocial behaviour deprived our female partner of the DP experience she was so eager to try! *grrr*
That said, I have nothing against resolvedly-straight males, either. In fact, Vix & I enjoyed the company of one this past weekend. Fortunately, he didn't have a problem with casual physical contact from me, thus making activities like double penetration possible - and I certainly don't mind all of the sexual attention being centered on Vix...
~Reese!
P.S. ...although she did admit the next day that she felt a bit bad that we'd not yet had the opportunity to take another woman to bed for my benefit (and, to be fair, her benefit as well - since she's never had the experience). Eh, all in due time, I guess. ;)
As a semi-bi male, I have to say that I'm certainly not opposed to the feel of a hard, throbbing cock in my mouth, gently grazing the tender flesh just below the head across my teeth before sucking it deep into the back of my throat and stroking the underside firmly with my tongue (oops, sorry, got carried away there!). And, if the other M cares to reciprocate, then it makes for a nice (and, in my experience, extremely stimulating) show for our female partner to enjoy in the event that she wants to take a little fuck-break!
But the one thing I cannot stand is any guy who would deliberately go out of his way to avoid touching me, as it makes for an uncomfortable situation all around. In my first MMF experience, at the tender age of 16, the other M involved turned out to be a serious homophobe! I couldn't get within 2 feet of him, and the casual brush against him whilst changing positions was met with derision. The worst bit is that this antisocial behaviour deprived our female partner of the DP experience she was so eager to try! *grrr*
That said, I have nothing against resolvedly-straight males, either. In fact, Vix & I enjoyed the company of one this past weekend. Fortunately, he didn't have a problem with casual physical contact from me, thus making activities like double penetration possible - and I certainly don't mind all of the sexual attention being centered on Vix...
~Reese!
P.S. ...although she did admit the next day that she felt a bit bad that we'd not yet had the opportunity to take another woman to bed for my benefit (and, to be fair, her benefit as well - since she's never had the experience). Eh, all in due time, I guess. ;)
