Hi to all the ladies on here, I have a quick question for you? Do you like to use toys on your man's ass or do you like to see him use them on himself?
Yes, both. I think I might slightly prefer watching if the guy's comfortable doing it. I like it when he just uses a simple vibrator but makes good use of his hands and fingers, esp if he's up for fingering his ass. Best to be lying spread out on the bed with plenty of room to writhe about and make sure the legs can spread out fully for when he wants this. It's great if he can do a show for 15 minutes or so, just him and the vibrator on a big bed, using his fingers to help explore his ass and his big hands to cup and press his tight balls, vocalising his pleasure and telling himself how much he's enjoying himself (but not talking to me at all). I would be sitting nearby on a chair, legs splayed open, masturbating as my hips rock backwards and forwards, and lifting my huge breasts to my mouth so that I can suck on one of my nipples til it's standing to attention. We wouldn't speak to each other but would be oh so aware of each other as we worked up to simultaneous climax, my clit, large and wet, pulsing and radiating pleasure all over my body whilst he spurts all over his body. Only once our bodies have come to a rest would we touch. I'd go an lie beside him and we'd just hold each other for a while. Sorry this has gone on a bit, I think I need to relieve myself.
A straight womean shoving things up her partners arse is called pegging and as far as I'm concerned very erotic, no matter what the men say they love it! this is something my man and and me are trying - just got to find the perfect strap on!
Quote by MrMrsHunt My man is totally arse phobic As far as his arse goes anyway! He ain't got a problem with shoving things in mine!!!
Im sure if they invented a vagina shaped dildo he would come around! "Arse Phobic"?? Does Arse Phobia actually occur?.... If I had a phobia of having my arse played with, then I'd feel like I wasnt living life to the full Love it!
Me too Magik. Discovering new forms of pleasure hitherto unexplored and unavailable any other way is all part of the fun, and boy, it can be a LOT of fun. Takes some getting used to certainly but the first time you have a prostate orgasm from anal stimulation alone all that time and energy spent getting used to the sensation suddenly seems to have been very much worthwhile. As with most things in life, I'm firmly in the 'don't knock it until you've tried it' camp. Best try it more than once actually, just to make sure something wasn't amiss the first time if you didn't enjoy it, or it wasn't just a one off if you did. ;)
I know this question was aimed at the ladies but bear with me as I'll speak for both of us. Her - She loves using a strap on with me with a built in bullet for her. She gets to enjoy the sensation, empowerment and visuals of fucking me while getting (ahem) a buzz out of it herself Me - I love it as it's a whole new sensation and leads to a fabulous orgasm. It's also quite erotic not being the one in control and knowing she's having a great time too. For those chaps with ass-phobia, you're missing a real treat!
Yeah, the headspace is very interesting Andy, worth exploring all by itself. Total role reversal isn't it, being on the passive, receiving end with your partner adopting the more active, dominant role. The sub / dom thing adds greatly to the experience, above and beyond the merely physical. Don't even need the bullet with a good quality leather harness and dildo. Helps your partner feel more in control, and gives her some pleasurable feedback all by itself cos the base of the dildo is gonna put pressure on her clit as she thrusts. Good times man, good times. ;)
I have to put it in then the missus does the fucking. Really erotic for us both. Strangely can end in an ejaculation from a semi hard cock, still pleasurable though x
pegging if done right can be very good as does sounding rods tried both turned her on no end plenty of lube and dont rush it is my motto after all it is supposed to be fun xx