hey guys i am new to this site, well not to SH but to this forum, and i posted my last message i think in the wrong one i think! (thanks jamn20032003!!) basically i just joined the other day, wrote an introduction post about myself and all that, which is still on the dogging forum and no one replied to it, which i thougfht fair enough as im a 'newbie' so to speak, and i wasnt gonna let it get to me - these things take time. some peeps on other messages have said how it took them ages to be 'accepted', so i was stunned, as well as chuffed to bits when my next post after that got read by loads of people and a few even took the time and effort to write a reply. this really made my day yesterday, so if youre one of those people who raed or replied, and even if youre not and im saying this in advance, THANK YOU for putting a smile on my face