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A radio interview with steveg_nw.......

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Ok ok……..not a real radio interview but you get the drift. Just a bit of history, a few thoughts, a plug for the site and an ad………………
You’ve been using Swinging Heaven for a long time now haven’t you?
Not as long as some people but yes, I stumbled across the site about 18 months ago. It was only a small site when I found it and if it hadn’t been for the friendliness of the 7 or 8 people in the chatroom I probably wouldn’t have stayed long.
So what keeps you there now?
There are a lot of reasons. The people I’ve met, the friendships I’ve made, the sense of community. The site has been very successful, not just for me but for a lot of people.
So now you’re a fully fledged swinger?
Errrm………..not by my definition no.
How do you mean?
Different people have a different definition for a swinger. In my mind it is the couples that are the true swingers and the singles are sometimes invited to join in. By my definition I can’t be a swinger because I’m not in a relationship but if you were to ask me if I was involved in swinging then the answer would be yes.
Would you ever become a swinger?
I honestly don’t know. It doesn’t necessarily follow that two singles involved in swinging will become swingers if they form a relationship. They may be perfectly happy with the sexual side of their new relationship or they may just hate the idea of seeing their new partner with other people. Either way they could end their involvement in swinging altogether and I’ve seen that happen several times since I’ve been on the site.
Is everybody on the site involved in swinging?
Far from it. There is a huge range and diversity of people using the site. At one end of the scale you’ve got people that have no intention of getting involved in swinging but they enjoy the open forum and the freedom to discuss what others may regard as subjects and at the other end of the scale you’ve got people advertising to satisfy a one off fantasy that they may have. The swingers are somewhere in the middle but it’s the diversity that makes the site what it is.
How do you get involved?
It depends what you want to get involved in. If you just want to get involved in the site it’s as simple as registering a user name and joining in. Getting involved in swinging is a different matter. From a single guys perspective it can take a lot of hard work and patience. If you’re using the site to find a quick sexual encounter there’s a chance it might happen but getting involved in swinging takes a lot more effort.
Has the site worked for you?
Yes it has. I’ve met loads of different people I would never normally have met and have made some very good friends through it. It might not get shouted from the rooftops but the site has many success stories.
Have you found what you’re looking for?
No not yet. Sod’s law states that if I hang around here long enough an open minded, liberated female from the Lancashire area will come along and we’ll get on like a house on fire and form a swinging relationship. Well, that’s the plan anyway.
“This time next year Rodney, we’ll be millionaires!”
Steve
Very good ....... smile
IMHO probably one of the best posts on here in a while.
Now can I hire you to do the PR for my company???????
WOW
Very VERY good
Keep it up wink
The WHOOSH Man
I think you hit the nail on the head there, Steve - well done!! lol
Mal
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Bloody excellent Steve.. Sums it up just perfectly
Paul
Fantastic,Simply put,but put so well.
Clare,xxx
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Is it time for the listeners phone in now then?
No seriously that's a great post and just goes to show all those flashing lights in the chat room don't addle your brain after all.
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Now can I hire you to do the PR for my company???????

Somewhere out there is a job I'm sure I could excel at.......I just wish i knew what it was! dunno
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Is it time for the listeners phone in now then?

What do you want to know? Ask away............
Steve
dear steve, i listen to your show everynight.
i was wondering if you could play misty for me?
yours
WBB of nw
As a relative newbie to the site (5 months), I have found everyone to be welcoming, friendly, open and fun. Some nights (and days) in the chatroom I have nearly fell off my chair laughing at the cameraderie that goes on.
My aim when joining with site was to talk to other relaxed, like-minded individuals who didn't think that sex only happened when your married. What I didn't expect to happen was to make good friends who were there for you through the fun times and the sad times.
As a single female, I wanted to explore my sexuality and have fun in a safe environment where I didn't feel threatened, harrassed or put under pressure (as can happen in swinging clubs). This site certainly meets my criteria and exceeded my expectations.
The last mini-munch was a fantastic social experience that enabled me to put faces to names. I was made to feel welcomed and in the relaxed atmosphere I had a great time. Roll on the next party xxxxx
For me personally, I would like to thank the mods for ensuring the chatroom is a safe place to be in and for everyone as a whole for letting me be part of this fun site.
Hugs and kisses.
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Great post Steveg.....very insightful......
Very good Steve, many good observations. Just one thing, the questions were too easy, not exactly up to Paxman standard were they? "Come on, come on, come on, answer the question!" smile
Mike.