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A rose by any other name......

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now we all know that a name can give a first impression before a person has even met you
Think Sharons, Traceys, Nigels, Ethels, Kylies, Malcolms, Mildreds, Waynes, Sidneys, Britneys and Chardonays
Ethel Gumm did well to change her name to Judy Garland, Thomas Mapother IV to Tom Cruise,and similarly would anyone have taken Ralph Lauren seriously addressing him as Mr Lipschitz......and Im not sure that Florian Cloud de Bounevialle Armstrong would have fit on the cover of her CD lol
do you like your real name (obviously dont give it on here, unless you already do) and if you got carte blanche to change it....what would you pick? ?
something twee and demure, sexy and sassy, masculine and macho, or strong and traditional.
if you dont like your name, why dont you like it?, do you think it gives the wrong impression of who you are
I think Id like to be called something slightly mysterious and unusual like Mia or Renee :lol: I have one of 'those' names that gives the impression of a clueless airhead that dances round her handbag wearing white stilletoes and orange fake tan LOL
oooo lovely thread
i always wanted to change my name but i never knew what to
i have worked in many salons over the years where girls get to change their names due to there already being someone there with the same name and i hoped that one day i would get the chance to have some exotic name for a change instead of my boring name and even though when i started out in hairdressing that there were rediculous amounts of hairdressers with the same name as me the odds should of been in my favour but alas it never happened
i did get close once as there were 2 of us applying for jobs at a salon and i asked if i could be the one to change my name but the other girl didn't take the job in the end although when asked what i wanted to change it to i went blank and couldn't think of a name i liked after all
although the managers suggestion of doris recieved an icy glare lol
My mum picked my name out the newspaper. Fortunately one of my cousins suggested my middle name just in case I didn't like my first name... I use them both together but with a capital letter in the middle and I'm so anal it gets right up my nose when people spell it wrong. There's no hyphen or a space... just the capital letter. lol
I'm not sure I'd change it now though... can't say I've ever thought about what I'd like to be called instead. I'll ponder on for you Boney! wink
a hairdresser called Doris....specialise in blue rinses by any chance? :giggle:
hunny pie you take no notice your posts are always lovely and thought provoking i mean look you got me posting something other than griping which it seems all i post to do these days
you keep posting your lovely threads kiss
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hunny pie you take no notice your posts are always lovely and thought provoking i mean look you got me posting something other than griping which it seems all i post to do these days
you keep posting your lovely threads kiss

:inlove: awww thanks smile xx
The cleaners have been in, if any one has a problem my pm box is that way.<<
I like my name! and my swinging one for that matter!!
I used to hate my name, especially as it crops up regularly in hymns and kids can be so cruel. Now I like it, although I regularly have to correct people who try to make it longer than it is, as then it would be an old lady's name, and I ain't lol. I'm waffling a bit now, but anyone who knows my real name will understand.
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When i was a soppy teen i wanted to change my name to Arwen,(lotr geekess)Can u imagine how pretensious that would sound!

rotflmao
well had i been a boy my mother wanted to call me Aubrey pretty glad i'm a girl i can tell ya lol
Actually I've never had a problem with my name.
I was given duncanlondon N8 and my surname is swinger.rolleyes
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When i was a soppy teen i wanted to change my name to Arwen,(lotr geekess)Can u imagine how pretensious that would sound!

rotflmao
well had i been a boy my mother wanted to call me Aubrey pretty glad i'm a girl i can tell ya lol
I quite like Aubrey for a girl.
I got the boys spelling of my name regardless. I think they may have given me a different middle name if I'd have been a boy!! :lol:
aubrey :giggle: oh the images that conjures up!
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aubrey :giggle: oh the images that conjures up!

Reminded me of a lad we used to hang out with... that was his nickname. I may look him up on Facebook when I get home. lol
Thankfully - not many people outside family know my real name. I was named after one of aunts who is a lovely lady but I don't like the name for me. Everyone calls me by part of my pet name that my dad called me when I was little un.
Bit of a pain where I work as all of us have the same first name confused :? lol
lol might be an idea to choose your words carefully when laughing at a name - it could be the real name of a person on here.
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When i was a soppy teen i wanted to change my name to Arwen,(lotr geekess)Can u imagine how pretensious that would sound!

rotflmao
well had i been a boy my mother wanted to call me Aubrey pretty glad i'm a girl i can tell ya lol
I quite like Aubrey for a girl.
I got the boys spelling of my name regardless. I think they may have given me a different middle name if I'd have been a boy!! :lol:
I never knew that was a girls name, I think I prefer it as a girls name....wow you learn something new every day, I like the meaning of it though.
My name is Sandy and I quite like it, I always have and wouldnt change it for the world and when I joined SH I was Sandybeach so people still called me by my name without realising it :grin:
when i was young i never liked my name, i wanted to be called Bernadette dunno
as ive got older its not bothered me until i saw it in your list of examples blink
now im wondering what people are thinking about me based on my name lol (Tracey)
however i much prefer my profile name and wish i could use it in my vanilla life :wave2:
I love old names - really old names.
Guineviere, Aelwyn, that kind of thing. Edith and Hilda are in there - really old beautiful names. But now sadly associated with hair-nets and curlers.
I hated my name - my first and middle names shorten to SandyLou. And my Mum would hollar this across public places. I ask you! How could I maintain any kind of front of elegant maturity to a fellow 12 year-old on Scarborough sea-front with that following me?
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My mum picked my name out the newspaper. Fortunately one of my cousins suggested my middle name just in case I didn't like my first name... I use them both together but with a capital letter in the middle and I'm so anal it gets right up my nose when people spell it wrong. There's no hyphen or a space... just the capital letter. lol

So anal you spell OCD in alphabetical order you mean? :lol: bolt
It's a bit bloody late to be telling me about the hyphen thing though innit? How long is it you've been letting me spell it wrong? confused rolleyes
Duly noted! :notes:
N x x x ;)
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My mum picked my name out the newspaper. Fortunately one of my cousins suggested my middle name just in case I didn't like my first name... I use them both together but with a capital letter in the middle and I'm so anal it gets right up my nose when people spell it wrong. There's no hyphen or a space... just the capital letter. lol

So anal you spell OCD in alphabetical order you mean? :lol: bolt
It's a bit bloody late to be telling me about the hyphen thing though innit? How long is it you've been letting me spell it wrong? confused rolleyes
Duly noted! :notes:
N x x x ;)
Should it be DirtyGirly then? :bolt:
lol :lol: :lol:
Dave, I actually had to look long and hard to see what you did there? Capitalisation is obviously below my radar? At least, that's me excuse, and I'm sticking to it. ;)
Anyways, back on topic . . . daft bloody names . . .
My real name is actually Neil ((( Capital N for DGs benefit. I'm so dead! :scared: ))) as you all probably know. I don't mind it. T'was a reasonably good name for a child born in the late 60s I s'pose. Me middle name though? I dunno what they were thinking? I foolishly let slip my middle name at school, and it took the best part of 20 years to get rid of the 'orrible 3 letter nick I was saddled with from that point on, much to me mam's annoyance. She hated my mates calling me it, which begs the question, why did you give me it then? confused She probably didn't really think it through, but as if it wasn't bad enough that I was given a rubbish middle name, my parents couldn't even spell it right. rolleyes It's got an i and y in it. Not two chuffin y's FFS. One i, one y. :doh:
N x x x ;)
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My mum picked my name out the newspaper. Fortunately one of my cousins suggested my middle name just in case I didn't like my first name... I use them both together but with a capital letter in the middle and I'm so anal it gets right up my nose when people spell it wrong. There's no hyphen or a space... just the capital letter. lol

So anal you spell OCD in alphabetical order you mean? :lol: bolt
It's a bit bloody late to be telling me about the hyphen thing though innit? How long is it you've been letting me spell it wrong? confused rolleyes
Duly noted! :notes:
N x x x ;)
Should it be DirtyGirly then? :bolt:
Yes it bloody well should... you've NO idea how much it makes me twitch! redface
And Nellie... I don't know that I've ever noticed you spelling it wrong. :lol:
And CDO is exactly right! :smile2:
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lol might be an idea to choose your words carefully when laughing at a name - it could be the real name of a person on here.
Quite!
Will rolleyes
The names I chose were all random from people i know, and my own is included......not indened to poek fun at peoples names, more to see if anyone would change their names, and if so what would they pick......
for instance would any of the guys choose to be called Vin (Diesel) Vinnie (Jones), Rocky, Tyson or something equally manly, or would they go for their sporting hero, and would women prefer something different to add mystique...something with a foreign accent/spelling, or the name of a pin up girl e.g Marliyn, Jayne, Audrey, Sophia or Bo?
"Will" started off as a cruel piece of teasing at school - but then turned into a term of endearment by my friends and I adopted it and made it my own.
Now, I am only known by my real name at work and by close relatives who insist on still using it.
On the rare occasions that people find out my real name the reaction is usually "Oh no, you're far more like a Will." I agree.
I have had something of a Shakespeare fixation since I was at school (which was part of the original problem), and now I have even come to look like him (see my profile if you don't believe me!).
Will suits me fine. My real name makes me sound as if I should wear tank tops and still live with my mother - and believe me that's a truly terrible thought! :scared:
Will
When I was young my mother used to call me Jesus.
Jesus....what have you done now!!!
I like my name although it does get shortened by most people who talk to me, most will revert back to the full one once I explain that I dont like the Gills and Gilly but some still insist on shortening it.
Muriel - my nannas name and I love it.
My name doesn't bother me either way, most people call me Sassy anyway or Sas, Sal etc.
That said, I don't ever use my full name as it's all a bit posh for a working class girl from inner city Manchester! lol I did use it briefly when I went to uni, but ignored tutors when they used it as I didn't realise they were talking to me!
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Slight derail,but do you ever find there are some people off here you cant imagine by their real names,their chosen one suits them so well?

Yep, i do that with Noladreams and Cherrytree -I think of them as them Nola and Cherry, and to me they suit those names very well lol